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rm_sfgouki 35 M
2  Articles
Oh Crap....I Cheated....Now what?   8/13/2004

Ok...so you cheated on your loved one. You have to admit, this stuff happens all around you, so don't go bawling and worrying your ass off. Shit happens, you just gotta live with it. Now if you can't do that, then you gotta ease the weight off your shoulder right, so you don't feel too guilty. I mean one way or another, s/he has to know. So just come through straight, tell them your sorry ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 41 Votes ,4.73 Score
i just turned 35 where did my life go   8/12/2004

today i turned 35 and had been dreading it for weeks because it made me feel older some how .i had been married once for 4 years , been divorced , was in 2 long term realtionships but none of that lasted , so i keep going ahead and going through life thinking maybe one day i will meet the one .so in the mean time i though why not have some fun and go on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site and hook up with some guys, and ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 46 Votes ,7.96 Score
How to enjoy life to the fullest with your spouse   8/10/2004

Me and my wife were married at the age of 20 and 18for her. We have now been married for 10 years and are still very much in love with one another and know that their cannot never be anything come between us. We have been thru alot in the 10 years, and being married a t such a young age everybody expected that it would never work, but we proved them wrong. The one thing that we contribute ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 33 Votes ,5.44 Score
what happened to the true realtionship   8/9/2004

ok i understand this is a sex site but when you first sign up there is a box you can check for a seriouse realtionship , which now i know the chances of some guy on here lookin for that is gone because why be with one girl when you can have more than one girl , has any one ever stopped to think that this friends with benfits thing is just there way guy /or girl validating being with more ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 28 Votes ,6.73 Score
Trust   8/9/2004

The only thing I can say is follow your heart. You may break it now and then but if you find that right person, you could live your dreams. <br> If you want a long fantastic life .....Just trust yourself and your partner and live everyday as if was your last.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 21 Votes ,6.34 Score
cantwait427 73 F
3  Articles
RE be careful how you start out   8/8/2004

I agree, be careful how you start out. Most women react to what they hear and read, so if guys act right away as if they have met the love of their lives, they are inviting trouble. Be realistic and honest and don't rush things. If you turn out to be really good friends, 300 miles won't keep you apart.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 43 Votes ,7.70 Score
5 ways to Refresh your Relationship   8/6/2004

A relationship is like a delicate rose bush. If you care for it, it will bloom year after year with unsurpassed beauty. If you don't, you might end up with a dull, lifeless entity that is struggling to survive. Below are five ideas to keep your relationship in bloom for years to come. <br> If you are single, read these tips with an eye on what you will want to do in a long-term ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 43 Votes ,8.75 Score
Good Relationship Tips   8/6/2004

Don't let your relationship become dull and boring. Here are some great tips on having the sexiest love affair ever! <br> 1. Go off on an unplanned road trip with your honey....in the middle of the week. <br> 2. Send your honey a bouquet of flowers to his/her work...sign it "from your secret admirer". <br> 3. Mail your honey a naughty letter to their ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 45 Votes ,7.83 Score
The Tea Cup   8/5/2004

The Tea Cup <br> A couple shopping in a beautiful antique store. Spotting an exceptional cup, they asked "May we see that? We've never seen a cup quite so beautiful." <br> As the lady handed it to them, ; suddenly the tea-cup spoke, "You don't understand." It said, "I have not always been a tea-cup. <br> There was a time when I was just a lump of ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 27 Votes ,6.82 Score
honey7228 36 F
1  Article
honesty is key. we all know that, and yet....   8/3/2004

When it comes to building a relationship(especially one where swinging is involved) honesty is key. If you don't have honesty you don't have anything. Everyone knows that. Still we all find ourselves questioning our partner as to there faithfullness. Questioning them and being questioned in return. We all start out promising honesty and truth to one another and despite our best ...


2 Comments, 40 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
rm_ILLYBBW 32 F
4  Articles
Be   7/30/2004

Honestly. this is not the place to be looking for someone to have a relationship with! Try friend finder! If your wanting to build a relationship I'd say start by looking somewhere else!


0 Comments, 7 Views, 23 Votes ,4.30 Score
rm_ILLYBBW 32 F
4  Articles
honestly, already   7/30/2004

OK so look elsewhere if you want a relationship. But for those of you who are on here and already have a relationship my advise is that you should be looking at your own relationship rather than on here for sex!


0 Comments, 16 Views, 31 Votes ,6.69 Score
kamas4u 68 F
4  Articles
getting to know each other   7/29/2004

sometimes i wonder why most men just want to meet and have sex most of the time...why not build a relationship first and then feel free to do whatever both want to do..its so much easier and a bit safer then to meet just to have sex with somebody you dont even know....i have tried many times to chat for a while first and most of the time it has worked...others just dont even want to bother ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 58 Votes ,9.36 Score
rm_luvsbooty2 58 M
8  Articles
What is the respectable time to wait to hear from a possible match?   7/24/2004

Just finding it curious as to when and how long someone should wait to hear back from a possble match up? I myself try and answer someone's curiousity to me within a few days. Then again, I try and make sure to check my mail most everyday, if not every other day! Not that I'm on the computer for hours, but I am trying and liking the people I do meet! But it does seem that I maybe appearing ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 51 Votes ,8.04 Score
rm_otcdrgs 57 M
4  Articles
Love or Lust: The Real Dilemma   7/19/2004

Welcome to the real question. For all of you individuals new to life, love and lust(sex) are not the same. <br> Sex is the release of energy, stress, excitement, wants, and desires the physical body needs. The touching, kissing, licking, sucking, and fucking which makes up sex. It is probably the most enjoyable excercise known to man/woman. Sex takes practice and patience to be ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 64 Votes ,8.61 Score
RE: FMF only, why?   7/18/2004

OK, i understand a guy doesnt want to go there after another man was there... but thats why theres condoms... but if we are ok with going down on another chick after the guy was there, then why is that not ok for men? Sounds like an excuse to me.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
Time & Friendship & Honesty!   7/18/2004

In building a relationship, friendship should be the first and main focus. Not only it takes away the stress of dating, but it builds a stronger foundation. Honesty is also very important, for both to know where they are going in the relationship at all times. If someone’s feelings changed, it is better to be honest than to lie. The truth may sometimes hurt but lies hurt even more ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
rm_jborg45 54 M
3  Articles
network silence   7/17/2004

Hey Folks, First off I want to say that I've enjoyed being a member of this site, if nothing else, I've learned a bit more about what women think <G>. I understand that female Standard members are able to view profiles, but I have to go by just the title and byline of a woman’s profile. Being a standard male member has limited me to winks, network invites, Chat and IM as a ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
why men can be cruel   7/14/2004

my bf and i have beeen trying to build up on a relationship but stupid little things slow the relationship. The all ways right issue that is. To me he believes he is not at wrong and i am wrong. They are stupid issues that confuse even my friends and coworkers. I hear break it off i hear wait to see what happens. He claims he hates control freaks and doesnt live the controling life but to ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 11 Votes ,1.11 Score
Its all fun in the end...   7/14/2004

All I am going to say is that men don't know anything about women, and women don't know anything about men. We never will and that's what makes it so much fun. I'm a guy and I'll admit I don't know 10% of what women are thinking and Women are most likely the same way. Don't take this the wrong way but the next time you say "I wish he/she would tell me what they want to do, or what they are ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
LifeLuvNLust 42 F
0  Articles
Still Learning!!!   7/8/2004

The other day I had my younger sister come over for a chin wag and a cuppa and while the were all outside playing we started talking. I could she was disturbed and need advice on somthing or other and usually its about sex or boy friends or she needs to have a bitch session about her current piece of meat ( the guy she is seeing ) or one of the girls... Well was I surprised when she ...


1 Comments, 123 Views, 24 Votes ,4.95 Score
Honesty   7/8/2004

I believe the most important part of developing a new relationship is to be honest. Tell another person who you are, what your about, what your looking for out of another person, and what's really going on. That's the only way you can achieve real results. If your in AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for swinging, most swingers will let you know that they are happy and not looking for love. If you are extra marital, let ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_hitchcock410 38 M
8  Articles
Is it possible?   7/5/2004

Is it truely possible to just be a friend with benefits or do emotions eventually get in the way, because it didn't work on Seinfeld?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 34 Votes ,6.21 Score
FMF 3somes only, but nothing else... why????   7/5/2004

I was involved in a relationship that was to say the least, a long distance thing. Because me and this other person couldn't have physical contact, we agreed that it would be ok to play with other people as long as we told each other about it. Well, he was suppose to move here and before he did I asked him, 'Are things going to stay the same?' Meaning our arrangement of being able to ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 40 Votes ,7.39 Score
Why not look on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for a relationship?   7/5/2004

I'm interestsed in men and women and enjoy playing with both. Right now I'm ready to settle down with one person, specifically a man, but also want the variety of other men and women. Being that AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site is the way it is, wouldn't this be the best place to find an open relationship like this? It's been difficult though. It seems as though you meet a guy on here and all of a sudden he wants a ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 29 Votes ,6.05 Score
I want a discreet relationship with an older woman   7/4/2004

