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We are organizing a gangbang. That sounds pretty harsh on the face of things, but it’s something we like to do. Not the organizing itself, but the gangbang. April currently has a far higher libido than I do; she has a far higher libido than just about anyone we know actually, so it makes sense to indulge her now and again. We almost always like doing these things with another couple, or single female (we’ve never had a single female who actually joined us, though many have approached us about doing so). While on the face of things you would think getting this thing together would be a simple matter of putting the plan out there and the boys would come. The majority of male profiles indicate that group sex is of interest, and males overwhelmingly populate AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site groups related to this kind of group activity. So why is it that when one actually starts to look for perspective bangers, it’s slim pickings. There will always be a pretty strong initial response to a post; emails and posts in response will give you an idea of what you’re up against. This time in large red type we include a bit about not confining responses to a single line, and including pictures. A survey of the initial responses shows about 80% are one line, and one or not picture. Often the one line is a defense of not having more pictures or more words. Now I fully realize that a gangbang is a different social setting than “normal” swinging situations but they are social situations nonetheless. There are types of people we don’t really want at this kind of party. Asking for people to tell something about themselves, and to show themselves, is a way of getting away from just picking people for their physical characteristics alone. There are always guys whining about not getting a break because their package isn’t big enough, they’re too young, too old, or somehow discriminated against. Well if 80% aren’t able to make a case for themselves, why shouldn’t we just pick on the basis of size and performance. Maybe these guys so charismatic that one line, not even a complete sentence in most cases, will convince others of their desirability. If that’s the case I must just be too thick. A gangbang being just another social event, we prefer to have people who will be able to socialize with each other, and the women. We want people who know how to have fun, who can work together with strangers to maximize the pleasure for everyone. “Count me in” doesn’t convey very much about what you bring to the table, the only person mentioned is “me”, while the whole thing is about the women. It’s a reoccurring theme in this blog, on this site, and in the lifestyle in general, guys are their own worst enemies. The single male (acting as singles) complain about no one listening to them, and when given a chance to say something, they come across as social retards. We aren’t looking for a pack of Neanderthals, there are venues where women don’t care about who’s doing them, but our gangbangs aren’t that kind of place. Our gangbangs are a casual, gathering where we spend a night fucking the shit out of a couple of gals without desperately swarming them. Being able to interact with the others there, to crack a joke, to do something other than just fuck is important to the way things work. The tip here is that the less you put out there in words and pictures the less chance you’re going to have of being chosen, and if we get too many of the one line no picture responses in the end we will pick strictly on appearance and size, how well do you think you’ll do on those criteria?
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This supports my theory that most single guys are on this site for one reason. It's a fantasy! It's easy to write down that you love group sex and you can pleasure many women for hours but the truth is, you can't. Most guys cower at the chance to fulfill their so called fantasies. I think most members are just playing around. We've met a lot of married guys posing as singles because they want more out of their lives. We aren't too keen on cheating but if you say you're interested, step forward or step off and stop wasting our time!
We haven't had a chance to meet many of the guys we talk to on here as they always have an excuse. We get so many apologetic emails about missing us so we hardly bother to post our outings or desires now.
I think we've got a bit of a track record to prove we have the balls to go through with the things we like doing, grow a set and join us next time guys.
Some of you singles are cool and have not let us down but I wish I could say that to more than just a handful of guys......
Ahhhh.... Now that we've got that off our chest, we hope you all have a good weekend! lol
armchairdeviant replies on 5/10/2008 1:23 pm:
We will have a good group this time, lots of regulars! If you'd like to borrow them we'd refer then to you! Just cut a hole in a piece of plywood and line them up!!! Or better yet break down and join us in a gangbang sometime!!!
Oh and the bulk of the guys here are wankers, liars, or both! Those who aren't are treasured, and busy!!! |
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