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How long? 7/18/2005
I know this question has is been asked to death, but I must
ask how long dose a person wait for intmaticy or a real sign
for something to hold on to. Here is the situation. I met
this beautiful lady on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site and when we met it was good enough
to meet again and again with emails and then phone calls
etc. After a while of talking and learning more about each
other she decides to take it ...
2 Comments, 434 Views,
17 Votes
,4.96 Score
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What takes up in building a strong love relation 7/18/2005
I have been thinking a lot regarding what makes a love relation
more strong and florish. People I would like you to post
your reviews and suggestions.
Thank you
2 Comments, 338 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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The beginning is the most important 7/17/2005
When young and in a relationship, one must always pay attention
to their spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend or etc, and give
them attention, because if you don't. Then someone
else will.
1 Comments, 382 Views,
16 Votes
,3.57 Score
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The Line! 7/14/2005
As I approach the line, a glance at the people in front of
me reminds me that it will be some time before I get out of
this place.Standing there-trying to be invisible-when
I'm awakened by the scent of the person in front of me.I
can feel the hair on my neck as it starts to rise.I think to
myself, "what is wrong with you?" She turns
her head slightly.I can see the outline of her face."Who ...
1 Comments, 491 Views,
20 Votes
,5.81 Score
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cuddling 7/13/2005
In this day and age, young lovers and not so young lovers
are faced with
a nearly insurmountable task of recapturing romance in
a very busy world.
We have become a society at the speed of light and in doing
so, we have forgotten the
sensual pleasure of presenting a dew covered rose to a lover
with breakfast in the morning because there simply isn't
time for it.
<br>
I contend ...
1 Comments, 234 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Baggage The type you "want" to Lose 7/12/2005
In relationships the worst term I hear is the term "baggage"
(please note I am not referring to ) I am referring
to what we are accustomed to in our previous relationships
and we bring into the current one. We expect that because
this is the way it was previously this is the way it will be...NOT
TRUE!!! We need to lose that baggage...just like no 2 snowflakes
are alike so can be said for ...
1 Comments, 178 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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The building blocks to a successful relationship 7/10/2005
Today's life is so fast that we dont find time to look
towards our relationship with friends, family and others.
Through this article I would like to know what can a man do
to achieve the best in all the fields.
0 Comments, 164 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Ex Wifes 7/8/2005
Why is it that Ex-wifes hang on to something that is no longer
there.My ex husbands first wife kept trying to hang onto
him and then when she found on that he cheated on me with my
best friend she finally gave up on him.S he hounded us and
even tried to kidnap our saying they were hers and everything.She
would constantly call the both of us at work.Why would a
ex wife do that?
2 Comments, 348 Views,
18 Votes
,0.94 Score
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The man of my dreams does exsist. Do screw it up 7/8/2005
I meet a guy on Passion.com and he is the most amazing man
I have ever met. Yes the sex is the most amazing I have ever
had. But there is more to him than that. He is charming, funny,
sexy, sweet, understanding, talented, attentive and
much more. He makes me feel like the most special person
in the universe when we are together. I think about him all
the time. I long to be near him, ...
3 Comments, 250 Views,
10 Votes
,1.39 Score
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i meet a great guy on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site the love my life 7/6/2005
durning the worst of the time of my life back in march my marriage
was going down hill.i meet him here on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site
he picked up the pieces of my broken heart . i never had a man
treat me like a queen.and just want say thanks to AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for
bring us together
0 Comments, 156 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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unfortunately till now 7/2/2005
not yet find short or long term ralationship....
1 Comments, 333 Views,
15 Votes
,1.45 Score
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Starting with sex? 6/29/2005
Can there possibly be a long lasting relationship that
starts with meeting for sex?
<br>
There seems to be an impression among some women on here
that this is possible.
<br>
I don't think so. What do you think?
6 Comments, 254 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score
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head games or deception 6/28/2005
“Please no HEAD GAMES.”
<br>
That’s a favorite phrase in many profiles.
<br>
How about this.
<br>
I don’t think two people can avoid playing head games.
<br>
Let’s face it, parents play head games with their and
eventually the learn the games and begin to play head
games with their parents. play head games with
their ...
3 Comments, 128 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Take it slow 6/28/2005
What's the best way to keep yourself emotionally detatched
from someone? Do you have a good way to have sex and still
remain a little distant?
1 Comments, 144 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Building a relationship 6/27/2005
Communication is for sure very important for a relationship.
But can a relationship, even with good communication,
survive without good sex?
3 Comments, 169 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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How long do you wait 6/27/2005
How long would you wait to meet a person you were chatting
with online?
<br>
I have met a wonderful woman online who makes my heart race
as we chat. I feel a need to meet her but will that spoil what
we have?
<br>
Please advise me your thoughts
6 Comments, 263 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Strong Will Woman 6/26/2005
She comes from a long line of women who have always been head
of the household and called the shots, and NEVER had any
strong male role models around. In that situation one can
only understand a woman being that way. But those near and
dear to her need to know "that she" cares because
the words "I love you" and hugs and other signs
of affection are hard to come by from ...
3 Comments, 206 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score
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Why is it.... 6/24/2005
Why is it that after a girl has had a long term relationship
which ended in the other partner cheating on her....will
it take them over 6 months before they possibly even think
about entering into another relationship?
<br>
How long should it take?
8 Comments, 199 Views,
9 Votes
,0.22 Score
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this is tough... 6/22/2005
this can be tough or easy. what do you do to make it as easy
as you can. is it easier with a stranger, or a friend.
2 Comments, 191 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Foregiveness 6/22/2005
Many people seem to think that no one should ever be disowned…
<br>
How would you handle someone if you knew they intentionally
did things with the intention of strictly bringing harm
to another?
<br>
If they used every man or woman that crossed their path?
<br>
And when you finally confront them about the issue…
<br>
They make absolutely ...
1 Comments, 75 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Get help - you need it. 6/22/2005
Do you feel the last of passion in your relationship? Do
you feel that he/she is not meeting your needs? I use to think
my wife had to feel this void in me. She had to be the one who
at all times would help me feel better about myself. When
she didn't I felt betrayed and alone. I was setting
her up for failure and myself too. The problem is I didn't
know my low esteem would not be ...
2 Comments, 139 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Guys Just LISTEN already! 6/22/2005
I was talking to a friend who was in the middle of a separation.
He wanted so badly to fix the situation but his wife made
it clear she needs space. What was his plan of attack? To
call her about everything asking her opinion. He wondered
why she wouldn't return his calls. This is a classic
example of the lacking of listening done but us, the stronger
sex. It took alot of therepy and ...
3 Comments, 188 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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To say..or not to say? 6/21/2005
Very recently I've started dating a guy and we really
hit it off, and even though there's an attraction to
each other I'm holding off from jumping into bed with
him right away because I really like his friendship and
I want him to stick around. We've talked about anything
and everything so far, except for the fact that I'm
on this website. I'd like to know if anyone out there
...
7 Comments, 332 Views,
17 Votes
,4.54 Score
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Just Half-way out the closet 6/21/2005
Ok....I know I'm not the only one who's curious.
What do you do when you're married and willing. I guess
just being Bi.... but secretly. How do you let your secret
be known and not published. How do you know who's down
and who's not. Are there topics, gestures..What??
2 Comments, 143 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Fellas Represent 6/21/2005
I have a few questions, are men capable of fidelity? How
many of u guys have been completely (no head, rimming, fingering,
licking or having sex with another woman or man)faithful
to your girl?
<br>
If guys can;pt be faithful should women simply pursue pleasure
to what ever means as men do?
<br>
Waiting to hear from the fellas!!!!!!!!!
8 Comments, 371 Views,
16 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Keys to conflict resolution 6/21/2005
Communication breakdown is very often the root of all relational
problems. Communication breakdown often stem from misunderstandings
from unclear or a lack of communication. Try to put yourself
in the mindset or situation of the person with whom you're
in conflict. Considering their perspective may help foster
empathy and help in conflict resolution. If you are having
a problem with someone ...
1 Comments, 143 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Second Time Around .... 6/19/2005
New relationships take loads of work. For the most part
it is easy, conversation never runs dry, the company of
someone you fancy is always great and the chemistry is well
BADOW!!
<br>
The problem begins when it gets more serious. I am newly
married to the love of my life and prior to us getting married,
I thought I was pretty together and that I had delt with all
my past issue's ...
1 Comments, 124 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Story of a Woman who just turned 33 6/18/2005
When I was 16, I hoped that one day I would have a boyfriend.
<br>
When I was 18, I got a boyfriend, but there was no passion.
So I decided I needed a passionate guy with a zest for life.
<br>
In college I dated a passionate guy, but he was too emotional.
Everything was an emergency, he was a drama queen, cried
all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed
a guy ...
3 Comments, 220 Views,
10 Votes
,6.37 Score
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INSTALLING LOVE 6/18/2005
Tech Support: Yes, ... how can I help you?
<br>
Customer: Well, after much consideration, I've decided
to install Love. Can you guide me through the process?
<br>
Tech Support: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?
<br>
Customer: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think
I'm ready. What do I do first?
<br>
Tech Support: The first step is to ...
2 Comments, 103 Views,
13 Votes
,5.83 Score
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Dreams 6/15/2005
It was late in the evening when I finally drifted off to sleep
this evening. I had been up late working remotely and lost
track of the time. I chose to put my laptop away and curl into
the bed for some much needed sleep, around 1:30 am.
<br>
The evening was fairly still the window was open allowing
a gentle breeze to drift in as sounds from the outside world
muttered away in the ...
0 Comments, 124 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Love online 6/13/2005
Is it realy possible to find your one and only online? Talking
to someone via chat and getting to know them though pics
is great, but how do you get to know all there little quirks.
We all have them. how is it possible to get that across online?
2 Comments, 147 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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build 6/12/2005
lots of common interests andyou should be friends, gotta
be able to talk to the person as if they were your close friend.
and lots of love, gotta show it and say it and meant it. devotion
and caring.
0 Comments, 77 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Lancelot 6/11/2005
I truly do not know why women like Lancelot…
<br>
He was not a knight…
<br>
The moment he took Guinevere into his bed…
<br>
He violated one of the most important rules of knighthood!
<br>
King Arthur was far greater a lover then Lancelot.
<br>
Lancelot only loved war and women and Arthur loved the world!
<br>
I ...
0 Comments, 155 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Meeting the right man 6/10/2005
Is possible do that?... Meet someone here in this chat and
talk with honesty and freedom, be just us. Here i founded
a lot of kinds of men, but noone seems to be ready for me. Someones
just want the sex...in ciber or in real, doesnt matter for
them, others wants to play, to conquer the woman, they need
to reaffirm his masculinity, others want to learn (the
youngers) and they want a women ...
2 Comments, 259 Views,
18 Votes
,3.67 Score
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communications 6/6/2005
Communications between you and you partner are the essential
ingredints when building a relationship. Good communications
on every level verbal, touch, listening, and response
to name a few.
So take you time and learn from each other you will reach
new levels younever dreamed of.
1 Comments, 162 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Still in the dark 6/5/2005
Update: I may be loosing it lol...I still cannot read this
woman, soon as I think I get it, she changes lol....so I put
my brakes on and hold back. i.e. article title: "What
to do?" (Read it, may help to follow where I am at) I
hope soon that things will become more clearer...She is
still in the no relationship mode, sometimes she seems
to break away from it just a little but gets herself ...
0 Comments, 196 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Have to Rebuild Now.. 6/5/2005
don't know how many of you read the articles all the
<br>
time. But a while back I posted in the "Breaking Up"
section regarding my husband and my feelings for our marraige.
<br>
Lots has happened since that article including the fact
<br>
that my husband read it and everything else I have posted.
<br>
Has that stopped me from saying and posting things ...
4 Comments, 400 Views,
21 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Lies , Deception, and the rich man its all about who is taking advantage of who 6/4/2005
We have all been there, you meet someone online, you talk
for hours, days and then weeks. This person does not seem
perfect, but you are willing to take a chance and meet him.
I did this. I agreed to meet this person, and then he drops
a little information to me. He wants to know if it makes a
difference that he is in a wheelchair. I tell him it does
not. And that is the truth, what does ...
1 Comments, 229 Views,
15 Votes
,2.52 Score
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2005-05-31
Everyone has their very own trick of the trade - what is the
"one thing" that you use to keep your prospective
partners coming back to you - sexually or not?
Class would have to be my "1 thing"
With class, you are able to do a lot more than others and get
away with it, and your partners would want to be even more
discreet about your encounters because, let's face
it, how many uninhibited and eager to please classy ladies
do you really know? I'd get snatched up pretty quickly,
so they had better be hush about me! 
Comments, Views,
Votes
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one night stands? 5/31/2005
why is it that everyone in this site or any adult site for
that matter is just looking for sex...fair enough sex is
great but it doesnt fulfil all of ones desires..what ever
happened to movies, and dinner, and the old fashioned
ways..i might only be 21, but
ive been brought up to have respect for myself.
im not about to go screw someone, cos ya horney..isnt that
what vibraters are ...