They seem to like me, but whenever I suggest a date, they always say hahaha... or lololololol... Why is it so hard for them to give me a chance? I am not ugly, I am 30 already, I am clean too. I am well-educated (not in sex). I can be romantic. I am single and free. If they come to AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for sex, they should at least be a little bit serious. Can anybody give me some advice? Many thanks.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 34 Votes ,5.94 Score
RE: How much sex is just right for a married couple?   7/4/2004

I have been married for 19 years and have averaged once a month if I am lucky. Spouse is not into sex and could get by without forever. She only submits to me out of guilt and is a casual participant. So if other couples are having sex once per week, I would consider them lucky dogs. I make sure that my spouse has an orgasm each time, but she is not concerned if I do. Once she has her's, ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 24 Votes ,7.11 Score
RE: Can a married man be friends with a female   7/3/2004

i just have to say i strongly disagree with the writer. i have had many married men as good friends for the past 25 yrs...and that is as far as it has gone. i am good friends with their wives also.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 30 Votes ,7.85 Score
The green eye of envy and jealousy   6/30/2004

I've been down this road too many times to count. You get in a relationship and everything seems all normal until... some chick you know says something to you kinda flirty or maybe it's someone who knows you but you're ol lady is there and is fuming over it. I mean WTF - you get the mad, cold shoulder treatment for hours and sometimes days, and for what? Something you had absolutely no ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
gateway2uheart 64 M
2  Articles
building a realtionship   6/29/2004

ok ladies and guys..here it is.if you meet a guy or lady on here and you talk back and forth and both of you talk on the phone for a while hit it off well and decide to meet then out of the blue you dont contact that person for a couple of days (we all know now that things happen we are not stupid or blind) but at lease you could leave us a meassage telling us that somthing had happen or ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
tequilasunrise49 40 F
1  Article
single and looking 4 u   6/28/2004

5'1 long red hair blue eyes 28 1 tat, bellyring, nosering, have other profiles under here they r tequilasunrise49 , vanpire28466 , and treandfaye (C)


0 Comments, 17 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
twisty1982 41 F
7  Articles
re:...long distance thing.....   6/28/2004

hey girl i know how you feel im going thru the same thing and it sucks but heres what i want to say if in good and bad times hes the one u want by ur side u stick thru it till you both can be together if not then dont play aroung just let him know and end it...if you two are ment to be you will be together.......


0 Comments, 15 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
can you still have a good relationship when you are swingers   6/27/2004

Some pople think you can not have a good relationship when you are swingers . but i think you can as long you both are doing it together. and as long as you dont let it come between the two of you .and if it dose just remember it is just for fun and you two are forever.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
I want more than a one-shot deal REPLY   6/24/2004

You wrote: <br> > I cannot seem to make it past the first sexual episode >stage. If I like a guy, I meet him several times prior to >going the distance, and make it completely clear that I am >after more than just a one-night-stand, that what I want >is something more long lasting, if that’s possible, and >the message seems to be understood by my ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 28 Votes ,7.25 Score
fantasyfemme 57 F
5  Articles
response to how to get out of an engagement   6/23/2004

Wow! I would say, putting an article in the magazine portion of a site you met her on will possibly take care of the break up for you. Particularly since you called her a psycho! I am a bit confused after reading your question, as you state that you want to break it off with her, but still date her? Not a good idea! Women take breaking an engagement pretty personally! If you intend ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
TastefulFun52 31 C
1  Article
Long distance thing   6/22/2004

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years, everything's great... except for the fact that we can only see each other every few months. Now that he's going off to college, we might see even less of each other. How do I deal? Should I break it off?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
can't open up   6/21/2004

i can't see to open up to my current girlfriend. I was with my ex for almost two years and after the heart break I can't seem to love again. This happen to anyone else?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 18 Votes ,5.17 Score
Long distance   6/20/2004

When I left Paris for Hong Kong about 10 months ago, my french gf and I decided to keep our relationship until I come back as I was only going for one year. Actually she decided and I said ok without thinking, because sometimes being honest can hurt a lot. <br> With phone calls, emails amd webcam we kept it going for 1 month. By that time I realized that calling her was just ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
RE: AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site is about sex, not love   6/19/2004

Very well put article, that this is a place to look for sex not love. You see people that are looking for that special someone or mister right. Yea mister right is on a different sight go find him.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 56 Votes ,1.27 Score
Re: Tease who needs to be tamed   6/18/2004

Buddy, I have been in your shoes... You really don't want her. You want the IDEA of you taming her. You wish you were enough of a man to be able to tame this wild woman, the tease no one can really have. Sure, maybe she'll have a boyfriend for a while, but eventually get rid of him to get back to her bad girl ways. <br> I know because I've been there. I had a friend once, a ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 27 Votes ,7.66 Score
rm_darkangel66 49 M
7  Articles
building a relationship   6/16/2004

I geuss Building arelationship is surposed to be hard. I find it increasinly easy to do. I have been with my fiancee for 2 years and 5 months now and i find life is easy. althoug we have childeren we seem to just coast along. I feel ppl make relationship hard as everyone has to label the relations ship they are in. MY girl friend My boy friend MY fiancee MY husband and now a days my partner ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 35 Votes ,0.24 Score
fantasyfemme 57 F
5  Articles
The next level   6/16/2004

The next level comes at different times in every relationship, but good signs to look for... indicators that you have now hit the next level can include: 1. There is no more saying, yours, or mine... you have evolved to "ours". <br> 2. The well being of the partner now supercedes one's own self interests. <br> 3. Taking care of problems becomes a joint issue. ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,7.55 Score
littleboss1960 50 C
2  Articles
Why not Plural Marriages   6/15/2004

I wonder why it seems hard to get plural marriages okayed.Do you have any coments on it at all?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 12 Votes ,1.39 Score
How do you know when you've reached the "next" level?   6/14/2004

We dated about four years ago and had a together. We split up for three years and had other relationships. Now we have been dating for about 8 months and are curious about others insights on relationship issues. When we started dating 8 months ago we took things very slow and became best friends first, now we're at a different place and it's really good. How do you know if it's "the one"? ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 35 Votes ,5.35 Score
Re: Why is it hard to have more than one   6/13/2004

LOL, like we need more than one woman nagging us to take out the trash or tell us how to fix things, or that they want to watch something other than NASCAR... I believe that it costs quite enough to support one wife and her , let alone multiple wives and . In the Old Testament days, the number of your wives showed how much an "Alpha Male" you were. The richer you were, the more wives and ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 15 Votes ,6.81 Score
Claartje 43 F
2  Articles
RE: how to persuade   6/13/2004

I think you'll just need to take it slow and make sure that she likes it! Else, you can always try talking... Good luck!


0 Comments, 3 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Claartje 43 F
2  Articles
RE: Am I a blind man looking for sex, in the wrong place?   6/13/2004

So your going to cheat on a girl you actually like..? Nice one mister!


0 Comments, 14 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
armycowboyaz 35 M
1  Article
How to get out of an engagement?   6/12/2004

I met my current GF on this site and things were going great for a long time. We decided to get married after dating for only a few months, as soon as we agreed to get engaged she seemed to change into a total psycho. I want to break it off, but she has already transfered to a closer school and is getting out of her lease to move in with me. What can I do to let her know that I really ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
thicknpeachie 45 F
11  Articles
can it be   6/8/2004

i want to know can u find love on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site i mean if u click with someone and after a while or should i say is everybody on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for sex connectionsor is anyone looking for more... i think some of us r looking for more but we should keep our eyes wide open be aware dont let ya guards down too soon


0 Comments, 23 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
littleboss1960 50 C
2  Articles
Why Is It hard To Have More Than One   6/8/2004

Why is it hard to have more than one person for marriage.I think it is cool for a man to have more than one female as wives.Like in old testament days.What do you think.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 20 Votes ,0.83 Score
SimplyIslandman 70 M
2  Articles
Young F Older M   6/4/2004

The question is how many younger females are out there looking for an older male for a long term relationship? What are they looking for (what's the attraction) Does the age make things hard for one or both in the relationship? <br> Your thoughts ?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 43 Votes ,7.77 Score
hockeydv 34 M
2  Articles
Re: How far should I go   6/1/2004

I am coming from the opposite side of this scenario, however I completely understand. From a guy's point of view, it means alot when their loved one is willing to go out of their way for them. However, you have to be careful of a few things. Don't let him abuse it. He may catch on and take advantage of it by either having you do things he likes (but you don't), or by trying to go for ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 22 Votes ,8.05 Score
Do you feel you can obtain a real relationship online?   5/29/2004

Do you feel you can obtain a real relationship online? Can someone really know a person good enough with someone they found online. Also, what's gonna make that person stop looking once you start a relationship?


