Hi there, If we have not even messaged each other at ALL, PLEASE don't send me a 'friend request'!!! DOH!!! I love being active. I love humor, human nature, nature, learning, sharing. I love to laugh. Some of my goals are eliminating 'rubber neckers' and destroying 'male bashing'. I treat people the way I wish to be treated. I am a "Standard" member and CAN NOT see your profile. That being said, if you are interested, give time time to communicate with each other. I am an attractive, funny, smart, sexy, loving life woman. I do enjoy spending time getting to know someone. I love to have intelligent & stimulating conversations. I love to have witty, sarcastic, humorous, joking conversations. Self awareness is a very attractive quality. The desire to grow, the chances to learn, and to continue on a path of gratitude/happiness is the priority for me. Exercise is what I am into in order to be healthy so I don't have to write in my profiles that I am a big girl.

My Ideal Person I would love to meet someone who works out regularly, who would love to join me sometimes in helping me get back the body that i can't wait to get back again. Someone who is turned on by the fact that I AM doing something about it.
I am a very sexual woman. Sex is an important part of any good relationship, but it is not an aspect to judge a relationship by. Do I like to be pleased?? You bet. Do I like to please my man?? You better believe it!!
I do like 'old fashioned' gentlemen; the type that is giving in heart, mind, and spirit.
I am not looking for "hook-up". I can get that anytime. I am looking for someone who really wants to have a healthy, committed relationship.
Of course I know that this doesn't occur overnight.
I have been accused of being 'blatantly honest'. So if you are like the far left and 'ridiculously over sensitive', then we won't be a good match.

When sending messages, Please say SOMETHING that lets me know you have a grasp on the English language and that you just might be able to carry on a conversations let alone have something to say. LOL

I'm not looking to train any 'puppies', so if you are young enough to be my kid, then please move on to someone who wants to be a 'momma'.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Mellisa Ethridge, Peter Gabriel, Leonard Cohen, Yes,
Phil Collins, Classic R&B/Soul, Classical

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am getting ready to travel some. Depending on if I am in
a relationship is a factor in one of my fantasies. <br><br>
If I am traveling alone: Once I settle in to my new surroundings
and start to get to know a couple of people who live in the
area, I would love to meet someone who is staying or living
there for awhile. I would like to begin a very sweet and passionate
relationship/affair. After showing me some of the native non-tourist areas and
having a very fun, exciting, wonderful time; the attraction
would start to overwhelm us. Allowing our wants and desires
to be shared would lead to such wonderful sex. Constantly kissing and touching each other would always
lead to being naked, to so much kissing and touching and
licking and sucking. We would be fucking all the time, not
being able to keep our hands off of each other. Sometimes
it would be a quicky, and sometimes our plans would be delayed
because we would not leave the bed.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Years ago...Daniel J Travante..from Hill Street Blues.
He reminded me so much about someone I met when I was 17. Sean
Connery was always a fav. Kevin Costner. Many more. I have
a great imagination, so fantasizing has never been a problem.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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