6 Comments, 516 Views,
37 Votes
,5.52 Score
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True Feelings... 5/30/2005
I consider myself conservative.. yet my true feelings
want me to discover myself.
<br>
I have been faithful so far.. yet.. the inner me feels that
I should have an intimate and discreet relationship.
<br>
I know it is disrespectful to seek out an intimate relationship...
yet I feel that so long as I build a friendship and not hurt
her feelings.. it should be ok.
...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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Approaching a Relationship 5/30/2005
Base rules obviously apply that every single individual
is unique and reacts differently to varying actions. I'm
a pretty straight forward chivilarous type of guy who understands
the little nuances of behavior especially in regards to
the communication department which I'm pretty good
at. I'm also smart enough to know what does and doesn't
work for me. I'm very knowledgable and I know ...
0 Comments, 69 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Not Everything Here Is Just Sex 5/30/2005
Alot say that everybody here only are after for sex..I say
its no truth!! Shouting it loud NO TRUTH!! I met lots of members
here but a special relationship build-up. I have met people
who are nice open minded that i became friends with in many
ways have helped me see myself, my strength, learn me of
my sexual prowse. Its up to the subcriber of this website
how one deals with the people ...
3 Comments, 127 Views,
20 Votes
,3.38 Score
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Maybe you can help me? 5/30/2005
I have known this guy for almost a year now.The first day
that we met we fooled around.My friends knew him longer
than me so it wasnt like all of us just met him.He is twenty
eight and I just turned twenty.
In the past year we have probably hung out about five times.I
know where he works so I can see him whenever I want.At first
everything went real well
but then we started to fall ...
4 Comments, 192 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Treat her right 5/29/2005
The web, and with it, swing sites, offer a world of opportunities
for people to meet new friends and enjoy both companionship
and clean, safe erotic experiences. BUT, there are enough
men out there playing games, that it gives all of us a bad
reputation, AND it does injustice to the women who are looking
for a fun but honest relationship.
Please - men - when you chat with ladies on ...
0 Comments, 81 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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One night Stand??? 5/27/2005
Hi, thanks for reading this...
I just want to know what ever happen to Getting to Know somebody
and friendship??? No one at this site its looking for that.
Everyone want to get FUCK or FUCK really hard. Doesn't
matter what happens...Don't get me wrong its really
nice to get Fucked or to Fuck but at least call after that
or get together occassially or something....
But the truth is that ...
2 Comments, 225 Views,
25 Votes
,4.46 Score
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other women especially cacasion? 5/27/2005
as a sister, refrence to black women . I HATE WHEN , A WHITE
WOMEN SAYS I NEED TO WATCH WHO, IM DATING. WE ALL AS WOMEN
HAVE THESE PROBLEMS ITS NOT JUST BLACK, WHITE, ASIANS
ALL.when , i write a post thats all there responses are there
any counsolers in here, therapist, doctors. women of certain
races think they no all, but yet when i give my opion. one
says to me who elected me to speak ...
9 Comments, 167 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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cyber sex and the fantasy 5/26/2005
I've written several stories about experiences and
desires from the people I've meet on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site. I think I have
meet more interesting people that post comments on the
stories, and I seem to make their days and nights more enjoyable.
One lady recently started corresponding with me and sending
pictures. This lady is for real, and loves to show you what
you want to see. No longer that I asked ...
1 Comments, 116 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Success/Disappointing Stories 5/21/2005
Hi All,
<br>
We met here on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site, and currently have a great relationship.
There is honest, open communication, common interests,
and fantastic sex. We believe these attributes will help
us grow even closer, and substantiate a long-term relationship.
<br>
Are there other members out there that have hooked up here
on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site, that would like to share their success stories? ...
1 Comments, 106 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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3Some Success Rate on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site 5/21/2005
As a m/f couple trying to find a bi-female for threesome
fun, I've come across many other couples having the
same difficulty of successfully meeting a woman on Adult
FriendFinder who fits the bill. I'm curious to know
the success rate of specifically m/f couples and single
women who have actually met through AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site.
In addition to the success story, please share any tips
of ...
3 Comments, 226 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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yeppi 5/18/2005
no relationship is a good relationship
2 Comments, 87 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Serious or Joking? 5/14/2005
Serious or Joking?
Women who live in: In your Dreams, None of your Business,
Somewhere Near You... etc.
<br>
It tickles me to read people who post personals like these.
I wonder if they get many responses?
<br>
I guess proximity is not an issue for them?
1 Comments, 72 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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How do u survive the time in between without contact and the empty feeling/loneliness at that time? 5/14/2005
Well, this is a tough one to write...nervous. But, when
u care an love osmeone and the response back is the same,
then you do what u must do. I have met 2 wonderful ladies in
AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site and it seems one has taken a stong liking to me and =I her.
The other is more the , well, shal we say, the guarded type...more
serious and thinks more. I can understand that fully and
have told her so. But ...
0 Comments, 115 Views,
0 Votes
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Honesty part 2?? 5/13/2005
From my last article "honesty does it really work"
I have only gotten a few responses. I wrote that article
as a comment and a question and not saying that I do it, believe
it or not some people are honest. One person that wrote told
the truth about not be honest and what it not worth it. For
the other two, they took it and responded like I was the one
not being honest. Just like that I got ...
1 Comments, 114 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Is it possible to meet someone online, and find love? 5/12/2005
I have been on here for quite awhile now, but have only met
a couple of men. I have had lunch dates both times. I am very
leery of meeting for a drink, or for dinner. I just do not
believe that meeting someone online will last! I am SO tired
of caring about someone, only for them to start talking
to someone else online, and think I am not so special, after
all! That has happened to me twice ...
1 Comments, 475 Views,
28 Votes
,4.27 Score
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What I need..... 5/12/2005
What I need is
A soft touch
Someone to be there
Someone to hold
To share the laughs and ironies
To share the sorrows and tears
A hand to hold
Eyes to see
Ears to hear
Another soul who cares
A shoulder, a face, a neck
It doesn’t matter where
It doesn’t matter what
It doesn’t matter when
Just a soul that's willing to accept
I don't ...
6 Comments, 141 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Only Time Will Tell 5/12/2005
Could this strange life that I live ever become my true life?
Will the friends that I have made be close enough to meet?
These questions that I ask can only be answered in time.
This poses another question.
Do I have the time left on earth to make it happen?
Once again this can only be answered in time.
<br>
Then if time is the answer,
The only way for my strange life to be ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
0 Votes
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Master Plans, Anyone? 5/11/2005
Hi. 6-6-12 here. Question for ya--- Anyone here have/had
any sort of master plan? For instance, finish high school
and marry your childhood sweetheart, or wait until ya finish
college before ya date, or win the lottery and live it up?
Howzabout plans for meeting some folk or some one here?
I would assume you could exchange winks, then invite one
to your network and get to know ...
2 Comments, 35 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Honesty does it really work?? 5/11/2005
Ha, everyone!
Well I have read a article about people being honest, and
I agreed with that person 100% that people can't handle
other people being honest even when they ask for it.
In my profile I was totally honest and told the truth in what
I'm looking for and so far I've had some people
look at my profile. I have also posted a few article in different
Categories and still I ...
5 Comments, 94 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Partnership 5/11/2005
To be able to have a relationship, one must be a true partner.
If you sit back and make your partner take all the responsiblities
in a relationship then you are not a partner but a user. Anyone
that thinks they can sit back and ride while the other person
handles all the finances, decisions, and planning will
be disapointed. If you do not contribute then you will be
no more than another ...
1 Comments, 31 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Long distance 5/10/2005
I am in a long distance relationship and have been for 3 months.
I love my partner and everything and i don't want to
loose him because they are the best thing that ever happened
to me and i dont know if i could tell anyone about my past again
like he knows me, But recently over the past few weeks we
dont talk anymore. We sit on the phone in silence mostly
saying very little to each other. ...
2 Comments, 178 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Is there really ANY way of working in a long distance relationship? 5/10/2005
Every long distance relationship I've been in, sucked.
I wanna know if it's like this with you guys too.
4 Comments, 117 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Love and Friends 5/9/2005
Yes it is true that we look for someone who will be a friend
to our friends but what if that person does not want to be
friends with your friends? What is more important -- the
relationship or the friendship? This is a defining moment
in our lives because for somethings we must compromise
and sometimes we must stand firm. I think the most important
question is to ask -- do her friends ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Babe in the Woods 5/8/2005
So here's the deal. As an inexperienced 22-year old
male, I'm sorely conscious of what I'm missing
in the dating game. To build up esteem, I've been toying
with the idea of having some casual sexual encounters with
women in the hope of boosting my confidence. I hope this
will help me be more relaxed the next time I go on a date.
When approaching women, I am painfully shy, and the fairer ...
2 Comments, 146 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Is it mind games only here? 5/8/2005
I've been a member for sometime, I have found that some
people do not trust you when you are utterly honest with
them. I have found a few times that it seems to be the women
who are not the honest ones. This site is for people who want
to enjoy other people. I have only so far mind games. Very
frustrating but I home in time I will get to know someone
worth while. Thx
0 Comments, 92 Views,
0 Votes
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is it wrong? 5/5/2005
Is it wrong to have a relationship with someone that you
only like physically? I don't think it's so bad,
as long as you both enjoy what you get out of it.
3 Comments, 129 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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WHY IS IT SO HARD? 5/5/2005
IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR A REALLY NICE GUY FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP
AND IT JUST DONT HAPPEN. IM NOT BAD LOOKING, HAVE A PRETTY
NICE BODY, AND AM A VERY LOVING, CARING PERSON. OF COURSE
I AM 61 YEARS OLD AND THAT PROBABLY REALLY TURNS OFF THE YOUNGER
GUYS, BUT WHY??
WE SENIORS HAVE WEATHERED THE STORMS AND HAVE PATIENCE,
MOST GENERALLY AM VERY TRUSTING AND TRUE TO THE PERSON WE
ARE ...
1 Comments, 84 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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So far so good 5/4/2005
We have just begun to talk about the lifestyle. And if nothing
else it has strengthened our communication with each other.
Its has provoked some conversations and I feel like this
is something you need to talk about before doing. Has anyone
had a meeting that just turned you off from meeting more
people?? I want to know that after the sex you can still hang
out and be friends. The sex is ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Compatabilty through personality types and horoscopes. 5/1/2005
My personality type is INTJ. According to the AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site site,
there are no women who are my personality matches (INTJ
or INTP). How can this be?
<br>
Am I missing something, or is there no way to search for matches
by other such criteria? Why not set up a matching system
for horoscopes of both types and from thos matches test
them against Cupid settings?
<br>
And, while I'm ...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Is it really possible? 5/1/2005
Is it really possible to find “just friendship” from this
site? I’m been married for 25 years and we are just now starting
to emerge from the roughest time of our marriage. The one
thing that has helped us is knowing it’s possible to have
close friends of the opposite sex out side of the marriage.
After 25 years of being tightly rapped around your partner
and ...
0 Comments, 90 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Advice for first timers 4/30/2005
My wife and I are just starting with the possibility. of
swinging. We enjoy sex very much and love each other with
no limits. She gets hot watching porn. It turns her on big
time to watch someone get it hard. She likes it hard and fast.
After talking to her about it, she said it would be fun to
fuck in the same room as another couple. I have seen some
pic's of women in here I would love to ...
1 Comments, 142 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Starting it off... 4/28/2005
Starting it off…
<br>
I saw another women comment on opening mail and I thought
it to be funny, funny though only because it is so accurate.
<br>
I think a lot of guys see a naked body and then suddenly respond
to that without thinking of what she has to say of her desires.
<br>
Every woman that has mailed me has made direct responses
to my profile and ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
17 Votes
,5.53 Score
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Starting a relationship. 4/28/2005
Do NOT use "u" to mean "you." Do NOT use "4" to mean "for."
<br>
When I see those two -- and some others I can't remember
because I'm so angry -- I feel the girl is about 12 and/or
not very bright.
<br>
Please, girls, use words. The right words. Check your spelling.
I see lots of complaints about how men write like they're
stupid -- and the women do not recognize that ...
5 Comments, 157 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Internet Dating 4/26/2005
Internet Dating
<br>
<br>
We all come to the Internet for something different; we
all ended up here for a different reason as well. I think
a lot of people here are strictly here because they saw the
word “sex” in the title and missed the part about swingers
and personals.
<br>
I know that personally I have experienced things in life
that ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
17 Votes
,5.67 Score
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Mr.Mom 4/24/2005
I wonder if a guy with 2 has a chance at meeting someone
on here that would like to share there life, body and soul?