1 Comments, 85 Views, 21 Votes ,6.34 Score
Be honest till you have to lie   5/28/2004

Honesty will take you very far noone can stand a lier


0 Comments, 18 Views, 21 Votes ,7.95 Score
darth_wayder 42 M
5  Articles
where does it goes from here???   5/24/2004

Hem is Hemlatta his wife of twelve years, a beautiful creature. Alabaster skin, dark obsidian eyes, full silky hair, about 5’ 3”. She has great presence, takes over the whole room the second she walks in. She loves to laugh and people like the sound of her laughter. Very intelligent and very well-read, she can talk just about any subject, but she does it without making anyone ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
how long to be on thise side ??   5/23/2004

i have beowse thru thise side finding women have 100 s of friends be view 400 and more times. what is the story?ifen a gold member can't meet somebody for real ??or are thy just on here to look on male photos !!i can't see any sence to stay on afther a meet sombody i was looking for.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
I want more than a one-shot deal   5/21/2004

I am an attractive, intelligent woman, and have met several really nice guys on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site. To that degree you could say I have “done well” or been “successful.” However, I have found myself falling into a pattern that mystifies me, and I was curious as to whether anyone might be able to throw some light on my situation, particularly you guys out there: I cannot seem ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 21 Votes ,7.09 Score
WHITE WOMEN -- How to Fuck blackguys And Still Be Accepted....   5/19/2004

Love 2 meet white females that is scared to date or just fuck a blackman. The Idea is tempting to some --- So if think you want to fuck blackmen --here is some pointers. <br> <br> 1. Go to places where there is a mixed scene, 2. Don't be too obvious on what you want - dance with white guys too. 3 Mingle with other with chicks to get the low down. 4. Buy the ...


1 Comments, 89 Views, 68 Votes ,2.38 Score
3 somes are grand   5/17/2004

I must say sloppy seconds are the most. Several years ago a close friend of the wife's and mine had just moved to our city and was finding the singles scene difficult. After a frustrating date he came for a late night visit and confided that he had always wanted to cut my lovely wife's pie. My wife had earlier told me she was horny and wanted me in bed just before the door bell had rang. So ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 42 Votes ,5.39 Score
Initiative   5/16/2004

Well, there was a woman in Adultfreindfinder I encountered. She took the initiative and contacted me on the little- little guesses which I left on the site of my email address. She sent me two mails and when I really thought something was brewing she stopped. She did say she was married and looking for some spice. When I volunteered to provide some fun, she has completely stopped mailing ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 16 Votes ,2.98 Score
Am I Crazy to think I'll find a playmate??   5/16/2004

I've been searching online (through a variety of personals sites) for approximately 3 years now, and I've yet to meet the one I'm looking for. I'm not THAT picky, though I do have my limitations and standards. Basically, the only thing I ask is to find a bi-female to join my boyfriend and I in a 3some. I think my profile is quite clear on what I'm about and what I seek, yet the only replies ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 31 Votes ,7.27 Score
Mrlicnstik 55 M
1  Article
Clean cut and shaven   5/12/2004

Specializing in body cuts. Will shave your pussy and design your pubic hairs to reflect your personality. This is for seriuos inquiries only. Confident and very discete women need only to reply. Will travel but will cost extra. My location secure safe and comfortable. Living in the Hammond, In area.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 30 Votes ,5.89 Score
Be Yourself if....   5/12/2004

If you want to build a relationship with someone always remember to be your self and honest.. Really because if your not, somewhere down the road its going to catch up with you and cause a lot of headaches later on.. I mean, really if u show a person something that is not you, that person will expect that always, then where does that leave you..Since i've been in AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site I've met alot of ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 21 Votes ,5.97 Score
Can You Accept The Honesty You Want... and Adapt to It?   5/11/2004

I’m writing this article for submission for several reasons. I am passionate about men and women interacting candidly, honestly, straight-ahead, unconditionally, and simply being genuine and down-to-earth. <br> First, I want to acknowledge and affirm that we even though divided by gender are in fact products of the human family and the spirit it generates; meaning that we ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
warmgentlewoman 56 F
1  Article
More than a "one nighter"   5/9/2004

I've yet to meet a female on these dating websites who is looking to build a relationship....are there any real "bi-ladies" out there looking for more than a one-night-stand?


0 Comments, 21 Views, 39 Votes ,4.87 Score
hornycynt 50 F
0  Articles
Long distance love   5/8/2004

I met a wonderful man here on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site and we’ve seen each other a couple of times and we’d enjoyed each other’s company each time we were together. The only problem is that I’m married. He’s indicated that he’s more than capable of taking care of me and my and I know he probably is, the only problem is that we’re about 2 hrs from each other ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 45 Votes ,1.12 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: friends   5/5/2004

First off, how do you know the things your friend says aren't true? Are you with your girlfriend 24/7? If you believe he is lying, then ask him "why"? he is saying these things. Could he be jealous of the time you spend with your girlfriend? Just a few things for you to think about. But, don't just assume he is lying, investigate and find out for yourself, if it's really bothering you. ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 24 Votes ,5.17 Score
Chrisabella 41 C
6  Articles
friends   5/4/2004

I have a childhood friend who has been talking about my gf behind my back and saying really hurtful things like "slut", "", ect. But I know she is not and has never done anything to warrent these things. What is the best way to handle this situation with him? I want to stay with her too.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 18 Votes ,1.08 Score
hot_pussycat4u 55 F
1  Article
RE: I love him enough to...   4/30/2004

You have brought up a good question and have every right to feel worried and scared. Six months ago I started seeing a wonderful man, he is in the swinging lifestyle, and gently asked me if I would be interested. I had been married for 14 years and had no experience with anything like that but I thought I would give it a try as I liked the idea of being with 2 men at the same time. I am ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 21 Votes ,6.59 Score
Bi woman looking for her Bi soul-mate. Is it possible?   4/29/2004

Is it possible to find a female to female soul mate such as a man/woman soulmate? In my heart I feel its possible but I just haven't been able to find her. Surely I am not the only one in the world with these types of feelings.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 34 Votes ,7.91 Score
Re: I love him enough to...   4/28/2004

The fear is natural. When you're in the middle of sex and talking dirty about sex with other people, it's one thing. When he's actually having sex with another woman in front of you, it is quite another thing. This is something you really need to approach in a sober fashion. There are many, many people who think or talk dirty during sex about swinging. The question is: would you be ready ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 15 Votes ,6.65 Score
What Some Women Really Want? for tiggerrific   4/25/2004

Some women want genuine people. Men and women who are honest, upfront, have a sense of humor, and honour. I look for the whole package : brains matter to me .. I like people who are forthright , and know you aren't going to change me any more that I will let myself be changed. Take the time to read profiles , ask questions , share a joke. You would be suprized what can get my attention ... ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 46 Votes ,7.46 Score
RAH48 71 M
3  Articles
all relationships start good   4/23/2004

all relationships do start off very good. you feel the uforic high of feeling in love. Reality is another story


0 Comments, 4 Views, 28 Votes ,5.19 Score
friendsfirst2004 56 M
83  Articles
RE: I love him enough to   4/23/2004

Being scared with something like this is normal. Everyone has their doubts and the "What if...?" questions can drive you crazy. The only way you can calm your fears, and get answers to your questions, will be to go through with it. Once that happens you will know in a short while if your fears were justified or not. But if he has allowed you to and he is still happy, your chances are ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
friendsfirst2004 56 M
83  Articles
RE: how to treat your girlfriend   4/22/2004

Nice article, just one problem. IT SELDOM WORKS! <br> I am a nice, thoughtful, considerate guy. I have no problems with remembering important dates, just buying you a present for no reason, taking you out to diner or whatever, commenting that you are beautiful, etc. <br> What happens more often than not, is I get dumped because "I met someone yesterday and we are ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 34 Votes ,7.73 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
How to build one.   4/20/2004

The way you build a relationship in my opinion. First there should be a frienship to begin with. That is the building blocks for a relationship. There should be good communication, honesty, and trust also. The parties should get to know each other better and it helps if they have something in common.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 36 Votes ,7.55 Score
TrustedHump 46 M
1  Article
Looking for Wild Mature Women   4/16/2004

I am looking for hot experienced women to teach me a few tricks and moves. No emotional aspect whatsoever. Pure sexual pleasure.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 47 Votes ,1.89 Score
littlekitty53 62 C
6  Articles
how to have fun with a new friend......   4/15/2004

I JUST RECENTLY MET A NEW FRIEND ON AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site. HER I HAVE TALKED FOR A LITTLE WHILE AND SHE WAS REALLY NERVOUS ABOUT US TALKING AND OR MEETING. JUST BY CHANCE HER AND I DECIDED TO MEET IN PERSON. SHE WAS REALLY NERVOUS BUT I TOLD HER SHE HAD NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT, I KNEW WE WOULD HIT IT OFF. HER AND I FINALLY MET AND IT WAS AWESOME.... WE TALKED FOR A WHILE AND THEN FINALLY I ASKED HER IF ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 27 Votes ,5.13 Score
Am I getting my point across?   4/13/2004

I usually ask people if they want to talk sometime and also ask them to join my network (so they can see pics). Do people understand that I am asking if they want to get to know one another better? Sometimes I wonder if Im getting my point across. Thanks


0 Comments, 9 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
DrCristoff 37 M
3  Articles
RE: are all the people here just recruiters   4/12/2004

Not all profiles on here are "recruiters" as you call them. They do make up a very significant portion however, What I do is I send out messages with my email attached to them and they just send their phony replies right to there. I've found that for about 10 messages I send out I get 5-7 phony replies. So I estimate at least 50 percent of the extremely small number of women on here are ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
People on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site   4/11/2004

