I'm in the mood for a friend with benefits in my life. In my free time I like to watch movies, read, dance, listen to music, and try new fun pursuits. I get along best with people who can talk about something besides sex or sports. I like people who have positive attitudes, passion, and confidence. For me a perfect Friday night is a great dinner, a hot club, then back to my place for more intimate activities. But there are also nights that I like to have a quiet night at home sharing some wine and an classic movie. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting. If you contact me bear in mind that I'm just looking for a friend with benefits, not a soulmate. I'm a current grad student and I work full time, I can't be invested in a relationship because my mind is focused primarily on school. I am new to online dating and feel a bit shy, but I'll come out of my shell with some gentle coaxing. Let's try to be friends first, chat me up, let's see where it goes. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Movies: swingers, inception, the big sleep, citizen kane, hannah takes the stairs, religulous, stranger than fiction, singin in the rain, annie hall, manhattan TV: it's always sunny, parks and rec, freaks and geeks, home movies, the critic, oblongs, the closer, 30 rock Books: the rum diary, the bell jar, the stranger, white oleander, how the light gets in