Any thoughts, suggestions would be helpful. Have a great
day! Keith
1 Comments, 77 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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Pictures 4/24/2005
I have a note for the guys out there looking for a long term
relationship. If a woman doesn't have a photo you can
save alot of time by passing up the profile. They are not
stable or happy with the way they look. If you do decide to
check them out they might give you a photo of when they were
a bit happier with themselves, but rest assured they are
not at all like the photo they will send ...
1 Comments, 168 Views,
12 Votes
,1.56 Score
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Well Now 4/23/2005
There is to ways to build a relaitonship you just haft to
ask you self if you want a good one or a bad one.To have a good
one you need to care deeply about that person, be honest, loving
and carring, and very open to that person.Now to build
a bad relationship just lie cheat and disrespect that person
and you will have it.
Always treat them if there was know tomarrow.
0 Comments, 50 Views,
3 Votes
,0.98 Score
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It is all about TRUST! 4/22/2005
The base for a strong relationship is "Trust".
If you trust each other, there will be no jealousy or doubt
in either of your minds.
<br>
Remember trust is only the base, caring, consideration,
love, goodwill, and commitment are needed to sustain a
relationship.
1 Comments, 67 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Reality & Relationships 4/21/2005
listen, I dont believe in anything relative to "the
perfect relationship". Men are never satisfied
with that woman that go the extra mile for them. They only
realise the sweetness of their cherry after its gone. Women
are the same, they tend to not see that they have a good man.
They just keep looking at the other girls DIC. Females you
too need to realise that men only look better in the ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Being 100% honest about what you want 4/20/2005
Relationships seem hard many times becuase we are not blunt
and to the point about what we really want. It is true that
compromise is necessary to develop a relationship, BUT
you have to at least know what those things are that you need
to compromise about.
<br>
I have seen from personal experience what happens when
you hide away dreams, desires and wants that you have in
your ...
1 Comments, 93 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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what is safe sex really...??? 4/20/2005
As we go down the road today we hear all types of people say...that
they are really D/D free...is that a part of safe sex...???
Condoms are the only way to have safe sex..or unless you
let your partner give you massage relief..but really what
is safe sex...In one persons eyes its one thing but to another
it is something different..Well to all..have safe sex...keep
it clean...
1 Comments, 86 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Friendship is the Key 4/17/2005
I may be have just become a full-fledged man, at the age of
21 and three-quarters, but there is certainly one thing
that I've learned about relationships. Unless it
is founded on a friendship, it is doomed for failure. I have
been privileged to have a significant other for three years
and I know that if the small things between us weren't
there, we would no longer be together. Think ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
16 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Commitment is aphrodisiac for women, opposite for men? 4/14/2005
I am in a committed relationship and actually live with
my partner. But I find that the closer we become, the more
I want sex and the more new things I am dying to try. But, it
seems to me that my partner wants sex less as he becomes more
comfortable.
<br>
From talking to my friends, this seems quite common. Just
wondering what to do about it. How can I keep having hot sex
and ...
2 Comments, 374 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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My hubby masturbates 4/14/2005
I have a big problem. I got married recently some months
ago and mine was a love marriage. The problem now is that
every night my husband watches television (channels like
FTV) and masturbates.
I know all this as I pretend to be asleep and let him do what
he wants but inside of me I really feel worthless. And then
when I wanna have sex with him than most of the times he declines
and ...
7 Comments, 684 Views,
24 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Is this the place? 4/12/2005
I am horny and yet I want a proper r/s..not just a fling..am
I in the right place..with the right mindset?
0 Comments, 120 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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What to do??? 4/12/2005
I met this lady on this site, we chatted on messengers, and
phone for about 2months, she is getting ready to take some
college courses to get her nursing license, she new I had
room in my place and I offered it to her since her classes
were going to be in my town. One of the first rules of this
business (lol...) adventure was there were to be no sex,
no personal relationship, since she will ...
2 Comments, 384 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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True Love is Trust 4/12/2005
I have to state that after many relationships, I feel that
trust is the most important aspect. You can have fun and
fantacies but you must always have trust to show love and
to be loved. Talk with your partner about your dreams and
fantacies. You may be suprised to know that they may share
a few of them. If you want to try something new be willing
to give as well as take. Women want to feel ...
1 Comments, 179 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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woman on woman is not just a chore ! 4/12/2005
I beleive being with a woman is not just a chore like some
people think.
It takes time to open up, you need to build a friendship,
then the benfits come after it all. i have been in 3 threesomes.
You get all these man that think its just happens in a blink
of an eye because its a lot of guys dreams to see but things
like this involve some sort of relationship to happen .
SO TAKE A MIN , ...
0 Comments, 266 Views,
8 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Dont give 100% you will loose yourself and your other half (pt2) 4/6/2005
Part 2 --The 80% giver--
Well by now I'm sure you know that I'm a lil off the
deep end. Especially that I'm writing this article
as a married man seeking fullfilment.. because nobody's
perfect, remember. I came to a harsh realization that I
wasn't going to find anyone to return unconditional
love as I would want to receive it. Because every time I gave
100% they expected more and more ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Getting past the first stage 4/5/2005
Starting and building a relationship is a trying and at
times stressful endeavor. Attemping to learn about another
person while teaching them about yourself is not easy,
but it can happen. I offer a few points of advice. First,
always think about the other persons needs and desires
first. This is especially true when it comes to physical
intimacy. Always tell the truth when asked a ...
0 Comments, 161 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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Dont give 100% you will loose yourself and your other half 4/5/2005
Ok I'm not Dr Phill. But you can call me Dr Side.... LOL.
Ever since I was 19 I've always found myself at the listening
end of somebody's relationship woes both male and
female, good and bad, who ranged in age from 14-45. Now that
I'm in my mid 30's the only thing that has changed
is my view on how to commit and no longer what to commit. I
still get an earful day in and day out from all ...
0 Comments, 160 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Love With My Accountant 4/3/2005
I work in a small office and was fortunate to hire a beautiful
accountant for my company. I was more interested in her
for her credentials and less her looks, but thought it would
be nice eye candy. She is in her mid-forties but has the face
and body of a 20 year old give or take. Of course, both of us
married kept in notion of a dalliance out of the question.
Well, so I thought. It being ...
0 Comments, 314 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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Being Bi-sexual 4/2/2005
I am bi-sexual and have had alot of problems establishing
a lasting relationship with either male or female. I am
always upfront about my sexuality from the start of any
relationship. My partners tell me they have no problem
with the fact that I am bi-sexual, and love to have sex. Yet,
there always comes a time when my sexuality is thrown in
my face. (Usually with me being accused of ...
3 Comments, 185 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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dont ever stop building 4/2/2005
2 years ago after umpteen years of marriage me and my husband
decided to finally split. I wont go into detail but the once
happy relationship was dead and had been for a while. For
the childrens sake we wanted to part on good terms, after
just one week it became clear we couldn't be apart,
we started dating again and fell in love all over again,
last year on our 14th wedding anniversary we ...
1 Comments, 143 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Trust while trisiting in a relationship 3/31/2005
Tristing~ Do you know what that is? You know its when you
play in AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site land~ that is you are here to
get hooked up with others of like mind. The one thing that
you truly need in order to make things work while having
fun here and being in a relationship is to trust each other.
That is work at communication and what you want. Set the
boundries that will set you and your ...
1 Comments, 197 Views,
13 Votes
,3.48 Score
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50/50 3/29/2005
People think of a relationship as 50/50 really miss the
point in our estimation. It has to be more like 70/70. I we
know it does not add uo to 100%. What we are trying to say is
that each must give the other and not just meet in the middle.
People who live together on a 50/50 plan are just roomates.
There needs to be daily giving to each other. These things
need not be big things, in ...
0 Comments, 127 Views,
16 Votes
,4.74 Score
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So the wedding is approaching... 3/28/2005
So yeah the wedding is approaching now at an increadible
speed and I am getting a little cold in the feet thinking
what sex is going to be like after we have tied the knot. I
know i have heard over and over that the sex just gets beter,
thats all good, I'm worried about the frequency. We
do it now like once every 2 weeks and the wedding is a month
away and I'm not feeling so good about ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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TRYING,to know alot of AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site,members,get noticed more. 3/28/2005
Hello, once again, everyone or some did not understand
my holler article, caps comments.someone comented , people
were gonna complain about caps .Did , they mean letters
(I HEARD BIG LETTERS MEAN YOURE SCREAMING).thats not my
intention, i just write in any casing.i thought, in chat
rooms he meant was.i cursing him .lolsome of you, indent
more, i will learn better soon..... alot of men just ...
0 Comments, 80 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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First Meeting 3/26/2005
From The first meeting or first date i think its always important
to have a sence of humor. And not be uptight be considerate
of each others feelings, wants, and needs throughout
the relationship and if your girlfriend or boyfriend seems
like he is distant and is not as happy as as he used to be Dont
be afraid to ask whats wrong.understanding the person
and the way they think can keep you ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Like a mile race... 3/26/2005
You don't want to start out sprinting off the line and
give everything you have at the beginning only to be exhausted
after the first quarter-mile with nothing left to give
nor do you want to start off too slow to let everyone take
such a lead you can't catch up and win in the end. Many
of our friends have made this mistake and lost the other
party over and over again from making this ...
0 Comments, 160 Views,
21 Votes
,4.24 Score
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what does it take? 3/23/2005
i want to know what compromises evry one has to take to make
a relationship work?
4 Comments, 120 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Communication is important 3/23/2005
Communication between the two of us began in a chatroom.
I had met her online four years ago and we are engaged to be
married this June. We have been through our ups and downs
as a couple, but what brought us through was our communication.
What made it hard for us was we had to unlearn all the bad of
our past relationships and build a new one with each other.
We had our share of ...
1 Comments, 108 Views,
12 Votes
,5.27 Score
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The first, and most important, step in building a relationship 3/22/2005
Well, folks. Its obvious that you cannot build a real relationship
without meeting someone and talking to them. Unfortunately,
it seems that this is where most men and women have a problem.
Overcoming the initial fear of approaching someone new,
especially someone that you are attracted to, can be ridiculously
hard. Lets face it, it can be intimidating as hell.
It has been my ...
1 Comments, 112 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Bi-Sexual Trists...Can They Work? 3/19/2005
Bi-Sexuality has always been a major item of interest to
me for several years now. Out of all the various sexual deviations,
bi-sexuality has to be the most scorned of all.
<br>
It is the only sexual deviation of the norm that pits homophobs
and homosexuals on the same side 99.9% of the time.
<br>
Although science tends to say that homosexuality and bi-sexuality
are ...
0 Comments, 135 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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drive bye profile check 3/18/2005
this is for women to be discreet and check out the who`s interested
in them .have the man stand on a street corner at a curtain
time. and drive bye and check it out. and keep it all a seceret.
1 Comments, 198 Views,
10 Votes
,1.00 Score
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It make it better 3/16/2005
Hey friends have more fun and are better relationship.
1 Comments, 133 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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why is that 3/15/2005
why is it on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site that you build up a good relationship (or
you think so)and then when the topic of meeting up comes
up the other party seems to get cold feet. im not say they
should jump straight into bed or anything but they should
meet up as even if the bed sene or what ever you want dos'ent
come off good friendship could happen. so please people
give it a go, you might just enjoy it.
9 Comments, 330 Views,
26 Votes
,4.00 Score
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To Rebuild, or Not to Rebuild 3/12/2005
There is an ongoing group discussion called "What
about guilt?" that is addressing how to deal with
the guilt associated with having an affair. The consensus
was, "if the guilt out weighs the positive experience,
then don't do it. But, don't forget to factor into
the equation the result of getting caught. It could make
the guilt feel like nothing by comparison".
Then, the posts took a ...
1 Comments, 265 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Travel or not to travel? 3/11/2005
Having spent the last two weeks travelling all over Michigan
meeting people from this site, all I can say is - whew.
After driving sometimes hours, just to meet someone, then
in the case of one gentleman, having them fall asleep on
you, a little disappointing. Then incorporate the cost
of gas, and possible bodily injury due to maybe falling
asleep at the wheel, (almost happened to me last ...
3 Comments, 330 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Aunty in my next door 3/11/2005
When I look out at a Married woman next door she is exposing
her brests too much.Is it a sexual invitation for me?
Plaese advice.
2 Comments, 492 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Tips on wining the dating dating game. 3/10/2005
Doesn’t it seem odd that there are so many frustrated surfers
wiping out at meeting, dating or whatever it is you are looking
for on personal web sites? Ok, I know you have to put a solid
effort to achieve results and doing things that grab attention.
But did you ever consider that people are afraid of failure
or some misfortune? Or is it that people are so picky, they
blow by a ...
2 Comments, 1942 Views,
122 Votes
,4.55 Score
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College 3/10/2005
Several years ago when I was in college. I was having a few
afternoon beers with a buddy of mine in a bar when we ran
into this girl who my buddy really wanted to, for lack of
a better
word, screw. My buddy had a few weeks before fallen down
some
stairs while drunk and had torn his Achilles Tendon.
