Ok, here I am not sure what to say or what to do. I have been slammed for being honest, but I don't want to lie. And this is an adult site, thought we were all here seeking out different desires and needs, but some people seem to be judge and start bashing me; Here is a thought, you do you and live your life, and you let me do me and live my life.
I am married, have a home and a family and . Marriage has become stagnant and stale. Though we live in the same house and play our roles to keep the family together, maintain friendships, and keep our careers functioning since we work together, when we are alone it is as if we are strangers. There is no talk, there is no conversation, there is no intimacy. I miss and long for all of that. I have tried talking to her, tried romancing and courting here, planning trips and events. We even tried counselling a few times with the results be just temporary improvements in our relationship. I want it to work, but not sure if it will, but in the mean time I would like to find a friend or a few friends to talk with, maybe to meet occasionally for some activities of similar interest and what ever else may come our way.
I do enjoy things like hiking and camping, kayaking and canoeing, fishing, bike riding (pedal bikes). I love taking pictures out doors.
My Ideal Person Not sure about what would be ideal, perhaps someone in a similar situation with similar needs, that is patient and understanding.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