Hi, I just wanted to say this is such a great way to meet people. I have met so many and so many good people. It is so much better than going out to bars and meeting people. Everyone is drinking and alot of the time it is so loud you can't hear what the other person is talking about. Well actually you can't even hardly hear yourself think. They say be careful of these sites and who ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 52 Votes ,8.28 Score
rm_lilnortylola 38 F
3  Articles
trust, love, friendship and the little things   4/10/2004

Guy's, as a woman, i know what women want; The key to a long lasting loving and happy relationship with a woman (read: you get sex, a woman, beer, boobs and bj's if your lucky)is giving her what SHE wants, because if you keep your femme happy; She'll keep YOU happy (nudge nudge wink wink). <br> Basically what every female wants is to not be made a fool when making the first ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 91 Votes ,9.50 Score
big or fat woman need some love to   4/9/2004

I AM BIG FEEL NO WOMAN WHO IS MY SIDE SHOULD NOT BE JUDGE BECAUSE WE HAVE EXTRA POUND OR EXTRA WEIGHT. IF THERE IS A LIMIT OF WEIGHT A WOMAN SHOULD BE BUT IF YOU FEEL THAT A SKINNING WOMAN GOT THE BEST PUSSY THEN YOU IS WRONG, YOU MEN SHOULD NEVER JUDGE A WOMAN THE WAY SHE LOOK, OR BUILT, BECAUSE IF YOU ARE LOOK FOR GOOD LOOK AND SEX BUILT YOU WILL NEVER FINE THAT SPECIAL WOMAN TO BE YOUR ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 53 Votes ,5.65 Score
303612 43,1943 C
4  Articles
Closed Doors Or Out In The Open???   4/8/2004

A lot of people keep there sex secrets behind closed doors and then want to make cruel comments to those that let there secrets surface. What do you say to these hypocrits that act like there s**t don't stink?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 39 Votes ,5.92 Score
fighting with Girl Friend   4/7/2004

My girl Friend is control me too seriously, can anybody help me, she always me not having enough time with her, always looking at other ladies, and don't want to have sex with me....


0 Comments, 22 Views, 26 Votes ,2.70 Score
how can i build a relationship with older women   4/7/2004

anyone who has any advice or information on how i can start a relationship with a older woman please message me and leave your e mail address so if i need any more help i can message you.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 27 Votes ,5.56 Score
how can i build a relationship with my mother   4/7/2004

anyone who has advice or information on how i can start a relationship with my mother please message me and leave your e mail address with your advice / information so if i need more information i can contact you for further details


0 Comments, 55 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
IS IT ME   4/6/2004

I HAVE TALKED TO SOME WOMAN ONLINE BY IM OR IN CHAT ROOMS AND NONE OF THEM SEEM TO WANT TO CHAT. I TRY TO COME UP WITH TOPICS TO TALK ABOUT, AND EVERYTIME TIME I MAKE A COMMENT OR ASK A QUESTION TO GET THE BALL ROLLING, ALL I GET IN RETURN IS A "YEAP" OR A "kOOOOOL", AND THATS IT. I KEEP TRYING UNTIL IVE SPENT ALL THE TOPICS I COULD THINK ABOUT AND THEN I JUST SIT THERE LOOKING AT A BLANK ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 40 Votes ,6.91 Score
The ration of women to men is as high as 10-1   4/2/2004

What are the best approaches to women in AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site as a married man seeking a LTR? Many women are distant and hard to approach


0 Comments, 5 Views, 19 Votes ,4.71 Score
sensualtemptress 46 F
1  Article
Sometimes, they don't get it   3/29/2004

Why is it that sometimes I tell my husband things and I know he hears me but he just blows me off? I don't get it. I know he's listening to me but he forgets it like the next 5 seconds. It's really irritating me and I have to tell him but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Any advice?


2 Comments, 21 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
I just don't get it   3/25/2004

I'm still relatively new to AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site, still a standard, and from what I've learned on the other FF sites, unless you get viewed a lot, you can't really view others, and unless you get e-mail from someone, you can't send mail - of course, correct me if I'm wrong (as I said, I'm still new here). <br> So what I don't get is why if someone who's a gold or silver, sends a wink, thus ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
Who said he or she doesn't respect a ?   3/22/2004

I know they do not need me to take part at this "discussion".Some of my customers are prostitudes and naturally I had no idea what to expect but made an apointment anyways .The girls turned out to be real nice (i was no threat there anyways but that being nice was meant to be in general), funny -wow did I hear a bunch of stories and had laughing attacks...unbelievable.Their job isn't always ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 37 Votes ,6.45 Score
Sex is important in a relationship. - but, not everything..   3/21/2004

Interesting that as I brouse through the faces and bodies that everone seems to be looking for the sex part of a relationship. Gang, aren't we missing something here??? Don't get me wrong, I love sex, it is the greatest but, sex just for sex, isn't very fulfilling, look for a personality too, then you have a chance of making a real connection, after the sex is finished and learn to really ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 55 Votes ,7.80 Score
Whay Is It So HaRd!!!???   3/20/2004

Whay Is It So HaRd!!!??? IF this is THE WORLD'S LARGEST SEX& SWINGER PERSONALS SITE Why don't people put photos of them self, and why do you get people who say go to this site if you like to get a photo?.If you do get a respond it's like Hi I love you pick.They type this huge thing on how they are only looking to hook up for sex and it has to be ON THE D.L SO YOU give them a date to hook up ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 25 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_AkaPete 68 M
1  Article
Aka_Pete's Rules for subs   3/18/2004

Aka_Pete's Rules for subs ======================================================== Conditions: <br> Preliminary discussion on minor amendments to this document is acceptable, but if you cannot agree to it's general principles, the relationship ceases. Once you have accepted these rules and laws, they are not negotiable. The only subsequent changes will be made by me and ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 23 Votes ,3.60 Score
sex   3/16/2004

Sex is probably the most important part of any new relationship. Find out early what your partner enjoys. Don't be afraid to ask your lover what they enjoy. You only get back as good as you give.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
LOOKING TO TRY NEW THING'S???   3/13/2004

LOOKING TO TRY NEW THING'S??? Hello I am qwert19802 I am adding this Articl In hope's that some one out there Is looking to hook up FOR A NO STRINGS THING? I am a s, w 24 yo male.I am D&D FREE AND ONLY PLAY SAFE! I am looking for the same Be it Gay Male, female, ts, or anyone looking to just have a good time . It has to be DISCREAT and safe sex only.IF YOUR NOT 4 REAL PLEASE DO NOT REPLY! ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 33 Votes ,0.85 Score
Don't say it unless you mean it.   3/12/2004

I have one request . . . that's all . . . and it's not that big of a request. If you want a physical relationship with someone . . . i mean a no strings attached, you don't have to take me to dinner . . . just meet for sex relationship, don't throw in the "I love you" crap. I don't know about some people, but those three words mean a lot. And saying them and then backing them up can ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Sex with my wife's best freind   3/10/2004

I stayed on the 14th floor and was on my way home. I was parking my car when I saw a sexy female walk towards our building lift. I hurriedly parked my car and rushed to the lift as I wanted , not only to clearly see this girl but also get the small pleasure of going up in the lift with her. I just managed to press the open button while she was inside and the lift opened again. There were ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 108 Votes ,6.73 Score
Know your partner...   3/8/2004

You should always get to know the pesron that you are trying to be with. If anything is taboo. That is not the person for you. If they are not open and honest they mean you harm... MAybe not directly but, indirectly. Either way you stand to lose.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 60 Votes ,5.45 Score
rm_mace107_2003 40 M
6  Articles
wrong place   2/28/2004

Hey if you want some kind of serious relationship this might be the wrong place for that sourt of thing. This is a sex site where people are mostly wanting some action and a good time so dont be under the impression that you will find your "soul mate" here...... its possible but not as likely as the serious relation ship sites. Just lay back look for the person thats right for you and have ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 30 Votes ,6.38 Score
RipeCherryX 37 F
2  Articles
I am falling for this sweet guy from AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site!   2/22/2004

I met this guy from AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site few months ago and the sex we had were awesome. He got everything I want and he's also a very very sweet caring guy outside the bedroom too. Other than the great sex we have, I also enjoy every min that we were together and I am pretty sure he is happy with me too. We call each other from time to time or sending email or we spend our weekend together in his place ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 80 Votes ,7.98 Score
Dating a ?   2/21/2004

Yes, it's hard to imagine your special someone having sex with other people and when you know the details and those details include one night stands and random head giving then it's a challenge. This is hard on the heart and it's hard to forget the detailed stories you got from her. If only she kept her mouth shut then maybe these thoughts wouldn't cross your mind everytime she doesn't ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 43 Votes ,7.47 Score
rm_supotme1 43 M
3  Articles
Are You Really Done With Nothing?   2/21/2004