He was on crutches and a bit incapacitated.
1 Comments, 547 Views,
11 Votes
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WHY? 3/9/2005
WHY THE WOMANS OR MEN , AFTER ACCEPT THE INVITE IN NETWORK
NOT ANSEWR MORE OR NOT GIVE THE INFORMATION FOR CONTACT
AND START THE FRIENDSHIP THAT ALL HOPEFULL?
IF ACCEPT IS FOR SERIOUS MATTER?
OR
IT S ONLY FOR HAVE THE PICTURE IN THE NETWORK AND SHOW AND
OTHE FRIEND?
7 Comments, 640 Views,
14 Votes
,1.22 Score
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Where are the honest women at? 3/8/2005
Good Day every one,
I just joined this site about a week ago and I must say that
there are some people out there who just can't be honest
about what they want out of a relationship, I on the other
hand know what I want and am willing speak out against both
genders who for some reason can't or won't stop
playing mind games. you either want to just have sex or you
don't it is as simple as ...
0 Comments, 842 Views,
21 Votes
,4.61 Score
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Meeting people 3/4/2005
I thought meeting people here would be easy , but its still
the real world . I no the people i do eventually meet will
be friends of mine . , and the memories will last a life time.
2 Comments, 460 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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Getting back together with ex-gf 2/26/2005
My gf and I broke up 8 months ago, and I havent been able to
think of anyone else except her.
We both knew that we loved eachother, but figured that the
time wasnt right yet.
We still keep in touch since we both live close to eachother
and go to the same university.
Recently shes been seein a new guy but I can tell she isnt
that happy with him.
We havent talked about getting back ...
4 Comments, 233 Views,
15 Votes
,2.67 Score
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Is you realationship great or bad and single men and women should take NOTE! 2/24/2005
Have you ever wondered if yours is really that great? Have
you wondered how great your man or women is really in bed?
Have you figured out why your jealous if your the jealous
type.
<br>
Well I can personally tell you I used to be jealous about
8 years ago , my name is Greg , It is the feeling of someone
being better than you and pleasing your mate better than
you can or the ...
1 Comments, 208 Views,
21 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The first kiss 2/22/2005
If you were on a first date and the woman you were with turned
out to be a bad kisser, would it be shallow to end it right
there?
5 Comments, 270 Views,
16 Votes
,3.57 Score
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Too fast? 2/21/2005
What is to fast to let an un-suspecting partner know your
ambitions sexually? Like, say, the ambitions we all put
on Hotmatch and the reason we are all members on Hotmatch.
Now , i know this is really a hypothetical question, but
say you have just met that mr. or mrs or miss right, when do
you let them know you want more in your sexual relationship
then they alone are going to be able to ...
1 Comments, 260 Views,
27 Votes
,2.71 Score
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Gamesbond007 Extra Comments 2/21/2005
Well 235 responses to my posting, not bad, but wish i had
<br>
as many messages from you women out there or are men really
<br>
from mars and women from venus, if so birth must be from the
<br>
virgin rock found all over our landscape.
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
Ha Ha
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
Im Back ...
0 Comments, 363 Views,
17 Votes
,1.57 Score
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It takes work 2/21/2005
That is the bottom line. So many people seem to have the opinion
that ok ive found someone now its easy street from here.
That is not the case. A true relationship takes tons of work
and committment. Thru the good and the bad. Compromise
is hard but you both do it. If you are not willing to realize
in the beginning that finding someone is really the easy
part and that the so called ...
8 Comments, 2973 Views,
358 Votes
,6.12 Score
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Pet Names 2/20/2005
To men & women who think it's okay to use pet names
with someone you just meet...think again. Being single
& not in any relationship at the moment, I don't
care for a women to call me:
<br>
Darling
Sweetie
Honey
Hun
Babe
etc...
<br>
For the most part, I may have just started talking to you
& don't know you nor do you know me. The same goes
for men who do the ...
14 Comments, 323 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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True love, is having a LOVER that is your best friend. 2/19/2005
I truly believe in building a solid foundation as friends.And
this is why I say this. when you are friends, you get to see
what that person is really like. They will say anything
in front of you and speak their mind.They won`t hold back
trying to impress you. You will see the true side of them.
What they are made of. And I think one of the most important
things to me is that I can go out ...
2 Comments, 175 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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building a relationship 2/18/2005
that's what i'm trying to do - build a relationship.
i need points in my account to do this so i write this article.
0 Comments, 106 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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Why are Most of these men on this site EITHER FIREMAN...COPS..OR MILITARY??? 2/17/2005
Why are Most of these men on this site EITHER FIREMAN...COPS..OR
MILITARY?? Its it that You all have to much time on your hands???
he..he...
4 Comments, 206 Views,
12 Votes
,0.50 Score
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a "dating" website? 2/15/2005
I must ask a question..........why is it that the website
specifically states "sex and swinger " and
people are using it as a "dating" site.......stating
on the profile..."no married men".........just
curious.........
6 Comments, 446 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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Trust 2/12/2005
There can be no greater good then trust. Without it there
is no foundation for friendship, let alone a relationship.
Sure there may be lust, but is that enought? Without something
as fundamental as trust to fall back on there can be no self
reliance, no ability to carry on safe in the knowledge that
'at least i am the one' (at least in someone's
eyes). Without trust are we doomed to an ...
0 Comments, 74 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Should a little "Fib"; be construed as a "lie" in a relationship??/ 2/12/2005
My girlfriend and I were watching TV, when the phone rank.
Not looking at the caller ID, I answered the phone instead
of letting it go to voice mail. On the other end was a lady
friend of mine, who is JUST a friend and nothing more.....She
called just to tease me about who was playing football on
TV at the time. I kept the conversation short and hung up,
going back to sit down with ...
6 Comments, 245 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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build 2/11/2005
Well I bielieve that you must work together on everything.It`s
fifty fifty when you are with someone.Buil it first on companionship
then move to sex and life in genral.Treat your women like
a princess everyday .And then true love might find you
0 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The Older The Better? 2/10/2005
I see and hear people say rather often that older men or women
make better lovers or partners. I think it is true in very
few ways meaning it is mostly wrong.
<br>
<br>
The primary reason that older men or women might make better
lovers is not actually based off experience it is based
off knowledge. Lot's of younger guys are fast and furious,
and do not slow down ...
2 Comments, 153 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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i love being in 1 2/8/2005
what are the tools to building a relationship with my skills
in the bedroom will that help
2 Comments, 138 Views,
11 Votes
,0.18 Score
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How do you maintain a relationship once it has started? 2/7/2005
Having grown up with a father in the military and moving
all over the world with him I don't know how to maintain
a long term relationship. I've married twice and both
times for the wrong reasons, now I'm single again.
I've met my soulmate but have said some things that
have hurt her deeply and she has withdrawn from me. We are
still friends and working on rebuilding the relationship.
We ...
4 Comments, 166 Views,
17 Votes
,3.41 Score
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Truth in advertising...... 2/4/2005
I have been on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site for a while. Met two nice people who were
liars in the end. why is honesty so difficult in this forum.
Say what you want, want what you ask for......is all I am
looking for.....any advice for me?
<br>
Thanks.
4 Comments, 202 Views,
12 Votes
,3.15 Score
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What are you looking for 2/2/2005
Now let's be serious about this. This is a sex and swinger
personals site. So what are you looking for? If it is a long-term
relationship then just how much does sex factor into it?
What would you expect from advertising on this site? I've
seen some profiles from women that seemed real nice. But
are they really, I would honestly have to give them the benefit
of the doubt. Honesty is ...
4 Comments, 141 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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am i just a little impatient. 2/2/2005
i thought i joined this site to get sex from local women, not
think about it. yes some women have responded, but the
responses are like"maybe in a few weeks", instead
of "how about tonight".should I just wait until
they are completely ready? how long should i wait?
3 Comments, 214 Views,
15 Votes
,1.75 Score
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Just Curious 1/29/2005
How many people can honestly say they have met someone on
this site that was not full of shit and a meaningful relationship
came of your date/meeting? I’m just curious to know.
10 Comments, 684 Views,
28 Votes
,4.16 Score
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The ex 1/28/2005
i've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months and
it's great. before me however he dated a girl for 5 years.
the other night when we were having sex he called me her name.
they never had sex but they were intimate. he told me that
he didn't love her and that he loved me but it made me
wonder. what should i do?
6 Comments, 273 Views,
19 Votes
,2.99 Score
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respect of a woman 1/28/2005
"Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved."
1 Comments, 294 Views,
38 Votes
,6.56 Score
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Relationship not SEX 1/27/2005
All over the world most people are interested in entering
into a relationship because of sex, but it goes way beyoung
sex.I shall use my self as an example, i met this handsome
guy last two years and i really liked him we stated from friends
and then one night i was sitting in front of my house which
is his house as well becuase his brother came to rent an partment
there.so as i was saying, ...
1 Comments, 241 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score
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Truth in adversiting 1/26/2005
I have spent many months getting to know two different women.
Both turned out to be other than what they said. One was 300lbs
plus ( said she had a "few x-tra pounds") and
the other revealed at the last minute that she had an STD
after saying she was clean. What EXACTLY does a man have
to say to get a woman to be truthful?
3 Comments, 348 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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Will this help? 1/23/2005
My boyfriend and I are starting a new sex life. We are looking
for bi females or couples..My question is is this gonna
make us stonger or tear us apart?
7 Comments, 265 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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For Ladies Only: Annihilate Male Liar's Quickly 1/21/2005
OK OK, I’ve been a bit rough the last couple of days, going
way out of my way to make trouble for you.
I’m sorry ladies.
I’m going to attempt to make it up to you now, by suggesting
some strategies to weed out males liar’s quickly, so you
don’t waste your precious time with them.
First, let’s pull the curtain back, and have a peek at the
core ...
3 Comments, 403 Views,
21 Votes
,1.27 Score
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Honesty 1/21/2005
Honesty, that's what most people start off with, when
describing what they are looking for in a relationship.
However, I have found very little honesty on this or any
site.
Let's start with physical attributes. Unless health
class has changed dramatically in the past few years. If
you weigh more than 20 pounds above your height ratio, then
you have a couple extra pounds. This does not ...
2 Comments, 315 Views,
22 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Taking On The Ladies: Strategies in Fighting Back #1 1/20/2005
I’m feeling frisky tonight, after getting my ass kicked
in my BDSM fantasy. So it’s time to go after the ladies, again.
I’m going to reveal a strategy that I utilize with my wife,
in an effort to undermine her gurilla war against me. I call
it my Contrary Strategy. Basically it works like this.
This is most effective when used regarding completely
inconsequential ...
2 Comments, 406 Views,
14 Votes
,2.66 Score
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How Women Use Dishwashers to Undermine Men 1/18/2005
Being that my Inbox is almost always empty, today I feel
like causing some trouble. Sorry ladies, I know it’s not
your fault. I suppose my eyes would glaze over, too, if I
had as many emails as I think you’re getting. Nonetheless,
I’m going to reveal a truth about one of the thousands of
ways women engage men in a never-ending battle of subterfuge
and attrition- designed to undermine ...
4 Comments, 371 Views,
29 Votes
,5.65 Score
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How to get the sex without offending her 1/18/2005
I have found out, as a college student, that if you build
a strong foundation with a female she will stick around.
I simply explained to her that Im in college and at the moment
don't see myself getting with anyone else but will
not be exclusive to her. This has led to great sex and a lot
of sexual favors
1 Comments, 5463 Views,
172 Votes
,1.09 Score
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Strong Foundation in a relationship 1/18/2005
I find the best way to build a relationship is through a common
background. I see two people coming from the same background
with the same moral values as going a lot further than a couple
that has little in common. This is usually the foundation
of a relationship and it keeps one another interested.
A better foundation in a relationship can usually lead
to better sex.
0 Comments, 482 Views,
19 Votes
,2.33 Score
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Strong Foundation in a relationship 1/18/2005
I find the best way to build a relationship is through a common
background. I see two people coming from the same background
with the same moral values as going a lot further than a couple
that has little in common. This is usually the foundation
of a relationship and it keeps one another interested.
A better foundation in a relationship can usually lead
to better sex.
7 Comments, 2295 Views,
282 Votes
,4.09 Score
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Married Folks: Should I Stay or Should I Go 1/17/2005
I need the advice of married folks who have made the decision
to have affairs, and are "living the life."
Without going into the background of my particular situation
(Which you can read about in my article titled "Married
Women, How Can I Capture Your Attention"), as I see
it the bottom line question, for someone considering leaving
their mate, comes down to this:
Is it more important to ...
5 Comments, 403 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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how to create Fort Worth.... 1/17/2005
Self worth??? What kind of namby-pamby bullshit is that???
Self-esteem has nothing to do with building a relationship.
