All bottled up. Is that bondage? Have I gotten myself into a bind I'll never get out of? I do wonder. Have sought to amuse myself for years by taking solo kink photos, to the point that I get something out of it as art for art's sake, or used to, anyway; the well might be running dry. At best, it's been a way to let out some of that sex, creativity and darkness all bound up so politely inside, to let it rudely spill out, dangle, bounce, wiggle, drool, drip, spurt in carelessly obscene display, if only for an indifferent camera eye. At worst, it's a lonely, masturbatory exercise where every shot misses. So here I am. Oh, to conspire with a creative playmate who might have a twisted mind and imaginings she might be willing (or even eager) to allow some air. Voyeuristic shutterbug? Knotty rigger? Sadistic contortionist? Muse with a whip? Who goes there? Perhaps we'll meet someday, if you're not too tied up.

My Ideal Person Wherefore art thou, honesty and trustworthiness? Are they to be found in the way-out-kinky club? And how do you know who's got 'em? Is there a secret handshake that only the truly honest, trustworthy ones know?

Oh, well. As long as I'm going on about ideals: The words safe, sane and consensual should mean a lot to you.

Beyond that: Well, we've got to leave something to the imagination ... isn't that the fun of getting to know a person?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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