Hello Ladies, I'm not the tallest guy around but I make up for it but I make up for it with perality, compassion, and treating people with respect and dignity. I always treat women with that same respect and dignity. I can be very passionate know how romance takes a lady's breath away. I know how to use discretion and if a woman wants a no strings attached relationship, that's OK with me. I like to get to know my partner before anything serious happens. Using the computer is a nice way to start with short letters and chatting. I like to chat a lot in the Great Lakes Room and you're invited to come and join in the banter and conversations. I'm not sure if I'm looking for love but a good friend is a great way to start any relationship. I tend to be a little slow reading signs if a woman likes me. But that's why it's so important to get to know someone first. I am clean cut with a mustache and cleanliness is my best friend LOL. I am not a player nor do I like being played. I know the difference between just raw sex and making love and can incoporate that knowlege in my love making. I am educated and have traveled the world while in the military. I don't bore easily and can always find an adventure where ever I'm at. I do smoke and I hope to quit before it's too late but if you don't smoke and don't like smoking around you, I can be accomodating. I'm not a druggy and I'm D/D free. I don't drink to excess and not considered a heavy drinker. I like to have a few drinks while at parties and if I'm too drunk, I don't drive. From my pics, you can see I'm G rated, but watch out when the bedroom door closes. The sky is the limit in privacy between a man and a woman. Kissing. I love kissing a woman so that we both take our breaths away. Kissing is that spark that lights the fires of lust in us and I know this. If I can't kiss you, I can't make love. I like the seduction in a relationship too. I'm a firm believer that the brain is the biggest sex organ we have. The whole goal I guess is let's have fun. I'm the outdoorsy type and enjoy fishing and hunting. I have labradors and enjoy working with them. They're much more than just pets to me, they're my hunting partners. I like traveling so much, I'm willing to go 200 miles to parties in Michigan to see friends I'm made on this site. I can travel to other places too, not just Michigan. I'm a free bird, I have no attachements, I also have a job and have a good work ethic. If you'd like to contact me, just drop me a wink or write me an email here and we'll see what happens. One more note. I am considered a pretty nice guy and I'm not patting myself on the back. LOL I have references. Drop by in the Great Lakes chatroom, there are people in there I've met and they will stand up for me. Whatever happens, I hope we all enjoy our lives to the fullest and hope to hear from future friends. Take Care and Have a Fantastic Day. Sincerely, Philip

My Ideal Person Oh wow, here's where I get to tell you the kind of woman I want WEEEEEEEEEEEEE. How bout the all American male's dream of a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets LOL. First and foremost I want her to be a friend. Since I'm not a player, I would like to find the same kind of woman. I'd like to find a friend that has her head screwed on and knows and understands that life is change and we're all changing all the time. How about a woman that knows how to dress for the occasion. Any occasion? I tend to be a little dominant in the bedroom but I like the woman to take the lead once in a while too. I've mentioned before it would be nice to have a freak in the sheets. She can be bi, but hey, share with me too LOL. Personally, I'm as straight as a man can be. I'm not homophobic but that's a lifestyle I would like to stay clear of completely. I love to use toys in my sex and hope my partner does too. Tease me and make me watch while you get yourself off. I also like to watch porn and watch it together. PDA's are a required part of my relationships. I like a woman that isn't afraid to be touchy feely with me even in public. And a woman that has a kinky imagination is great too. C'mon, we're adults here and lets use our minds to turn each other on. As far as looks, I like a woman that is proportionate in weight and height. She can be a little overweight, I am. I like a woman that is truthful both to me and herself. If she says she has a little extra padding and she is in fact BBW, she's lying to herself and everyone else. So let's be honest here. I like a woman that knows how to use a little makeup and make herself pretty for me. I promise I will show you and tell you my appreciation. I don't like a lot of drama and I know there are a lot of divorcees and single mothers out there. I have no problem as long as they do what they can to keep their drama to a minimum. If you have children, that is OK too. Personally, I do not want any more kids of my own. I'm 51 for crying out loud and babies are not what I'm looking for in my life LOL. Age wise, I feel I can see a woman in her 30's up to mid 50's.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Something that needs to be discussed

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. Most of the celebrities come across to me as
fake and they don't do much for me. But if I were to choose
one, it would have to be Emily Procter off CSI Miami. She's
a tiny woman with a super hot face and body to die for. I love
her voice too. So southern and proper. I'm sure she's
a total opposite in the bedroom though.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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