Hell, if the relationship lasts any time at all, you won't
have enough self-esteem left to wipe with. Self delusion
is the key. Be a fucking schizoid SOB, talk in tongues, slobber
on her mother, and jerk off during Oprah. Be the best that
your sick deluded rat-fuck brain ...
0 Comments, 133 Views,
16 Votes
,0.04 Score
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look in the mirror 1/16/2005
To build a true and strong relationship, just stand in front
of the mirror and examine what it is you want from it. Ask
yourself the tough questions and examine just how much
of yourself you are willing to give away to the relationship.
Anything less that true and utter honesty is doing neither
of you any good.
2 Comments, 610 Views,
91 Votes
,4.23 Score
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HOW TO CREATE SELF WORTH 1/16/2005
Self worth is not instant. It is a process, not a thing! Self
worth is constantly being sapped and demolished by the
nature of our society, and even the physics of our universe.
A person is responsible for their own happiness, and also
for their own self worth. Neither can really be bought,
sold, given or accepted, despite all fuss to the contrary.
Self worth, and happiness for that matter, ...
7 Comments, 2396 Views,
249 Votes
,6.77 Score
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the super glue of love.... 1/16/2005
There is nothing more important in a relationship then
friendship. If you're not the best of friends then
not a damn thing you try will work. If you two don't honestly
just enjoy hanging out together, then there will be no future
for you. Love, whatever the Hell that is, will quickly burn
off. But friendship will last forever.
2 Comments, 203 Views,
19 Votes
,3.26 Score
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trust 1/16/2005
Trust is the what a relationship is.. If you dont have trust
then you should look at your relationship because it probably
isnt very strong
1 Comments, 155 Views,
17 Votes
,2.84 Score
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((Build Win-win Relationships)) 1/15/2005
((Build Win-win Relationships))
<br>
The secret to building win-win relationships is honesty.
You
first have to be honest with yourself as to who you are and
what you want, then act accordingly. You must also be honest
with others that you have relationships with as to who you
are and what you want from the relationship. Surprise,
surprise, the relationships that do not give you ...
1 Comments, 89 Views,
11 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Married ladies: How can a fellow married man capture your attention. 1/14/2005
If you are a married woman, and your reading this, chances
are your in a similar boat.
I would be indebted to any woman who would help me with this
issue, and I want to thank you, in advance, for any advice
you can offer.
It seems to me that married men appear to be the scum of the
earth in the eyes of most of the people utlilizing these
sites. How can I convey that I'm actually a very ...
3 Comments, 308 Views,
18 Votes
,3.40 Score
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How to get a man to do as you wish, without the typical struggle. 1/14/2005
Do you find men to be difficult and confounding?
Consider this:
First of all, let's get the truth on the table. Females
(All animal's, including humans) are superior to
males. No matter the measure, females come out on top, except
brute strength.(Although pound for pound that may not
be accurate.) You live longer, are healthier, better able
to adapt and accept, work under stress more ...
4 Comments, 206 Views,
14 Votes
,2.34 Score
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Relationships and "the lifestyle" 1/13/2005
Well, one thing is for sure, if you are a swinger and have
tried all different types of connecting with others who
are "like-minded" - you have probably run into
the same problem occuring - no matter what the venue....
Trust Issues.
<br>
Clearly, there is a new age of swingers coming out of the
closet. "Lifestylers" - (as they refer to themselves)
these days will always air on ...
0 Comments, 152 Views,
17 Votes
,3.69 Score
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Give me a reason to love you 1/12/2005
I'm so tired, of playing
Playing with this bow and arrow
Gonna give my heart away
Leave it to the other girls to play
For I've been a temptress too long
<br>
Just. .
<br>
Give me a reason to love you
Give me a reason to bee, a woman
I just wanna be a woman
<br>
From this time, unchained
We're all looking at a different picture
Thru this new ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Looking for advice from married women who have successfully found sex outside marriage 1/9/2005
I am pursuing the idea of having sex with another man. My
husband is the only man I have ever slept with and I'm
hoping that will change soon. I'm not sure yet if what
I want is a one-time experience or to find a fuck buddy. I
do know that the city I live in is small and it feels even smaller
when I start contemplating having sex with another man
and no one knowing about it.
<br> ...
1 Comments, 315 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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TO LAST FOREVER 1/8/2005
My hubby and I have a wonderful relationship and it is all
because trust, loyality and love. We do everything together,
tell each other everything, there is no secrets. I think
is important. We enjoy open sex with other partners and
enjoy each others bodies. We are married 15 years still
feels like it is our first year of marriage. We cannot keep
our hands off each other and we are ...
3 Comments, 296 Views,
35 Votes
,6.06 Score
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Misconceptions 1/7/2005
I am writing this article out of frustration and dissapointment
resulting from "near misses" in establishing
a relationship.
An AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site member in Bolder, Co., wrote "I feel that men
get the raw end of the deal and are made to look like that is
all they want is sex. Truth of the matter is women are snobbish,
prude and selfish when it comes to sex. There's a dark
side to male sexuality that ...
1 Comments, 149 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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honesty is the best policy 1/6/2005
I know it sounds lame and cheesy, but in building a relationship
both parties have to be honest with each other. Especially
with their sexual needs. If not the relationship will die
a long slow death. And that is Hell to live in.
9 Comments, 263 Views,
22 Votes
,4.57 Score
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will you have a threesome 1/5/2005
My boyfriend asked me to have a threesome with him and another
woman. He say it's not because he wants to be with another
woman it's just a fantasy he has and wants to do it with
me involved. I am insecure about the whole thing because
i am worried about how he will feel about seeing me with another
woman. But i want to do it, I just don't want to lose him
because of it. HELP!
3 Comments, 234 Views,
19 Votes
,4.05 Score
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Frends and lovers? 1/1/2005
I met a girl a couple years ago and had a instant attraction
to her, over the next couple years we have become best freinds,
Doing couple stuff together, but with no intimitsy (SP)
I recently confessesed to her that my feelings went beyond
freindship, and wanted to become closer, And she told me
we couldn't because we were such good friends and she
dosnt have those type of feelings for me. ...
3 Comments, 119 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Finding a third... 12/31/2004
My husband and I have been using the site for a few months
now. There are a few things that I guess we just don't
understand. First, why would a female member include in
her profile that she is looking for M/F couples when after
reading her profile it's clear that she's only
looking for a man? My guess is that they're just trying
to increase the number of "hits" on their profile,
but ...
2 Comments, 218 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Can freinds be lovers? 12/31/2004
I met a girl a couple years ago and had a instant attraction
to her, over the next couple years we have become best freinds,
Doing couple stuff together, but with no intimitsy (SP)
I recently confessesed to her that my feelings went beyond
freindship, and wanted to become closer, And she told me
we couldn't because we were such good friends and she
dosnt have those type of feelings for me. ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Real????? 12/30/2004
What are people really looking for. It seems to me that a
great deal of the people on here want to look at profiles
or have you go to their site or somethign like that.
<br>
Where are the real people who want to meet. are they all in
another state? If so What State?
<br>
I thought that Florida was the loses state when it came to
sex.
<br>
Any ways enough of ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
14 Votes
,1.38 Score
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When's the best time to start getting rough? 12/28/2004
How do you come about to get into rougher sex? Mega-hair
pulling, whips, hard spanks and slaps, etc etc? I've
had prior relationships where she said get rougher, but
I'm not sure of the limits and it seems to be pulling
teeth for them to let me know.. Anyone have a better solution
than I tried- Talking about it?
3 Comments, 101 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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women 12/27/2004
is it true a women, can get a guy a lot faster.than a guy can
get a women .i wonder why.
4 Comments, 101 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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trust love, and desires 12/27/2004
how many of you can truely say that you trust your mate{whether
2 women, 2 men, or a man and woman} 100% all the time? in this
day and age, the ones who do get married, often go in it
saying well if it doesn't work we will get divorced.thats
not the right way to plan your future.now matter who it is
the sooner they both realize that at time when you äre"you
are wrong.and sometimes you ...
3 Comments, 66 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Can there be trust 12/24/2004
Ive been through alot of shit with a women, and i dont no if
i can build any trust she fooled around on me twice but i still
love her what should i do?
15 Comments, 288 Views,
52 Votes
,1.99 Score
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How to I tell him I don't mind if he cheats? 12/23/2004
I have been seeing someone I met on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site about a year and a half
ago. While I have no interest in seeing anyone else. I recently
discovered he had placed another add on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site seeking out
others and and encounters that are much more open that ours.
His job takes him away for weeks, sometimes months at a time.
I want to tell him I know, without him thinking I am spying
( I found out through an ...
15 Comments, 685 Views,
77 Votes
,3.54 Score
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being new on block 12/21/2004
Am new to the site .have upgraded to silver by uspostal.but
wasn't knowledgable on the limits of standard member.was
talking to rimunow and could not reply back to set up meeting.i
did not realize that i was near my limit for 24hrs.Now he
has got mad and will not let my messages get to him.want to
say that i was sorry and try to set new time to meat.so all
you new people be careful on your ...
0 Comments, 122 Views,
37 Votes
,2.90 Score
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How to Approach the Millennium Woman 12/20/2004
How to Approach the Millennium Woman
A Compendium of Surefire Tips for Nerds, Adonises &
Regular Joes
<br>
<br>
My guy friends tell me that women are a mystery, that it’s
hard to know what to say to us. Women play games and don’t
tell you the rules. Or else we change the rules midgame.
We want to be goddesses and expect you to worship us. But
when you ...
11 Comments, 505 Views,
102 Votes
,7.29 Score
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ideas to keep your relationship going 12/20/2004
i find the best way to build on any relationship is that the
2 people need to have a strong friendship as a base. being
best friends and taking the time to sit down and talk about
what they did when they started dating etc. evaluating
a relationship can be very fulfilling to any relationship
to see where it is headed and this is the time when you might
see problems that could come up in the ...
3 Comments, 296 Views,
41 Votes
,5.43 Score
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Nonresponse to article from the women 12/20/2004
I have been reading articles and have gained alot of good
insight from this category. Thanks everyone. However,
I am curious as to why no woman responded to chappyfu....'s
article of 10/31/04. Could it be that women only want what
they can't have as the saying goes. I feel this was a
good question and was surprised no women responded. I mean
no offense but is it that the nice guy finishes ...
2 Comments, 176 Views,
23 Votes
,2.78 Score
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What to say, and not to say, in your profile 12/18/2004
I read so many profiles that turn me off that I thought I'd
give some advise. First, be truthful, even if it might turn
some people off. Do not lie about your age, weight, or marital/
relationship status. The "do unto others"
idea applies here; you expect that when you read a profile,
the information is correct, so be that in your profile.
Second, don't be too blatent. We all know that ...
16 Comments, 4001 Views,
609 Votes
,4.14 Score
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Think about what you want first!!! 12/17/2004
OK, it seems like this should be common sense, but nobody
seems to get it. To build a good relationship, you need to
think about what you want out of the relationship and use
that in deciding where to go. If what you want is a no-strings
sexual relationship, then having sex the first time you
meet is no problem. But if you're looking for a long-term,
serious romantic relationship, then ...
4 Comments, 89 Views,
33 Votes
,2.96 Score
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Multi dimensional relationships? 12/16/2004
Hi All:
<br>
OK, you come on here to AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site, and you find that perfect match,
or at least one that is being a great deal of fun. You like
the people you are playing with...in our case, lets say
a couple. At almost 50, I very clearly understand the dynamics
of a couple, a duet walking hand in hand through life, and
know my way from point A to point B in building and maintaining
that ...
5 Comments, 139 Views,
51 Votes
,3.75 Score
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when to cross the bridge 12/12/2004
I've been involved with a sexy, beautiful, intelligent
woman now for about 3 weeks. I'm and intellectually
and physically attracted to her and want to build a relationship.
The sex has been great and we really seem to have chemistry.
However, I've always been involved in the lifestyle
and really don't see that ending. I think she'd
be interested in exploring more of her fantasys if I ...
2 Comments, 206 Views,
38 Votes
,3.32 Score
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What Women Prefer 12/8/2004
I have no intention of speaking for all women here, but do
want to say some things to gentlemen who are starting relationships.
Please understand that your woman is different from all
other women. She is a unique individual who has preferences,
special spots, things that she likes. If you feel that you
need to ask what she likes, please ask her - she is the one
who knows. Many men ask here, ...
12 Comments, 5878 Views,
504 Votes
,4.00 Score
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what sex is to men 12/8/2004
Well being a man myself I know. What I am going to write here
is so true and to the hart that most men out there will not
like it and or say that it is not true. What fuels a mans sex
drive, more so then just having an orgasim is the feeling
of acceptance trust, and being liked/loved that he gets
when having sex. To a man it is the ultimate desplay he can
get from the other person.
6 Comments, 363 Views,
56 Votes
,4.19 Score
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AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site Can Be Tough 12/8/2004
AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site can be really tough. I am a young, pretty good looking
married guy looking to fufill some fanasies here and no
matter how nice, patient or polite I am either no one is interested
(so it seems) or I get blasted for what I am trying to do here.
