What I'm open to . . . what I'm open to . . . well, let's start with this: I like a woman I can talk to, so she has to be pretty bright. Not because I'm into a lot of overly cerebral discussions, but because even with simple topics, I enjoy quick banter. It's fun, especially with a lover. Conversation, even if it's not even remotely sexual, can be such great foreplay.

My Ideal Person One thing that turns me on is a woman's clothes. Sundresses, sexy blouses, lingerie, I love it all. Yeah, I know what you're thinking - "What man doesn't?" Well, for me, the appeal is that a woman's clothes are such a great part of the foreplay. Not just in the slow "unwrapping," but even in the "touches." Feeling your bra strap through your blouse while we hug. Sneaking a feel over your skirt. Catching a peak of your bra between the buttons of your top. Damn, that gets me going. So, let's see . . . so far, you've discovered that I like smart women . . . who wear clothes! I don't see a checkbox for 'Passionate Kissing' so I'm boycotting the checkboxes until they include it.

Don't get me wrong, I like sex as much as the next guy (okay, maybe a little *more* than the next guy.) But what I miss most are those passionate kisses. The kind that make my heart race and make me feel like it's Senior Prom all over again. Now, if this amazing kiss happens to be with a smart woman who's wearing clothes, so much the better. Although . . . I suppose naked can be nice, too.