Friendly, educated single 45M with a dry sense of humor and a kinky side. Looking for friendship or LTR with a smart, sexy woman who likes to laugh. I like good-old-fashioned bed-rocking sex as well as spicing things up. I enjoy straight MFM, no m/m, all attention on her. I love a woman who wants more and find the "sharing" dynamic very erotic. I have some past experience with this (sharing my ex and joining two couples as a third). I'd do this again with the right woman or couple, preferably as ongoing friendship. I'm reliable, respectful, patient, clean, safe, drama-free, and discreet. HWP, nicely hung and thick. I have pics to share upon request and/or if I write you.

My Ideal Person Smart attractive 30-50yo woman, or an easygoing couple who need a straight (not bi) male for her pleasure.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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