Having your opinion is fine, but to each his own... if I am
understanding of your decision to not be interested people
here should try to be ...
12 Comments, 300 Views,
43 Votes
,4.14 Score
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Why does Sex have to be so much work ? 12/6/2004
It seems to me that a lot of work must go into building a relationship.
If all we wanted was sex would it be easier? Would we get responses
to our inquires from women? I don"t know but maybe
you do. Let me know.
0 Comments, 72 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score
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is there a standard membership stigma? 12/6/2004
i don't know if this is an issue that actually concerns
anyone but i am curious if the gold and sver members look
at the standard members as an identified group or if the
individual profiles are the only real criteria that most
look at and base their interets on?
<br>
as a standard member, i am often unable to open profiles
or see pictures and can not invite to my network so ...
4 Comments, 67 Views,
24 Votes
,3.70 Score
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a matter of fact... 12/6/2004
i have had the fortune of meking a few great penfriends through
the site that have been so terrific with sharing their insights
and experience. they have been specifically m2m related
correspondence but i think most dating info. pertains
to everybody.
<br>
the thing that struck me was that without much provocation,
each person (man) stated as a caution for me, as a newbie,
that ...
0 Comments, 120 Views,
20 Votes
,2.87 Score
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A Little Help from the Ladies Please… 12/5/2004
I am a “tell it like it is, straightforward” kind ‘o guy.
Several months ago I met a woman on-line and we began to chat
occasionally and more recently on a regular basis. We began
to really flirt back and forth. We set a date to meet face
to face. We had been talking about meeting for coffee for
quite awhile. She was nicer and sweeter then any woman has
been to me in a ...
3 Comments, 99 Views,
28 Votes
,4.47 Score
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Threesomes 12/2/2004
My spouse and I have been involved in threesomes with other
women.We have always done this together.She is bi and he
is not.She feels its ok to now see women without the man The
man now feels left out.Hes not bi so him being with another
man is out of the question.Should the man be allowed to sleep
with other women without her.
7 Comments, 113 Views,
70 Votes
,5.93 Score
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How soon is to soon to sleep with someone? 12/2/2004
I met this guy a few weeks ago thru a friend, the first time
we went out we hit it off. we have alot in common, and we even
like alot of the samethings. About a week after we met for
the first time. We slept together. We still see each other
and hang out, but now things seem ackward. What should I
do?
7 Comments, 102 Views,
51 Votes
,3.75 Score
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love. 11/28/2004
"love is like a wind, you cant see it but you can feel
it...."
<br>
This is the kind of feelings that you cant describe, its
just like it hits right into you and you just cant tell what
really is..this thing when you got to feel this... Have
you feelin that way too?
0 Comments, 31 Views,
40 Votes
,6.43 Score
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He says sure why not, but I've got questions...... 11/28/2004
I'm just starting to get into a commited relationship,
and my man knows that Im bi(curious). He is fine with that,
and we werent exclusive in the time we've been dating.
We grew to be best friends and been there though each others
ups and downs. Now that we are getting into a serious relationship
he says I can still be with women if I want to and he is good
with that. He says his one ...
2 Comments, 76 Views,
41 Votes
,6.22 Score
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Propoz Her!!! 11/27/2004
Just some funny ways to propose her/him ........(at your
own risk!!!)
<br>
1. (Walk up behind girl and point fingers shaped like gun
into her
back)
<br>
You're under arrest! ; (For what?) For stealing my
heart
<br>
2. Hi, my name is Chance, Do I have one?
<br>
3. are your legs tired? ( girl: Why?) because you have been
running
through my mind all ...
1 Comments, 36 Views,
21 Votes
,4.61 Score
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Too much love 11/27/2004
Ok as some of u know i have a boyfriend that lives five hours
from me.....i have been with him for alomost 2 years but
there is this one guy that i really really like and i talk
to him a lot....i have told him (the new guy) how i feel towards
him. I am not sure how to get him to realize that he feels the
same....he calls me every chance he gets and we are always
talkin to each other but hes ...
1 Comments, 88 Views,
39 Votes
,5.52 Score
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My wife is bi-curious, but its harder than I thought to make it happen! 11/25/2004
Me and my wife created this ad to find a female to help us explore
a new fascide of our relationship. When she agreed to the
idea I was happy. Ive fantasized about my wife being de3voured
by another female for a long time. Now its gonna happen1!
Or so I thought! The first problem I encountered was this
sites inability to allow us to create a "Couple"
profile. No sweat I thought. Well just ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
28 Votes
,5.91 Score
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Taking It One Step At A Time 11/25/2004
My wife and i have been married for three years and when i
found out that she was BI it really shocked me but the one
thing i learned that in any relationship you need to be able
to accept your spouse for who they are.
0 Comments, 74 Views,
27 Votes
,7.03 Score
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Relationship...after sex? 11/24/2004
The guy i'm seeing is a good friend of mines cousin.
We've known each other for years...about a month ago
we had sex and we were just leaving it at that...sex...nothing
more. Well 2 weeks ago he wanted to pursue a relationship
with me. I dont know what to do because we had started having
sex before we started dating...any advice?
3 Comments, 68 Views,
24 Votes
,4.61 Score
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Sex first!! 11/22/2004
So many put down the old saying about "testing the
waters", but I have come to find that as sexual as I
am, I dont want to wait 3 months into a relationship before
I find that my partner is no good in bed. For myself sex is
a very important part of a relationship, and if the sex is
no good, then a man is no more than just a friend, and thus
the relationship is just a friendship. For some ...
7 Comments, 134 Views,
50 Votes
,8.05 Score
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I am saddened by what I have done 11/22/2004
To all who may get a chance to read this I would like to say
that once upon a time I was actually in a relationship that
was not worth much...with my second wife, she put me thru
hell as my first wife did. I am 45, i am balding slightly,
i have two grown sons and i met the girl of my dreams via work
5 yrs ago...she is half norweigen half irish, 5 foot 1 face
of an angel, body of a porn ...
6 Comments, 57 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Gay/Lesbian Women 11/22/2004
What makes some of the most attractive, beautiful, sexy
and just drop dead gorgeous women turn to the same sex? I
need more rationale other than being born that way, or it's
genetic/hereditary because I understand that aspect.
I need reasoning behind those who can't use that as
an excuse. I've had women tell me that "She had
some bad experiences with men" or "The guys
she been with in the ...
2 Comments, 41 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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building a relationship 11/21/2004
when you are trying to build a relationship it takes hard
work. not just from you but your partner as well.there are
some things that are a must and they are commitment, trust
and compromise.with out those things you have nothing
to build on.
0 Comments, 73 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Time, Patience! 11/21/2004
I know that it takes time for relationships to develop,
but how long, before you know to give the guy the boot?
5 Comments, 94 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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ATTRACTIONS 11/18/2004
Why is it that we attract people that we aren't interested
in? And those you are interested done seem to know you exist
or the oh so common, are already taken or spoken for?
2 Comments, 35 Views,
20 Votes
,4.27 Score
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3ways and what not. 11/17/2004
I have been on a quest to find a girl to join us now for almost
a year. My girlfriend (4yrs) is wanting someone special
to join us. We have joined several websites. We have attended
several parties, We have approached several gals all with
no luck. It seems the girls either just want me alone or her
alone.
The reason for having someone join us is she has no sex drive
and mine is almost ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
43 Votes
,6.03 Score
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swinging and marriage 11/16/2004
Is it possible to keep building on your relationaship and
be swingers at the same time?
<br>
How can you seperate sex from love? And why does it seem easier
for a man to do this that it is for a woman? Is it the stereotypes
that we all grow up with? Just wanted to ask a few questions
to satisfy my own curiousities and data research.
<br>
Thanks
16 Comments, 312 Views,
182 Votes
,5.92 Score
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When Instincts are wrong 11/16/2004
What are guys to do when women around them tell you a girl
is giving you all the signs but when you contront them about
it, they freak out? Not only that but they get pissed off
instead of being flattered when you tell them that you like
them?
3 Comments, 43 Views,
41 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Wonderful Intimate Ralationship (2) 11/16/2004
After half an hour time , I was thinking about Mike and Rose
almost should finished fucking and Rose must be sleeping
well , I rung his up , Mike told me Rose was sleeping , Both
of us got up and exchange room , Mike enter into my room and
I enter into his room , We take off electrical card and turn
off electrical source , The room was very dark .I unknowingly
went to the bedclothes on ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
43 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Wonderful Intimate Ralationship(3) 11/16/2004
I called Mike and told him Rose's taking shower , Mike
came in the room at once , We too stood at the door of the bathroom
and watching Rose's body , Rose was watching our nude
too , After a while she told us that she feel her pussy's
always slithery , Even if washing a thousand times cannot
clean .We knew her meaning , Mike and i entered into bathroom
and help Rose wash her body , Rose ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
19 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Lovers in our bed 11/16/2004
U would have to know me to really know that I am a decent person
with all the right moral and principals. Really I am but
when u piss me off, I just do what I feel like doing at the time
and with no regrets. And so that is how it all happened.
<br>
He lives about a couple blocks away from; he goes mountian
riding with his friends; he may not look all that but boy,
does his dick ...
1 Comments, 237 Views,
40 Votes
,6.91 Score
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consequences 11/15/2004
For every action you take, there are consequences. Before
taking action, you should try to figure out as many of the
possible consequences as you can. If you can't accept
the consequences, don't take action.
1 Comments, 538 Views,
28 Votes
,7.55 Score
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Wonderful Intimate Ralationship 11/15/2004
Hi, folks .I am glad you took your time to read the story
.It's a real story about four people .Let me introduce
everyone first , Mike Liu, My officemate , 27 years old
handsome guy who looks like a HK movie star , Enjoy fuck
very much .Rose Yang , Mike's girl friend now , 25
years old plump and busty girl , Bank clerk who always likes
something different , Actually she is a bisexual girl
...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
12 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Going from Friend to Fucking 11/15/2004
I seem have a problem meeting chicks, thats the number one
reason I'm on this site. Whenever I meet a chick and
I'm not really interested in her she ends up wanting
me. But when I meet a chick and I would like to date her I end
up fucking up. Is it because with the chicks im not interested
in I tend to act indifferent and they like guys who don't
give a fuck what they think? Then with the ...
4 Comments, 61 Views,
19 Votes
,4.05 Score
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a swinging relationship 11/15/2004
was the apprehensive one to try this, (the wife)My husband
mentioned it jokingly at first. Then he invited me to browse
some swinger sites he had recently joined.We began browsing
together. He told me of fantasies that he had, Things that
excited him about doing this, And really listened to my
reservations and fantasies, and got me aroused thinking
about fulfilling mine as well as his.We ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
18 Votes
,6.81 Score
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Long distance probably not happening 11/13/2004
When I first met her, it was at a party and we hit it off. The
fact that she was a teaching assistant in a human sexuality
course, well, that boded well for the future, didn't
it?
<br>
One slight problem. The presents piling up at her feet were
going-away presents! She was crossing the Pacific to another
country the very next day!!
<br>
We corresponded for about a year, ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
21 Votes
,5.35 Score
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trust is the foundation 11/12/2004
We have been together for 32 years all together and she is
my soul mate. I will love her to the end of time. The sex part
of all of this is the fun part. As long as she is enjoying sex
she can do it with who she wants to. Even with a few that I want
her to do.
0 Comments, 29 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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long distance 11/11/2004
whats the best way to build a strong long distance relationship
3 Comments, 22 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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she is wonderful 11/11/2004
man i am falling for a woman i know i shouldnt. she is married
unhappily from what i have seen and heard. she is very close
to me and she is as my title says wonderful she makes me giddy
like i was in jr high again. i know it is wrong but i cant help
it to be involed with her like i am and persueing it. i dont
want to break up a marriage but at the same time i want her
for myself. yes i ...
5 Comments, 118 Views,
17 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Eyes Wide OPEN- - Not shut anymore 11/4/2004
Well folks, it's everywhere. That's right, SEX!
<br>
I just read a question in the articles section asking "If
2 parties are having sex does it matter if they're married
or not?"
<br>
I was raised in the biblebelt in Southeastern NC, so saying
that, I should reply, "Marriage is sacred, you shouldn't
commit adultry, especially with someone who is also married."
...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
73 Votes
,8.01 Score
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COME ON SHARE US 11/3/2004
Want to tell u one thing only , just check our profile u'll
be horny , harf we can bet
0 Comments, 89 Views,
23 Votes
,5.23 Score
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the trust that binds 11/3/2004
At first getting married was exciting and new.Then set
in that urge now I love my wife very much .But I am a highly
sexed individual.That likes all kinds and variety of woman.my
question is can there still be love with infedelity I say
yes.
