When I go out, it's about finding something new to do, and enjoying it. I've always been good at making plans and following through on them. Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. It feels good. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I look forward to putting the recent past behind me. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting. If you contact me remember that emails with a naked photo get special consideration.