First off we'd like to say this all seems kind of ass backwards to us. On AFF you have decided you want to have sex outside your relationship, so you start contacting people, or they are contacting you, with that premise in mind. That's backwards to us. We meet people in the course of life and sometimes we become friends. Then with a choice few, a sexual attraction develops and we decide to become lovers. That being said... We like to play with women, men, or couples. Sometimes we play together, and sometimes we play separately. Sometimes one or the other of us just wants to watch until we just can't stand it any longer. But no matter what, there are never any secret meetings. We tell each other everything. In fact we kind of get off on telling each other about our encounters. We would love to find a couple that we can hang out with outside the bedroom. Camping, amusement parks, Harley rides, etc. We are open to lots of different situations and have already tried some things you may find hard to believe. We certainly have some stories we could tell. Single men... good luck. I have no objection but she has not showed any interest in meeting with a single guy that she sees on line. I don't think she has ever even written to one. It seems she is only interested in single men when we meet them by chance at the bar. You single men on line are welcome to try...but don't hold your breath. We are not Ken and Barbie and we are not looking for them either. We like to meet people for drinks and hang out at the bar together, play some darts, sing some karaoke, and see if anything clicks. There are no expectations on our part and we would expect the same from you. If either party doesn't like what they see, we just all go our seperate ways. If there are sparks, then there are no limits to where it can go. We have found that we would rather get to know you a little. As it turns out we prefer to sleep with someone we like and enjoy hanging out with. Call us old fashion, but we won't jump into bed with total strangers. BE ADVISED We will ask you for face pictures before we meet. If you are not willing to send us face pictures, dont bother asking us to meet.

My Ideal Person He likes more mature women and prefers them a little fuller figured.
She prefers the younger cowboy type. No offense to the black man but she is just not into it.
One dilema we are having is, she likes them young, he likes them older, but with almost every couple out there the man is older than the woman.
So with our varied interests, we have found ourselves playing separately for the most part.
We limit our friends network to those we have met, or really want to meet. We don't collect friends in our network if there is no chance we will eve meet. So don't be offended if we reject your invite. If we invite you and it becomes apparent that you dont want to meet, we will delete you.

There are no absolutes, but generally speaking,
We are probably not interested if...
1. Your man is 10 years older than you.
2. Your man is black.
3. You are looking primarily for a BI female.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Conway Twitty, Johnny Cash, Loretta Lynn

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
FOR HIM : Black is beautiful. <br><br>
Speaking in generalities of course, I find black people
of both sexes to be the most beautiful people on earth. Yes
I know, generalizing can get you into so much trouble. I
know there are exceptions to every rule. <br><br>
Still, I have to give the black man credit. More often than
not, tall, handsome, muscular, and generally well endowed.
It would be hard to compete with that. <br><br>
However... the women... Dark smooth skin, big dark eyes,
full wet lips, and high cheekbones. The women have more
of a shape to them, and the fuller the figure, the better
the curves. Nothing turns my head like a sexy back woman.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Angelina Jolie Clint Black

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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