0 Comments, 22 Views,
17 Votes
,6.94 Score
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i found love 11/3/2004
Hi ... I had been on my own since the death of my wife. I didnt
think for a second I would ever meet anyone after her. I found
a really very sweet lady friend who although i fancied her
like mad quite rightly told me we could only be friends.
Since then I have met someone new. My whole life has opened
up again .. Yes AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site does work
1 Comments, 19 Views,
30 Votes
,6.57 Score
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"Only" for the ladies who seek a helpless romantic in their "local" area, the do's and don'ts 11/2/2004
The following is a recent encounter I had with a wonderful
young women. The sad thing is she is living a lie in life and
doesn't know how to get what she wants. She is a party
girl cause it is the bandwagon, but based on her actions
it is apparent that she desires more in life, and specially
in a relationship.
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>
Fourteen months ago a ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
29 Votes
,6.45 Score
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Let's get together 11/1/2004
fun , easy going , let the days by days gone and don't
really worries on whats come around, just let it be.
If you would like to meet me by the net, and we have a chance
to get in touch with , you will not go away from me.I will
make you happy every time. Please send me a mail. I will tell
you more.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Older women and younger men (Correct posting area) 10/31/2004
Sorry, for some stupid reason I posted this in the articles
area and it shouldn't be there. Anyway....
<br>
I have seen many people specifically men ask what it is about
younger guys not being able to or being able to get older
women. I have dated or been friends with older women my entire
adult life and do not associate with women younger then
me or the same age as me. If you ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
24 Votes
,6.54 Score
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Pink's Revenge???? 10/31/2004
I'm not about revenge. It's a karma thing. I can
expect to get what I give. I'm too honest for that. But
I have been known to get myself into a situation that I couldn't
get out of. So you know... when XTC (my better half) posted
that story, (The truth about lying) I was mad. Yes, it still
makes me angry. Plus it's pretty personal. Then he
posted Thinking about Swinging, and that was O.K. I ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
25 Votes
,6.01 Score
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what's the deal ? 10/31/2004
Why do women say they want to take it slow, and when you are
a gentleman, they get turned off ?
1 Comments, 11 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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THE TRUTH ABOUT LYING, HONESTLY 10/30/2004
You see it happened like this ... It happened while fighting
for custody of my oldest , on the drive back from NY me
and my friend bill stopped in fla at a strip joint.It was
all his idea.Anyway then he starts talkin trash to this
blonde next thing i know we've got a passenger so ok
her boy friend is abusive I couldnt just leave her but man
Pink isnt going to like this. I think well not ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
22 Votes
,5.53 Score
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Respect your way to sex 10/30/2004
The fastest way to make your way into a woman's bedroom
is simple but often overlooked. Respect. Respect can come
in a variety of ways: being patient and polite, paying for
dinner and a movie and maintaining proper distance. Mirror
her movements. When she turns to you, turn to her. If she's
hands-off, so should you be. While it's true that women
generally like men who are initiators, or ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Lying in a relationship 10/29/2004
Building a relationship is always tricky. You can depend
on a certain amount of dishonesty from the person you are
infatuated with. You have to be honest with yourself about
that. It takes time to truly get to know someone. Matter
of fact, you have secrets yourself, and that's O.K.,
too. A certain amount of yourself is for you alone. When
you are in a relationship things change. Or do they? ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
19 Votes
,5.63 Score
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Relation 10/29/2004
The best way to build a relationship is to do whatever your
partner wants. If things are working, they will do the same
for you most of the time. That's how you know they love
you and you love them.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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pickup lines 10/28/2004
do girls still go for guy's cheesy pickup lines?
2 Comments, 67 Views,
7 Votes
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is it possible to meet ............................. 10/25/2004
hi all,
does anyone think its ever possible to meet your dream person,
on
this site???
can there ever be trust, faithfulness, love......i'm
very curious to know....
Where would you tell friends, and family...you met??
Ladies, will you trust a guy, who sleeps with lots of women
on the site, you included....could you then form a loving
n trusting relationship..??
Same ...
4 Comments, 225 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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why is it so hard to meet someone honest 10/25/2004
ive been on here for 2 months . and was wondering why is it
so hard to find someone honest .
4 Comments, 10 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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keeping your lover 10/24/2004
It, s really easy what it take, s to get your lover is what
it take, s to keep them. If you wine and dine them then don, t
stop just because you have been together for a while. You
still need to let them know you really still rock my world.
I seen to many that once they get together for a while all
of the spark, s are gone you have to keep it going. If not
then you or your lover will look ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
30 Votes
,7.46 Score
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patience time 10/22/2004
Ok,
He wants to see me. He is adorable and thoughtful. He is so
funny and charming. Then He gets tired and stops stroking
my hair. He stops letting me know He wants me there.
<br>
Is He afraid i will think we will scene/make love/ or whatever
and does He have to shut down to show me i should not hope (for
all time or even that night)? Do i stay and just massage His
feet, or is ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
35 Votes
,7.11 Score
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Think Smart 10/21/2004
We have to think very good step by step how to keep having
a good relationship, it is good to have good talks all the
time and trust, we the trust it is lost, almost everything
can be lost, that doesn't mean that it will be done,
but it is important you try to get the trust back in your couple,
relationships are difficult in all the situations, woman
with a woman, man with a woman, man with ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
28 Votes
,6.32 Score
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here is what i think to biuld a relationship 10/19/2004
to build a relationship you must be true and onist to each
other, be very open minded, loveing , carring and trust
oneanouther.do what he wants and then do what she wants
to do and i think the two most importent things are to be very
romantic and trust each other.
0 Comments, 17 Views,
10 Votes
,5.58 Score
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is it possible to have a wife for sex and one for a companion 10/18/2004
Well i find myself in a odd situation. i am married and that
is the best thing that ever happend to me, but i also seem
to now have a extra wife with no sex involved. This is how
it happened. My wifes cousin was going through a break up
after ten years with her boy friend. My started
baby sitting for her on a regular basies and so i started
chatting with her a lot when i went to pick up ...
3 Comments, 98 Views,
21 Votes
,6.47 Score
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Hmm really 10/16/2004
What do women really want in a relationship?
1 Comments, 48 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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One Day at a Time 10/14/2004
The most important lesson I have learned since my divorce is to take one day at a time and keep my face in the healing light. I have met several interesting people on this sight and will likely meet more in the days ahead. After a few misadventures (which taught me much) I have come to the conclusion to savor each day and each new friend I make. Communication is the key and needs to be from ...
1 Comments, 58 Views,
25 Votes
,7.56 Score
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RE: This Section is misnamed.....Part Two 10/13/2004
Hi again loner,
I haven’t been able to get you off of my mind. The reason for that is, while I feel I gave you good advice in my initial response to you…….it wasn’t what you asked for, was it? So, I’m putting out my hand in friendship to you. My profile is turned off; has been for quite a while now………..for more than one reason, but you ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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The Bird and The Monkey a Holloween story 10/13/2004
Once upon a time, there was a man who was a waremonkey. What is a waremonkey? You heard of a warewolf? This guy was a waremonkey.
On the night of the full moon he would turn into a waremonkey. But, not just an ordinary waremonkey, a very ugly waremonkey. Tall and skinny with a big head that still
retained some human features.
When the moon was full, he would go away and hide in a ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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Getting over the past 10/12/2004
I recently clued my girlfriend into what my sexual past
was like. i was a swinger and she feels that because I enjoyed
it I may not be satisfied with just her. I tell her repeatedly
to watch my actions to see if I'm pleased, which I am
completely but she still has this doubt that I can settle
for one when i can have many. What should I do?
1 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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RE: "This Section is Misnamed" 10/12/2004
Hi Loner,
Your article caught my eye, which in turn caused me to look
up your previous articles. I have placed a few quotes here,
in case you’ve forgotten what you have written. I did not
change a word of what you wrote, or correct any misspelling.
These are exact quotes.
<br>
IN THIS ARTICLE, YOU TALK ABOUT A YOUNG GIRL SERVICING YOU.
“I said are you not going ...
2 Comments, 77 Views,
39 Votes
,7.96 Score
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how can i get my relationship back together 10/11/2004
my relationship with my wife is falling apart .what way should i go and how should i do it,please give me some pointers,i would love to find out.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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best way to develop a long distance relationship 10/10/2004
what is best way to develop a long distance relationship with someone you care about when she cares a whole lot about you
0 Comments, 19 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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sorry guys we get a lot of mail 10/10/2004
i would like to reply to the gentleman who said he thought women who dont respond early to offers of meeting in person were only looking for attention. you are right. we do want attention. isnt a big reason for wanting to have sex with another person to get someone to pay a little bit of attention to us? we all can do the physical part of achieving orgasm on our own. someone else being there ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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what can you do? 10/9/2004
Is there a way to try and make a relationship new and fresh, once you've already been through the drama? I was with a woman that I liked a LOT and did a lot of first time things with, sexual and non-sexual, but she's a bit abusive. How would I be able to figure a way out for her not to be so violent? I'm not going to hit a woman, but I think that she needs help. How is it possible to start ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
1 Votes
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re: first timer 10/7/2004
to anyone who thinks this website doesn't work to find
a great relationship, I am here to say thats B.S.!!! My lover
and I met on here under single profiles! After receiveing
his 1st email, we chatted numerous times both on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site and
private IM addy's! I am a woman with severe raging hormones
whom had had 1 bad relationship after another and was really
looking to meet a guy who could ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
27 Votes
,8.08 Score
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I'm a first timer!! 10/6/2004
I am a first timer user of this service and i am interested
to know if it really works. My friends say its just a con.
So im asking u the users to prove my friends wrong and hopefully
open my eyes to what this service can really deliver!!
2 Comments, 24 Views,
29 Votes
,5.15 Score
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XXX Sex What Next????? OOPS! 10/6/2004
If you will look in the dating section I sent a suggestion for this question. I sent it to the wrong catagory however! Sorry. But please follow the advice there it's pretty sensible. Don't blow a good thing out of proportion, relax and let things go where they will.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
1 Votes
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honor & fidelity 10/5/2004
Well, to start off with, i admit to NOT being the most perfect
male in the world. I have been married three times. One thing
I am very sure of is that I have never been unfaithful or cheated
on my exes. This often is not appreciated by women. Being
the good guy is not always the best. As far as sex- well, with
all three of my exes I was always ready, no matter what- and
usually ready ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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is trust really wat makes a relationship last? 10/5/2004
i was in a 2 yr relationship and i didnt trust my man 4 shit cuz he cheated but i still love him and i still wanna be with him is it cuz trust doesnt matter or cuz im blind?
2 Comments, 21 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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RE: Any suggestions on how to get my wife to swing? 10/4/2004
Have you discussed the possibility of doing this with her? It has always been my understanding that forcing or coercing a person such as a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife, to do something they are not really interested in or they are uncomfortable with could be disasterous to the relationship. I know one woman who divorced her husband because he took her to dinner with a couple that he ...
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XXX Sex...now what?? 10/2/2004
It can be tough forging a strong bond with a new partner.
Especially when the First Date is perfect in every way.
How do you build deeper ties with someone you just met
when you feel as if you have known him/her forever?
<br>
From the second we started to chat, we were at ease with each
other like you wont believe...It was uncanny!!
Barely one hour after we first met, she said ...
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Laying the foundation. 10/2/2004
If you have sex right away forget about building a relationship.
You always want to have two or three things that are unknown
in building a relationship, sex, income, and desires.
What do you think about that seriously
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12 Votes
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Having an Affair 9/29/2004
Is it really that bad if you cheat on someone and they never
find out???
2 Comments, 29 Views,
4 Votes
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Does a lap dance matter? 9/28/2004
I recently posted this on the "love" section, but only got votes, and no replies....would like to hear people's views on my situation.
My b/f and I have been together for 8 months and he recently went on a boy's holiday for a few days. . . .
knowing they would visit the odd one or two strip clubs, i asked him to promise me not to have a private lap dance as i don't like the idea of him ...
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3 Votes
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After Sex on the 1st Date 9/28/2004
It may be tough to build a commited relationship with someone you had sex with on the first date, but I believe it's possible. If you're attracted to someone, will that connection and vibe, and you happen to take it to that level on the first date, just remember that you'll hae to make time to make up the steps you skipped. Say there are 5 steps to having a complete relationship, with sex being ...
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How do you stay with the same girl forever? 9/28/2004
Me and my girl have been together for about 7 years or so and recently I can't help looking more at other women. I have tried but can't. Any suggestions?
1 Comments, 64 Views,
3 Votes
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How do you make friends with girls? 9/27/2004
What would I say, when I find beautiful girls? What would
I say, when I call the girls?I want know that how do you make
friends with your favorite girls.How do you become lover?
0 Comments, 11 Views,
35 Votes
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Talking , Conversation & Stress in a Relationship 9/27/2004
I am a true believer that when it comes to building a great
relationship that your partner & yourself needs to
communicate to each other. There are alot of broken relationships
due to noncommunication. Let's see some of the examples
of when you are in a relationship you need to tell your partner
about your day, about your feelings & just anything
that you think needs to be brought up. Maybe ...