When times of loneliness, either you alone or with your friends sharing of experiences about girls became part of you...you think something special to be! Nah...or maybe you keep on daydreaming while seated center in youre classes...wetdreaming during the night while you are sleeping...Hah! You take a water after you woke up, "ihhh..it's to be nearest about me" . On your way ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 38 Votes ,0.17 Score
Building a relationship takes time.   2/21/2004

I believe building a relationship takes time and patience. The number one thing you need to have I believe is trust. Without trust I feel you have nothing. I would not be with someone I didnt trust. You also have to have love and respect of one another. You have to learn how to give and take. If one just gives they will eventually grow tired of giving and never recieving. If one just ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 40 Votes ,7.95 Score
Discreet Relationship   2/17/2004

I joined a part time evening class for a part time course. That is the time I met her.Both of us were married but wanted to progress our careers further and that is why the course. Similar topics of interest, exchanging notes etc got us deep into a very strong freindship.One evening discussing some topic in a nearby canteen, she held my hand. That is the first time I looked at her as a ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 58 Votes ,7.41 Score
rm_Twonkie 68 M
5  Articles
"Just friends:"   2/16/2004

I've had entirely too much experience with women who wanted to have a "just friends" relationship. So far, it seems to me that "just friends" really means "You can have me around until I find a guy with more money or a bigger car or _________." In any case, it comes down to the woman not being sure what she wants beyond money. She certainly does not want a real relationship, with ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 17 Votes ,5.67 Score
zippy_mcfeely 42 M
9  Articles
trouble building a relationship   2/14/2004

since I recently broke up with my last girlfriend I dont think that I can get into a committed relationship ever again, any guys or females able to relate to that sentiment?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
When you want your BDSM relationship to be more...   2/12/2004

I’ve long been a fan of BDSM but, unfortunately, have only chanced upon one other person who shared my interests. As I begin dating anew, I have been asking myself if that kind of relationship is all I want? The answer is no, it is not all I want. Yet… I DO want the thrill and excitement of this kind of relationship. The intensity and intimacy one can share, when there are ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
RE: Will a fat man fill the bill   2/2/2004

An overweight person will only fill the bill is his/her partner is OK with their weight. Most people are either OK with overweight lovers or they're not; only a select few are wishy-washy on that issue. Initial attraction is 95% visual, so if the vision is not attractive to a person, they'll rarely get any further than a first meeting. <br> Just my dos centavos


0 Comments, 3 Views, 42 Votes ,7.16 Score
mattnewstar 45 M
2  Articles
love without lust   1/30/2004

My wife and I have been married for a few years now. We both care deeploy for each other. But, I have a much stronger sex drive than she has. I would like to explore, but am afraid of what she would do if I told her my plans. I think she would not like it, yet I am so frustrated. Any help appreciated


1 Comments, 33 Views, 28 Votes ,4.99 Score
hotlady4funCO 55 F
4  Articles
Rebuilding Trust   1/26/2004

I meet a man off of here 3 years ago we were friends for two years then developed a sexual relationship. It was teh best I have ever had we even feel in love. However I did some things I regret and blew the trust but we still love each other a lot. How do I rebuild the trust?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
It Gets Better Every day!!   1/24/2004

How many of you would agree that there's an outstanding feeling that can come from monogamy? I must say that it takes the cake as far as I'm concerned. With monogamy comes familiarity and comfort. It seems to me that once you reach that deepest level of comfort, that there's virtually nothing that can't be ventured. There is the exception I suppose of prudish individuals with repressed ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 10 Votes ,6.37 Score
FriendWantedNow 54 C
10  Articles
Men & Insecurity   1/22/2004

From reading some of the articles on here I've come to the conclusion that some (not all) men can be a little bit insecure. If they don't bring a woman to orgasm with nothing but what dangles and only in the missionary position, then either there is something wrong with the woman or something wrong with them. Most often the woman because there couldn't be anything wrong with us, right ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 33 Votes ,8.38 Score
Kissing ecstasy   1/22/2004

While in hospital, I happened to get to like the nurse who was treating me. She was night duty and stayed in the ward from 8 PM to 8AM. The hospital had a balcony where I used to sit in the night overlooking the seaside. After finishing her routine of the night, taking care of other patients in the ward she used to come to me and sit beside me to pass her time.We got talking and spoke to ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 28 Votes ,5.29 Score
angiehartono 45 F
3  Articles
My husband have a small dick   1/22/2004

I have a sexy and a nice body. Tall slender and fair. 5ft 7" 126lbs. My husband is at 5ft 9" 180lbs. One problem is he has a small dick/ Full erection only about 4 inches. But I never complain about the smallness. Instead he is the one who suspected I will enjoy bigger dicks. He introduce me to men with big dicks. I accepted because I want to make him happy. But I have to suffer. Each ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 29 Votes ,1.03 Score
rm_bottom_boi23 40 M
7  Articles
RE: Coming out   1/20/2004

I agree with the other persons thoughts. I think you should try dating a couple of girls first and see if that is something you want then come out and say something to your family. I experimented with a guy when I was younger for my first bi experiences and then stopped for several years. I had to try it again. I had that same craving you have, everything you long for, but with a guy ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
rm_Cryderman 41 M
18  Articles
she wants a relationship   1/20/2004

i am seeing this girl but i don't want anything but sex really but i am not sure if she knows should i tell her or just leaving in 2 month and i will never see her again anyway


0 Comments, 5 Views, 5 Votes
Don't take it personally...   1/18/2004

I have recieved a lot of responses to my ad, from all types of men. Many of those come from men that don't come close to meeting the description I've listed as to what I know will catch my attention. As with every one else, I weed out those that I think are interesting from those that don't tickle my fancy in any way. I wish I could take the time to reply to everyone that responds to my ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
raiders1000 38 M
3  Articles
Working hard   1/17/2004

I think that the most improtant part to building a relationship is you both have to just be yourself. I also think that honesty and trust are important because if you don't have trust you can't have a relationship. I think it is also important that you both have open minds and are willing to comprosmise and try new things


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
EXMODEL2004 40 M
1  Article
ex model meetic beatiful girl italian boy napoli   1/17/2004

spedisc your photo e tel x incontrarci a AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site kiss fabio no gay no beacth


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
How I got to fuck my sister in law   1/15/2004

Dammit my sis in law was beautiful and I always had a fantasy to fuck her. She came to stay with us for a few days. Playing around and teasing her was how are relationship started. One day a normal fight among sisters happened. My wife was a working women and she left in a huff. Sis in law's mood was a little down and I went to her to elevate her mood. I started normally caressing her face, ...


0 Comments, 361 Views, 163 Votes ,4.59 Score
FriendWantedNow 54 C
10  Articles
Habits   1/13/2004

All of us know that bad habits can be difficult to break. Most of us shove that knowledge away into a dark little recess in the back of our minds, and leave it there. But I don't want to preach about bad habits, I want to talk about good habits. Good habits can be very hard to break too. This can be advantageous to all of us, as we can cultivate good habits and reinforce them until they ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 46 Votes ,8.32 Score
paiolo1967 56 M
1  Article
Just for fun!!   1/12/2004

I am looking on this site women that do not want to run away from their life but that are looking to spice it up. These sentence seems to be commonly used on all the profiles but no one shows to be brave enough to get it real. I am really happily married but looking around for women that want try to taste the sex pleasure coming from another; last summer I meet a wonderful woman (she also ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 58 Votes ,6.88 Score
direption69 53 F
20  Articles
in response to submissive   1/12/2004

I too, am most often submissive in bed. Here's what I'm thinking.... <br> Somedays, I'm a bit insecure about what and who I am. So I want someone else to tell me how beautiful, sexy, and wonderful I am. Ergo, If sex is satisfying to my partner this is proof enuf. <br> Somedays, I am so tired of making every single decision of every single day and want someone to ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 42 Votes ,8.09 Score
Relationships here take time   1/11/2004

I have read many articles on here about relationships and what many people on here are wanting and some on what they expect. I have had many replies to my ad, but some go no where, where as others I make a connection with. Don't waste your time wanting only a quick fuck, then expect more out of it or get pissed because you never hear anything more out of that person. If you meet a couple of ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 49 Votes ,9.16 Score
treknerdmac 39 M
14  Articles
hardest part about relationships   1/10/2004

What would you say is the hardest part of building a relationship? Is it figuring out if they really like you when you are just friends? Leaning to put up with everything that they do that annoys you? Having to let other things go so you can spend more time with them? Or maybe you can think of something else. What have been your experiences?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
Evils of Vermont and weddings   1/8/2004

At first glance when I arrived in Vermont I thought to myself, "Wow, they have a military hanger with old, useless planes at a commercial airport, this place is gonna be NEATO and filled with all kinds of great things to do!" But then as I stepped into the airport terminal/baggage claim/ticketing office/it's all one room with a broken fan and random homeless man in the corner I realized ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 35 Votes ,3.68 Score
emoticonisdead 29 C
6  Articles
Threesome partners   1/6/2004

We're going to have a threesome soon, and I think my significant other is worried about being jealous during the threesome. How can we get rid of her insecurity?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 28 Votes ,3.96 Score
kittysosweet 49 F
6  Articles
Sex on the 2nd date   1/5/2004

I have been reading alot of these articles about sex on the first date. Someone wrote dont have sex on the first date. What about the 2nd date! You can tell where I am going with this hugh? lol Anyone for Sex on the 2nd date?


