UPDATE: I've reduced my smoking to less than 10/day, started walking and pumping iron, and am SLOWLY getting myself back in shape – still have a gut I don't like, and an overdeveloped sense of honesty ... I love sex of all kinds, but I especially enjoy giving massages, and oral to women...to me, my partner's pleasure is more important than my own, which means I won't enjoy it if you don't! I'm discrete, and have no wish for drama, or to mess up anyone's marriage. Just looking for some no-strings sex! I'm patient, and like to make friends before just hopping in the sack, but, if I feel you're dragging your feet about meeting, I'll find someone else, fast...I've been contacted before by women who either didn't REALLY know what they wanted, or were just flirting with the idea of being naughty...it's pretty frustrating when someone's given you the impression they want to get together, then they never seem to be available!

My Ideal Person I can find something beautiful in almost any woman...I have no jealousy, so I'm not interested in hooking up with someone who'll try to own me, nor am I interested in owning anyone myself. If you're a little shy, ok, I can deal with that, but if it's going to take 3 months before I can enjoy your body, then I'll pass...if you're inexperienced, I'm gentle and love to teach...if you can teach ME a thing or two, even better! Have a sense of humor, and think of sex as fun, not sacred, and we'll get along fine! Race, and age are not an issue --- open-mindedness IS...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
LOL! Then what would we have to talk about???

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't have fantasies about celebrities...I very
much prefer the girl next door! For me, a fantasy must be
believable, or it's no good...I can't see myself
ever getting into a situation where I'd be able to approach
a Celeb. The girl next door, on the other hand, could show
up anywhere, at any time, giving me signals, or responding
to mine!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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