How to describe myself? I'll go with AFF profile #1. I'm 6 feet tall, fit, in my early 40's, nice looking, smart, have a good sense of humor, conversant on many topics, love to eat, drink, and cook, am well traveled, have an active social life and am unbelievably normal. Of course, whether all of that is true is in the eye of the beholder. You all have seen that description thrown around so much that we may as well just call it profile #1. It's generic, safe, largely superficial and, when combined with the tawdry tidbits that we can disclose in our profiles, allows you to fill in the blanks and imagine your perfect match. Unfortunately, the flesh and blood rarely matches up. So do I believe that profile describes me? Yes. Will you? Who knows. I can tell you what I like and admire in others and maybe that will give you some more insight into me. I like women with empathy, kindness, taste, humor, an appreciation of 3 Michelin stars, an appreciation of slumming it, irreverence, powerful thirsts, Belgian lace, and steel-toed work boots.

My Ideal Person Looking for someone that is cool. Pretty basic. Where it goes, who knows. To be honest, there is a thrill in meeting someone and seeing what happens, especially when you've already vetted sexual preferences via this site. I'm not here to lead anyone on or make promises I can't keep -- I just enjoy people, find them fascinating, and get a thrill and an affirmation when I confirm there are great ones walking around among us.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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