0 Comments, 15 Views, 40 Votes ,6.67 Score
love_it_all_nit 58 F
3  Articles
Is there a relationship here   1/5/2004

Has anyone found a lasting relationship on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site. Would like to know.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
t1bridge4th 45 M
4  Articles
My girlfriend does not like porn   1/2/2004

Hello, my girlgriend hates porn and sexy vidoes. I love anything that is sexy and sex. What can I do to show her that watching sex or watching others is not chatting? Or am I one big chatter? T-1


1 Comments, 5 Views, 16 Votes ,3.27 Score
Angel2836 61 C
1  Article
I'm looking for some bi fun!!   1/1/2004

I want to have a sexual encounter with a woman, but it is hard to find someone who is upfront and discreet. I am a mature woman who wants to have some fun. I don't understand why women post there profile to play e-mail tag. If anyone out there is ready to CUM and have fun!! Please let me know I'm wet and ready. Plus must be interested in a threesome the more the merrier!!!!!!!! ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
friendship no 1 rule   12/29/2003

in order to have a relationship you need to build on a friendship. being, honest, trustworthy, faithful, good sence of houmor helps, no matter what you look like, that someone special excepts you for who you are on the inside. friendship begins in the heart.


0 Comments, 44 Views, 31 Votes ,8.42 Score
PlayGirl4u2doo 46 F
7  Articles
Is anyone on here for more than just sex?   12/29/2003

Now, I understand the need for a relationship.. everyone gets lonely, but should we be on an adult site such as this that is basically all sexually based to find a meaningful relationship? <br> I ponder this question quite often. Now like most normal people I too have moments where I wonder if meaningless sex is just a waste. Then I snap out of it and go back to my normal way ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 38 Votes ,8.05 Score
Any real relationships here?   12/27/2003

Does any one here ever have a real relationship or is everyone here a pervert? Does anyone even read the other person's profile to even see what they are looking for? I think alot of people here have some real sexual issues life isn't only about sex and how many people you can fuck and how much freaky shit you can think about doing to one another. Are their any real people here looking for ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 66 Votes ,8.82 Score
why do women play mind games   12/26/2003

why do women insinst on playing mind games my ex keeps telling me she wants to work it out and acts like it for a day or two and then it is back to tje same old stuff what am i suppose to do???


1 Comments, 60 Views, 48 Votes ,2.05 Score
satisfied   12/25/2003

hi to everyone who r the proud members of AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site.com really iam proud and happy man to be a member, atlast i found a person who is similar nature of me, really am very excited after finding her. and we fixed our date, and we have plans to meet in next month January2004, really its a very happy new year for me, and am very thankful to AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for providing this service.And i wish the same success ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 31 Votes ,4.20 Score
rm_beezel615 46 F
2  Articles
second thoughts ?   12/23/2003

One night my husband told me to come, look at something. He was looking at women from his hometown on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site.com. Therefore, as an effort to “bond” and share with him, I suggested we join. After all, I thought we both had a fantasy to fulfill. We are now members. The fantasy is of another man joining us in bed. Actually not us but me, my husband is straight. The ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 52 Votes ,8.28 Score
Communication, communication, communication...   12/23/2003

If you want something from your partner, you have to communicate that fact... the only way we know what our partners really enjoy, is by the honest communication before, during and after... <br> If you want a blow job tonight, if you do not ask or tell someone, you probably will not get what you want...( unless your partner likes the same things you like ) <br> If ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 50 Votes ,8.72 Score
RE:should we **ck on the first date   12/20/2003

Absolutely, if the chemistry and desire is there, go for it. What have you got to lose? I met someone from a dating site in August and wanted to immediately **ck him. Spent an hour or so getting to know him, and found out the feeling was mutual. We're stil together and every time I see him the feeling is just as strong.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 59 Votes ,7.75 Score
drkhandsumguy 49 M
1  Article
What if your partner is submissive?   12/18/2003

It turns out that after a few sessions in the bedroom, it has occured to me my new girlfirend is a submissive. She wants to have sex the way I want, all the time, and she likes me to tell her what to do, and does so completely. <br> When I ask her what she wants to do the reply is, "whatever you want to do". Now, this might sound like fun to most guys, but after two months I am ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 27 Votes ,6.40 Score
rm_sexyhuge 47 M
4  Articles
My Sis-In-Law BHABI Sex Experience   12/17/2003

Hi! It is my life's most exciting moment, when, in our house there was a naming ceremony " naam karan ". In our house only close relatives were invited so, that day I was busy with the sweet makers almost all the night. As I was wanted to sleep during the day, but in my room the relatives were busy with my nephew, and there was no place empty for me to take rest. So I moved to my brother's ...


1 Comments, 506 Views, 61 Votes ,7.28 Score
studds a dudd girls   12/17/2003

hey texasstuddd. thanks for being a real man. babyt009 you should look over your shoulder and never take your eyes off him. he has alot of friends here if you know what I mean. The studd makes house calls, and I was a reg for a while but he likes to get you hooked and then never call again, thats not nice......good luck texasstuddd and even more to you babyt009, your going to need it. Boo.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 32 Votes ,4.36 Score
moblackluvin72 78 M
3  Articles
Arragne these values in order of importance to you:   12/15/2003

Arragne these values in order of importance to you: <br> <br> Pleasure Wealth Love Power Knowledge Fame Spirituality


0 Comments, 9 Views, 69 Votes ,5.31 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: why men don't listen...   12/14/2003

I am appalled that there are people who seem to agree with the ideas of the gentleman who introduced this subject a while ago! How can people agree with a man who says that women smell bad during their period, that they cut their hair after they turn 40, etc, etc... I criticized his article badly because I found it such a lot of garbage... but there are people who didn't agree with my ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
so where is that texasstuddd????????????   12/12/2003

wow so it seems that some one found that texasstuddd !! i to had the pleasure of haveing the studdd master but was not able to keep him!!!!!! i am a good looking woman and a sex freak but i just dont under stand y i cant seem to finde a man that is the total pack!!! and willing to be my man. best of luck to you and the studdd babyt009 you got you a good 1 .lol just makes me ill that i ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 49 Votes ,5.89 Score
LiquorSweetly 50 M
4  Articles
Learning the hard way   12/12/2003

Well lets see here... I'll share with you what I have learned and have learned the hard way..I have lost some ver ygood women in my life.. I myself seem to be fine at first then very demanding and controlling as well as verbally asbusive. I've done this as a way to protect myself when all i've actually done is not only hurt myself but hurt others as well.. From my expeirence i've learned ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 60 Votes ,7.68 Score
GOOD SEX!!!!   12/9/2003

One of the secret in a happy marital relationship is a good sex. You see, men loves sex so women take note about this. We have to know everything in bed so our marital relationship is not boring. ALso we would enjoy it if we have a good sex relationship with our husband.


0 Comments, 45 Views, 92 Votes ,8.14 Score
big and tight ...turned out right.   12/8/2003

I just wanted to stop in and say thanks to AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for not only having one kick ass site but that for the last four months, I have never smiled so wide in my life! He's a fucking GOD in the bedroom. He's hot, sexy, erotic, has a monster cock and I've never had such a ass pounding, mind blowing, body shaking sex in my life!!! and he's a true southern gent when were in public. So, if texasstuddd ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 74 Votes ,6.72 Score
AngelEyes32482 33 F
1  Article
What is your relationship about?   12/5/2003

O.k.... I have noticed that over the years that I have been a member on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site that many of people are always wanting to know about how to build a relationship or how to get out of one. I think that these are the people that need to stop and think about what they really want out of life. Like, do I want to be with this person 5 years from now and if so do I see us getting married? Reason is ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 47 Votes ,6.76 Score
rm_NastyT32 58 M
1  Article
Want a few friends   12/3/2003

I'm new to this and I am having a hard time finding adults in my area to build a relationship with. I have a good sense of humor and open to just about anything. If I'm not interested I can be tactful and say not thank you. I am looking for quality adults in Yuba City, Marysville, Oroville areas.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 35 Votes ,6.50 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: why men don't listen...   11/29/2003

What can I say... the text which introduces this subject is so badly written that one can hardly make out what this gentleman means but enough to know that he is the kind who gives men a very bad reputation! This man is not only very limited in his thinking but also a sexist pig (sorry!). Women tell him everything? I hardly think so... Women smell so badly when they have their period that ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 25 Votes ,2.69 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
Love Connections Can Be Made Via Internet   11/24/2003

I've usually been sceptical about whether love can be found online, but am beginning to change my view on that. Having recently met an outstanding individual through an online service, my attitude is quickly changing. I never thought I would be one to actually try the whole online chat or dating thing, but am certainly glad that I did. Had it not been for exploring curiosity, then this ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 41 Votes ,8.02 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: why men don't listen...   11/23/2003

