We are a married couple (me 43, wife 43) with s. We live in the 13 and Woodward area. Both working professionals, clean, respectful, and VERY discreet. We actually have never done anything like this. We are not pic collectors or game players. This is something we have been talking about and is not something that would happen immediately. Obviously having s, etc. it would take some planning for a night out, hotel room etc. My wife and I started watching porn during sex. We started playing MFM porn and it turns her on like crazy. This got us thinking and talking about trying it. However, we are still nervous about trying. Nervous about finding a safe, nice, attractive, discreet guy. This is all about pleasing her. I've told her that it is a major turn on to think about her with another guy. We've tried to have her flirt with guys a few times when we were out of town etc but no luck actually going through with it. A couple weeks ago we went to a concert at Motor City Casino and got a room there for the night. We had some drinks and after the concert went back to the room for a drink and watched some MFM porn. We were both super horny and we came back down to the casino to find someone. She kept telling me how horny she was and asking me about how she should approach guys. She wanted me to pick out a few for her. Long story short, not a very good crowd for this that night. However she was READY to try it. Anyway, the few times we have tried spur of the moment like that while out have not worked. Our thought was maybe we start to look for a few options that could be at the hotel/bar we are at. Would be so hot to have her sit at the bar and have guys hit on her and flirt/play with her at the bar. Again just wanted to try to meet a few good options so when we do plan out next night away we can set something up so it really happens. Just please realize that we both work, have s, etc so it is not often that we get nights out like this but we REALLY want to try it. Anyway, again not game players, really want her to try this but just have to be patient for the right timing. Would love to hear your thoughts and if you would like to chat more about this. Our email is Adult FriendFinder