2 Comments, 196 Views,
34 Votes
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woman are u shy? 9/26/2004
I have been now up to two month active in searching relations.
and guess what i have sent dozins of emails (i know my pictures
arent great) to different people and got only two aswers
and even from those one is shy and doesnt know what she wants
and another just too far. i wonder why the people register
themselves and advertise themselves as open and willing
to try new things when they ...
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re trust 9/25/2004
If you can not trust the person that you want. Then you have
no need tobe in that relationship. That goes for both partners.
It is not a oneway street, and a large part of that is commication
between the two.
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23 Votes
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younger women/older men.update. 9/23/2004
firstly, i would like to thank every-one who voted on my
original artical.i know people do not get the chance to
actually write back with their advice or views in this category(anyone
know why?), but all the positive votes that i recieved
made my mind up.my wife and i have now separated, amicably
i must say(phew)lol.i now live with the young lady i spoke
about and my life seems to have ...
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Getting started in a new relationship 9/20/2004
It's not going to happen if only one side of the relationship
is interested. I find this to be especially true here, lately.
I've been told that I'm "100% compatible"
with many women, and they will reply to my mail. But, when
asked if they will meet, they refuse to reply. I can only
feel that they are lying about what they want from AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site --
unless what they want is attention and no ...
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29 Votes
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Re:Re:To softtonge: Sleep with a guy on the first date or not? 9/20/2004
Thank you softtonge for your responses. I do have to say
though that if i knew that the man in florida was true that
i wouldn't even worry about anyone else at this point
in time. I wrote this artical because it was wieghing on
my mind from past experiances.Also just to let you know
i haven't meet anyone new in quite awhile but i have
made friendships from before from this site and as of ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
24 Votes
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While building a relationship whats occurs? 9/17/2004
Either the woman or man decide forget this and try an easy
way out, the other party who doesnt want this to happen will
try to keep it together. But the one who wants it to work out
will try to so hard to get out of the realationship. Why not
be honost, it will be less pain for both parties
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20 Votes
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getting better 9/17/2004
how can you build your relationship while swinging???
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15 Votes
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Truth. 9/16/2004
The first thing you need to build a relationship is the truth.
You must be open to your mate, and tell them what you want
and looking for. You will be surprise on how much your relationship
will grow, and how much fun you will have.
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20 Votes
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Re: Sleep with a guy on the first date 9/16/2004
My opinion:
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If you've done enough research into his background
and feel safe enough to sleep enough with him, sweetie,
it's YOUR sex life, not someone else's. GO TO BED
WITH HIM! If you're really concerned about how or what
he feels about you, ask him. If he's a liar or a jerk,
wouldn't you already have had a hint? (You just said
you've done your homework & felt OK ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
28 Votes
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Sleep with a guy on the first date or not? 9/14/2004
I have been on this site for six months or so and i have meet
quite a few men. I will be honest and say that i have slept
with most not all on the first meeting, but i do talk to them
and get to know them thur emails and phone calls first before
i even meet them. My question is; Is this a turn off for men
to create a realationship later on? Why is it still ok for
men to sleep with women on ...
0 Comments, 156 Views,
53 Votes
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Re: friends with benefits wanting to become more 9/13/2004
You’re not the only person to be friends with someone on
a platonic basis, and then when intimacy becomes part of
the equation, you become emotionally attached and soon
after, the relationship begins to falter. When it comes
to situations like FWB’s ‒ ‘If it ain't broke, don’t
fix it’. Trying to add terms to the agreement after it has
been signed ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
38 Votes
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i'm a bit dis-allusioned 9/10/2004
i've been a member here (both standard and silver)
for about two years. not having much luck. have gotten as
far as exchanging emails/pic's but then do not hear
from the party again. yes, i'm articulate and include
appropriate photos where required etc. i know i'm
not so ugly i scare and in fact have been called
handsome by many women. please, i'm not whinning.
not feeling sorry for ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
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Trust or money 9/9/2004
It seems that most relationships today are of one of two
flavors: either money-based or trust-based. Most guys,
sadly, cannot afford the former so they must seek the latter
either through deceptive methods or legitimate trust-provoking
initiatives.
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Therefore it begs the questions: do you think it is possible
to have a relationship based on both?
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opinion from a ladies point of view needed 9/8/2004
here goes , 18 months ago i was seeing a lady for four months
but due to circumstances we split up , it wasnt because
we were fighting or anything like that it was just that i
had to much crap goig on in my life .
now recently she rang and asked if i wanted to meet for coffee, which
we did , and yesterday i cooked her dinner at her place and
we sat and ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
16 Votes
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How can I as a woman seduce another woman? 9/7/2004
Ok I know what your all thinking, a little girl who want to
experiment. Well I actually want to seduce a woman. I have
had a thing for women for quite some time but I can't
do anything about it. I can imagine it but when I get the oppertunity
I freeze up. How can I ask another girl to have sex with me.
I really need your help.
0 Comments, 15 Views,
19 Votes
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Could it be to soon? 9/6/2004
I separated from my wife (her decision) in February of this
year. I met a wonderful woman in June and we have been seeing
each other ever since.
My problem is I am not sure if this is the right time, the right
person, or if she is just a rebound type relationship.
I enjoy spending time with her, and miss her when I am not
with her and we have started to build a great friendship,
but I ...
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re:dcw777 9/5/2004
dcw777 I am in the same boat.if she truly has feelings for
you there will not be worries no matter how many men are chasing
her.have faith in each other.I love to use the phone as well
to keep in touch, but that might not be an option for you.If
she says there is no one else then take it at face value.You
needing reassurance puts stress on the relationship.Good
Luck Bearcat4332
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23 Votes
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Long term relationship 9/4/2004
I would like some advice on keeping a longterm relationship
alive and well!
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We have already met, I spent over a week's time at er
home city and wonder now that we're apart how can we
keep the sparks aflame? We plan to meet again sometime early
next year and correspond on the internet as well as with
snail mail.
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It is wonderful but Im worried about the ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
43 Votes
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Response to I Am Curious About You Women 9/1/2004
Your questions are a little confusing. You say you really
enjoy making love to women. (I also saw your post under the
advice column.) What do you mean, “I shouldn’t have to have
sex with a woman in order to keep her?” You also say women
leave you and want to come back at times. Maybe it’s because
they’re hoping that this time you will make love to them ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
39 Votes
,5.84 Score
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Do Men actually mean it when they want to come see you? 9/1/2004
I have chatted to many guys who love bbw woman, but when
it comes to seeing them and getting some action they shy
away.Like they can't add up to what I have to give.A
whole lot of energy I want to burn having sex.
bearcat4332.
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47 Votes
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HELP! I know u've heard it before! 9/1/2004
My one night stand originally was just a guy to have sex with.
My personality is hard to pinpoint... I am a hip-hop diva
but I like Nascar and racing. So when this guy and I guy started
to hit it off... I wanted to slow it down a ton. But, it wasn't
goin to work that way. Over time we were there for each other
and some of those times... it really felt nice. We were never ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
23 Votes
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Meeting women for discreet relationships. 8/30/2004
Hi! This question is directed at the women: "married
but looking"
I am a 39 Yr old man who just got started on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site. I am in a
relationship but it's really not a happy one. I would
like
have to meet new women but I run a small business and don't
much time to stay online chatting for any great lengths
of
time. When I am not working I usually spend time with my 10
Yr. old playing ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
39 Votes
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What it needs! 8/30/2004
Hello!
I'm here just to say a words considering the building
of a relationship. Well, the first thing that comes to my
mind is that a guy and a girl don't love each other when
they start dating...That's obvious! Love supposes
partnership, sharing feelings of happines as well as sadness.
Love is beyond passion! So what i say is that to love someone
you must know that person as anyone ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
16 Votes
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Don't count out someone before your relationship blossoms! 8/29/2004
Far too many times I have seen people think they know someone
because they have heard something about them from a friend.
Or a so called friend as it may be. People should take the
time to understand someone on a one to one basis and make
up their on mind about how they fill about that person instead
of just relying on what someone says about them. The so called
friend probably doesn't ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
15 Votes
,4.20 Score
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Easy? 8/29/2004
Is it easier to build a relationship around sex? or build
the relationship then have sex?
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11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Creating the Right Chemistry? 8/26/2004
I read both on this personals site and others that women
seek "the right chemistry" w/ a man, but few
if any that I've met realize that it takes work, patience,
and compromise to make any relationship copacetic beyond
the sex and saliva exchange. The building of a relationship?
It begins w/ deconstructing your past life, and tactful
silence until you have found likewise in a person less the ...
0 Comments, 17 Views,
40 Votes
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just sex no strings 8/25/2004
It can start out just for the sex but that can turn into a good
relationship with a future.
0 Comments, 38 Views,
80 Votes
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Don't try to run before you walk 8/24/2004
Please think about what you are doing.Some people have
been burnt before you.And they can still feel the sting.So
take it slow. But don't give up.
0 Comments, 22 Views,
39 Votes
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The Good & The Bad On Relationships 8/24/2004
Hello A.F.F members this is Pete (aka: TanHotThongGuy)
about to share my personal views on relationships.
<br>
Relationship could be great with that special somebody,
but the hardest thing in a relationship is finding ones
compatible partner. A partner who matches up with your
personality, energy level, sexual appetite & sexual
talents, etc.
We usually tend to choose are ...
0 Comments, 20 Views,
28 Votes
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honesty is always the best policy 8/23/2004
My wife and i have been married for ten years and we have a
great relationship. I told her from the beginning that
if we were going to have a strong relationship that we needed
to be honest with each other and to not let our honesty with
each other hurt any feelings. We struggled with it at first
trying to find the right way to tell each other stuff without
being too harsh about it and ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
22 Votes
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my first encounter with a stranger & having sex 8/20/2004
I had been to a film wearing a sari. I had to sit next to a guy.
As I was watching the film the guy touched my boobs.but I
hit him, even then he did it. I was thrilled by his touch and
let him do it. He pulled my hand and made it rest on his pant
with his hard cock inside and slowly made me unzip it and
lo suddenly his hard cock shot up and he made me stroke it.
In the interval we both saw ...
5 Comments, 183 Views,
75 Votes
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Ten things !!! 8/19/2004
Ten things I have learned from my cat..!!
1. Always be ready to play. Know how to recognize the playful
look in the person you love, and immediately start playing.
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2. When you are happy to see someone, stretch your arms up
to him or her and ask to be picked up.
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3. If the person you love forgets to feed you dinner, don't
take it personally. Instead, run to ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
52 Votes
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where are all the good guys 8/18/2004
why is it so many guys now a days are just lookin to meet and
have sex anymore . what happened to realtionships , i dont
know if its me or if its the guy but everyone i have talked
to just wants to have sex and maybe hang out toghther , am
i not realtionship materail or what , i have been singel
for awhile but would like to meet a guy for a realtionship
but where do u find guys who want one ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
23 Votes
,6.98 Score
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Starting a Sexual Relationship 8/18/2004
How do I start a sexual relationship? Can I just jump on in
to fucking the minute we meet or do I have to take it slow and
get to know the person first?
0 Comments, 10 Views,
25 Votes
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the do nots when trying to build a relationship... 8/17/2004
1. cheat on her/ him!
2. lie to her/ him!
3. steal from her/ him!
4. kill her/ him!
5. call her/ his mom a witch!
6. aggree to not liking her/ his friends!
7. wreck her/ his car!
8. not call her/ him for a while!
9. show up at her/ his house in the middle of the night, drunk
and mad!
10. talk openly about your sex life with old boyfriend/
girlfriend to her/ him!
0 Comments, 18 Views,
54 Votes
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Bulding a relationship on sex? 8/15/2004
So the sex is good. No, its great. But we have so little in
common. When I think of her, I'm thinking of what we're
gonna come up with next as with regards to sex not of what
we're gonna do together. The only conversations we
had which I remember were sex oriented. I view our dating
(dinner, movies etc) as time to endure if I want to have a
good lay. A while has passed since we've been ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
49 Votes
,6.91 Score
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younger woman/older man.ladies your view please. 8/14/2004
i am a 40yr old man living on my own, as i have done for about
9yrs.i was married, but choose a career my wife did not
want to be involved in.i became a public house manager and
we lived and grew apart.although we still continued to
play the happy couple, (we used to spend a night together
every couple of months or so)we have a of 7.i have always
been second best to her family, thats been ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
26 Votes
,5.94 Score
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Are the Break Up Blue always BAD? 8/14/2004
As we all gain more knowledge in our years of maturity, it
is not uncommon to go through the ups and downs of the good
old Break-ups. To be able to survive the plethora of of emotions
that occur the question that comes to mind is wether or not
their are positives that we all feel at the immediate point
of the a break-up?....Do people feel relief at being free,
remorse at the loneliness or ...
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36 Votes
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