What can I say... the text which introduced this subject is so badly written that one can hardly make out what this gentleman means but enough to know that he is the kind who gives men a very bad reputation! This man is not only very limited in his thinking but also a sexist pig (sorry!). Women tell him everything? I hardly think so... Women smell so badly when they have their period that ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
i am just wondering...   11/22/2003

i am a tall, big boned woman whom is fairly attractive. the problem? no man approaches me. i am friendly, outgoing, and quite content with who i am. is there a reason why men won't approach me? are they intimidated? are they afraid of rejection? just recently, i attempted to go out with a guy, but he stood me up because i was much taller than him...i want to be romanced just like any ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
LiquorSweetly 50 M
4  Articles
Why fear love ???   11/19/2003

I have just recently had a realtionship with a woman which whom I love deeply.The reason our relationship ended was because we tended to clash.. The reason we would clash is because we both feared love for things that had happened to us in the past. I loved her dearly as I honestly belived she did me.. when things were good between us it was like floation on a cloud . It was beautifull.. ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 115 Votes ,8.45 Score
Oh I want to sexercise your wife   11/17/2003

I can't help it that as a married man, I often see other beautiful women that are also married and seemingly in a uninspiring relationship. After a few minutes of chatting, I find myself wanting to ask them to lunch and seeing what flirtatious disscussion might evolve. Then I am as open as anyone and god, I just wish I could take them to the local tel or my place and show them how much fun ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 14 Votes ,0.26 Score
rm_cruiser452 33 M
3  Articles
Being bold and truthful   11/17/2003

If you like the girl that you hang out a lot and have great communication between the two people, should you tell her you like her? I mean, in one way you sound pretty dumb saying "I like you...(end sentence)" but on the other hand you open up your emotions toward her and showing her that she can be trusted. What do all of you think?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: Why men don't listen is puzzling the heck out of me   11/17/2003

What can I say... the text which introduces this subject is so badly written that one can hardly make out what this gentleman means but enough to know that he is the kind who gives men a very bad reputation! This man is not only very limited in his thinking but also a sexist pig (sorry!). Women tell him everything? I hardly think so... Women smell so bad when they have their period that ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
why no replies   11/17/2003

I have come across many winks and added to many hotlists on here and also receieved many replies to my ad. However as for wanting to send an email to the ones who winked at me or added to hotlists, its kind of hard when your just a standard member such as myself. I am not going to upgrade just to see a pic, however it does limit me when I come across someone who has winked at me that I ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
lovely469 43 F
9  Articles
Prision relationships ???   11/16/2003

Is it possible to build a realtionship with someone who isnt "free"? How do I know, How much of it is lies?? Or How much of what he says is the way it can be?? Can I get some help here??


0 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
RE: Women's Biggest Relationship Fears   11/14/2003

To the author of the original article (AND advice other interested readers): <br> I found your list to be very interesting, as I am currently in that stage of a relationship in which best friends are on the verge of becoming so much more. I want this progression to occur, but am finding that my love (a woman) is holding back; the third relationship fear you listed–afraid ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
Lets be real   11/14/2003

I have read many of these atricles and lets face it, people are always looking for the grass to be greener on the other side of the fence. We talk about honesty and being ones best frien/soul mate as you will. But the truth is that most people men and women alike are just shallow superficial people. Looks are very important, if you don't like the physical apperence then that would be strike ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Basic Building Block of a Relationship: Self Disclosure   11/13/2003

Self disclosure is the building blocks of any relationship. Master the elements of self disclosure and you are on the way to developing a friendship and deeper intimacy. Information you give someone is usually returned with a matching response. <br> GUY: "Hi, I'm Harmon." Gal's RESPONSE: "Nice to meet you, I'm Isadora." <br> Well, that's not rocket ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 119 Votes ,8.56 Score
hotbodvt 42 M
15  Articles
Respect   11/10/2003

Building a relationship is all about respect and honesty. Honesty is what makes not only the person but directly correlates with the success of the relationship. Being open and honest is the only way to build a relationship.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
connecting with your partner in the simplest way, everyday.   11/9/2003

My partner and i send air kisses across the room to each other sometimes she can only see me doing it, most of the time she can here it depending were we are, doesn't matter where we are, i always get one in return. Most importantly she knows she's in my thoughts. We're a very passionate couple. We also hold hands where ever we go. It's rubbing off on people around us. We're in our 40's


0 Comments, 4 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
funcple62 62 C
1  Article
re: Sex with the right person   11/4/2003

Ok. I've had sex with men that are nicely hung, and my current is 6 maybe 6 1/2. Does he please me more than the others. Yes. He does. Maybe because he isn't depending on just his dick doing the pleasing, but touches and explores. By the time he enters me, my body is on fire. He also has amazing staying power. <br> As for pleasuring him. Deep throating a guy who huge ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 139 Votes ,9.17 Score
LOVE YOUR HUSBAND!!!   11/1/2003

In order to have a good marital relationship, sex is very important too. Of course you have to love one another. Respect one another too.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
How to move to something more?   10/30/2003

I have been seeing someone on and off for a while. We have not classified our relationship anything other than a little more than friends. I have grown to become a little attached to this person, as well as we are very intimate. I have not felt like I do in a very long time. As well, I am not sure how they feel, yet sometimes I think they feel more than they put out as I do. People ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
cherishing each other   10/29/2003

I'ts all depend on how you appreciate each other.Love should be in the main picture to respect and understanding. You 'll never love someone if you don't respect him/her and never will you understand him/her if never appreciate them.This is the building block of love and a very strong foundation of happinnes


0 Comments, 50 Views, 96 Votes ,8.21 Score
rm_BiSalemOR 55 M
3  Articles
Cheating might be wrong   10/13/2003

I can see cheating as wrong at times. I am a very loyal guy and would never cheat. However, I feel that if the wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband doesn't mind then I don't think of it as cheating. But to me its a little more detailed than that. If I say its ok and we know exactly when then its ok but even if we say its ok to have sex with others but you SO doesn't when or who then its ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 43 Votes ,3.61 Score
FunandFresh4U 58 M
0  Articles
To my beautiful love Taylor from your devoted friend Kathy   10/12/2003

It was several years ago, I was 20 years old. I was still living at home with my parents and commuting to college nearby. I had been in two relationships in my life at that point. The first boy I had sex with was two years older than me. After all the mental buildup I had in my head it was not as good as I thought it would be, it hurt and I did not orgasm. It turned me off on sex for a ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
Re: The Cheating versus Marriage argument - my opinion   10/12/2003

And yes, opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one! For what it is worth, this is my opinion. <br> Marriage is not wrong. It is a construct of man, not God, most definitely. Marriage is a form of relationship that suits some people and not others. There are many reasons why marriages fail, and cheating is certainly one of them. Cheating IS definitely wrong, but it ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 31 Votes ,7.65 Score
Salvation or Cheating   10/4/2003

It's already been said here, so I won't reiterate the fact to much. Marriage is an abnormality in the biological sense. Our ancestors bound themselves to each other in order to survive. In today's world Marriage still has this benefit, and the bond of love between two people who pledged their hearts to each other is typically thought to be eternal. What people neglect to think about is our ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 72 Votes ,7.79 Score
rm_Dizzzzzzy 43 F
1  Article
Why do we change to make someone happy?   10/2/2003

When we met I was a strong, forthright, opinionated, confident woman... but when we split I realised I'd turned into someone who apologised for things I knew I wasn't responsible for, someone who daren't express differing views for fear of annoying him, someone who worried all the time that I wasn't good enough and he'd find someone better! And why? No.... HOW did it happen? Why, when in ...


4 Comments, 186 Views, 110 Votes ,9.36 Score
GoddessSekhmet 43 C
3  Articles
My thoughts on Cheating   9/24/2003

I have been in a relationship for almost 6 years and I would be lieing is I said neither of us have looked..But neither of us have ever acted on those looks. I think if either party is thinking about acting on that thought then there is something wrong at home. And you should resolve those issues before you go looking for sex else where..Sex is Sex is sex no matter how you wrap it. I am ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
Secretcpl69 63,1958 C
4  Articles
Being Honest About Fantasies   9/19/2003

Being honest about your fantasies with the one you love can increase your pleasure a thousand times and bring you closer together. Lying about your fantasies to your lover or yourself will eventually tear apart even the strongest relationship. It is also unnecessary when your fantasies are the same as the one you love, and who loves you. This happened to me and my husband. Lying and ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 157 Votes ,7.39 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: WOMEN ARE FROM JUPITER!   9/7/2003

This happened to be one of the worst articles I have read here so far and I am amazed that some people (men, I guess) think it is good. It is very badly written and it shows that the person who wrote it (a man, I guess) doesn't know what he is talking about! Have you ever considered that it takes two to tango? That if the woman is sexually not interested maybe something is missing which is ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 72 Votes ,7.55 Score
Cheating   8/24/2003

There are diffrent forms of cheating, there is the physical form, and the emotional form. If you confide in some one other than your spouse any problems you are having it's cheating, even if it's about them. I a relationship it take two to have open comunicatoins. Emotional infedlity can be just as bad as the physical cheating that normaly fallows the emotional infedlity.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 58 Votes ,1.50 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: A Third Alternative to Cheating or Divorce   8/12/2003

I fully agree that people should do what works best in their case and often it is hard to judge if you are not in that position but after reading this article I am not sure that this people are not wasting their lives away. Wouldn't it be better for them to get a divorce, the man who is not interested in sex any longer can go and live his own life, maybe even move to the place where he ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 75 Votes ,5.00 Score
stronger foundation   8/7/2003

In a relationship, the following must be present in order to have a stronger foundation—Love, Respect, Trust, and being open to suggestion.... In all these important ingredients, with a good way of communicating with each other the couple can be very much in good hands with each other. Expressing what and how you feel play an essential part as well. Be honest to each other in all ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 59 Votes ,6.94 Score
KinkyHotDessert 71 F
5  Articles
A Third Alternative to Cheating or Divorce   8/7/2003

Perhaps the answer to a poor sex life at home is not cheating or divorce. <br> <br> I have a friend who did it another way and it works so well for them that I am thinking of trying it also. <br> My friend, the wife (55) is married to a man (56) and suddenly about five years her husband decided that he was no longer interested in sex. The wife however was ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 91 Votes ,7.08 Score
Get Over It !   8/5/2003

An adult sex site is gonna have people who are married and cheating, that's a given. I have my own opinion about cheaters but that's just it, it my opinion and means 'squat'. A person who has decided to cheat will not have their minds changed by strangers berating them. It's a decision they've made. The only way that someone who's cheating should affect your life HERE ON AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site is if a ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 99 Votes ,8.16 Score
BadMiGirl32 58 F
17  Articles
Re:Cheating Is Wrong No Matter what   8/5/2003

Well if your only lacking sex in a marriage...."a man who has lived up to his end of the bargain, provided for his wife and family has no business expecting sex from is wife?? Then what DOES that earn for the husband then?? A thanks dear and a cold shower??" And I am sure if we talked to your wife, you havent held up your end of any bargain....pssst...maybe you dont know this but a ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 46 Votes ,2.59 Score
On the saga goes   7/2/2003

Ladies, <br> If we have sex with you, we will respect you in the morning, given that we respected you the night before. Having been married fifteen years to a dinosaur, the sex is good, but includes no anal, no oral, no tables, no floors, no spontaneighity, and a shitload of irony. I am thoroughly frustrated and always on the prowl. I am constantly having sex with friends, ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 36 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_MiosotisX 60 F
8  Articles
Re: On married men... A cheating wife's view   6/19/2003

I'm sorry but I can't agree at all with what you wrote and yes... I have been in a situation where sex was not satisfying, stayed for 10 years but it was my choice and that gave me no permission to cheat! Cheating and lying is a wrong way to lead your life whether it is in an intimate relationship or any other kind: friendship, work, etc. A cheater and a lier is a cheater and a lier in ...


0 Comments, 296 Views, 75 Votes ,5.56 Score
BadMiGirl32 58 F
17  Articles
Cheating   6/15/2003

I just read the articles on Cheating etc. in this column and in others on this site. I cant believe the opinions for most people and how most feel it is ok to stay married and cheat for the sake of the and assests.....hmmmm let's be "real" for a minute, in a few years when these are adults all of us older people will wonder why so many are screwed up and cant be in a good solid ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 57 Votes ,5.98 Score
BadMiGirl32 58 F
17  Articles
On Married Men....Part 2   5/29/2003

OMG....I cant believe you have such a immature opinion about it being ok for a married man to cheat. Us independent WOMEN who are very open minded that want a whole man rather than just a man who is lacking sex in his marriage are in fact at terms with men like you out here and we scare you because we are onto your game *smile*....there is more to life than sex and there is more to ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 48 Votes ,4.96 Score
MissAnnThrope 50 F
0  Articles
Re: On married men   5/24/2003

I'm a single, strong, independent woman. The one thing I don't do, and will never, ever do is play with another woman's man. Why are you looking outside of your relationship for sex? What is going on at home? Your wife has no energy after working a full day, making sure the got their homework done, making dinner, doing the dishes, housework, and then you expect her to be ready, ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 84 Votes ,5.37 Score
BadMiGirl32 58 F
17  Articles
Re: On married men   5/22/2003

My personal opinion on married people cheating...fix what's wrong at home yourself before you go out looking for something or someone to fix it for you or to fill the missing part! If 2 people are in agreement on one or the other cheating that's fine we are adults and we are entitled to choose whatever it is we want to do, as for me getting involved with a married man..... I Won't Do It, ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 60 Votes ,4.24 Score
Sohard when your into bdsm and finding a genuine person.   5/9/2003

Hello everyone, Just wanted to say how hard I find it to meet someone who is into my lifestyle who is genuine, caring and wants a one to one relationship. Ive been trained as a Slave, had a great relationship with my previous Master for over a year, but unfortunately because of his circumstances we are not together. Im sure there must be genuine Masters, Doms, Dommes, Slaves out there, ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 45 Votes ,7.61 Score
A Story of Two   5/7/2003

From the very beginning she found herself attracted to him…..their was a warmth in his smile.....tenderness came across in his voice...gentleness in his heart...physically and sexually they were in tune...all very good reasons to want to find out more about him ! He spoke of pouring her a bath and washing her hair, while he prepared dinner…and much more than words did she ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 64 Votes ,7.69 Score
Trusting   4/27/2003

I am in a great relationship with a girl I truly believe I love, but find myself having the occasional mistrustful thought. I normally have a lot of trouble trusting, but I hate it. I am sure I have nothing to worry about with this woman. I do trust her, but can't resist the bad thoughts once in a while. Anyone have any suggestions on how to completely trust? Because trust is very ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 59 Votes ,8.10 Score
rm_redroses4me 54 C
1  Article
RE: Why women play games   4/22/2003

AMEN to the man that said men play games too!!!! I'm not saying that women don't, but I swear they teach men in elementary school how to play the games. The one I think I hate the most is when you start out in a relationship everything is going great, you let the man set the pace (god knows you don't want to spook him) he calls every day, wants to see you all the time, then WHAM he calls ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 88 Votes ,7.14 Score
Chamber Maid   3/29/2003

I am available when you need to go out of town on business. It's great that I can join you on the trip. We've arranged to have some extra time so there will be fun, as well as work, on this trip. We have a chance to talk a lot during the couple of hours it takes to fly to the destination. Current events, memorable experiences, childhood stories... all give us a feeling of growing ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 46 Votes ,7.32 Score
response to DO PEOPLE find people/relationships here? YES IT DOES   3/17/2003

My answer is yes. We met through AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site, had a baby girl in May, and are still together. <br> YES AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site works.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 35 Votes ,6.50 Score
Is he still attrated to me?   3/10/2003

Will I really am very confused, and really don't know who to talk to about this, but here go's. My boyfriend of only 6 months is not giving me the attention I need. when we had first met I had told him that I acquire alot of attention and he had no problem with that, but now I am lucky if he even glances ovor at me naked. Theres a little age difference between us about 14 years he is ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 33 Votes ,1.68 Score
Older woman Please Let Go   3/2/2003

I am Writing this letter because I am tired of seeing ads from woman who are older who reject men because they are younger without even giving them a shot. <br> I know men who will not date a woman once she hits 45 and many have wives who they dont touch but maybe once a month but they have girlfriends 19-30 tucked away that they have sex with 3-5 times a week. <br> I ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 121 Votes ,8.70 Score
direption69 53 F
20  Articles
Trying Again.....   2/21/2003

In a follow-up to Moving Forward? <br> Well, I approached him, and a more emotionally involved relationship is not what he wants. (I knew this going into the relationship, and did not try to change it.) I asked politely and calmly with the knowledge that we had an agreement for sex only, and I was pushing the boundaries and rules discussed over the past year. <br> No ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 25 Votes ,6.45 Score
He doesn't know he dominates me   1/31/2003

I have been exploring my submissive side for about five years. It is so difficult for me to express my interest in this lifestyle because of who I am. If you met me in person you would never know I have this side. I am highly educated, have a great job and appear to be in total control of my life. Who would ever imagine I want to be a submissive to a man? Obviously, not many men think ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 49 Votes ,7.93 Score
direption69 53 F
20  Articles
Moving forward?   1/4/2003

Getting past the loneliness…. <br> <br> It’s been a very long time since I’ve had a relationship. Life happens, and now there are so many responsibilities.I have a very ill parent who is my dependant and live thousands of miles away from the socially structured family and friends to whom I am close. These relationships are very difficult and at times ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 42 Votes ,6.62 Score
man from singapore (2)   12/22/2002

Past few day I couldn't stop thinking of susan and was fascinated of her sexist figures and snowy complexion.Meantime, I'm quite worried and afraid my wife might found out what I've done to susan.Fortunately, My wife was so busy with work, Anyway relationship with susan was fantastic and I were patiently awaiting for any opportunity to make love to her again.Finally day arrival, My wife was ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 29 Votes ,5.35 Score
man from singapore   11/19/2002

I've been married for 22 years, middle age chinese man had two , A girl and a boy. Boy was in military and girl in university.They would come home only on weedend. One day my wife younger sister(susan 35) call and said she would like to come over to stay my house, No problem, I've always had a good relationship with her. One day my wife was out working, susan got out the shower and steped ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 70 Votes ,4.44 Score