my colleagues...........
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Posted:Apr 21, 2006 6:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2006 6:13 am
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Nightguy_1961 wrote an hilarious blog about the folks he works with - go read it - worth every second. He started me thinking about my staff and...................
I am the executive director of a non-profit (and I do mean NON profit) and run a series of programs that serve the homeless. I have 7 management staff and about 40 other folks (those who are largely responsible for making things work)
Program Director #1 is a person who applied for my job and didn’t get it: She who’s butt is still frosted: this woman is the most melodramatic person I have ever met. Everything is a crisis and of course she is, according to her, the single most put upon person in the agency. BUT ‒ she’s damn good at what she does so i can't fire her dramatic self serving ass. grrrr
Program Director #2: She who needs no supervision: this woman is amazing, talented and will not acknowledge the word “no” ‒ even if it’s shouted, written down and proffered in triplicate, or served by the county constable. Excellent at her job and someone I would trust with my life but do NOT bother her with rules and regulations.
The other two PDs are” Those who do their jobs: and I say amen to that.
The Chief Financial Officer: She who works magic: is a woman who when there is no money for payroll, meets payroll; when asked for the budget figure for maintenance, provides me with a three page spreadsheet noting outstanding issues (hey, all I wanted to know was is it 5K or 10K), expenses to date and an annualized projected cost. She has made me laugh hard enough to pee my pants, and has kept the buzzards from the door for years.
The Facilities Manager: shudders or He who is bipolar: ‘nuf said
So Night ‒ I think I have more eagles than turkeys but I’d put my turkeys up against yours any day. Still, You don’t have to like who you work with, do you? You just have to work with them. And then, you get to leave and go home to your real life ‒ thank the sweet goddess.
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sex and ........................the
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Posted:Apr 20, 2006 1:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2006 8:40 am
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now i'm not young
i'm not ancient either. and my Sir and i tend to be a bit .....vocal. He says it's me but i say if He didn't drive me there...oh well, you all get the drift.
the issue is not who makes the noise but the sheer fact that we do and that both of us have . we try to be circumspect and only engage in "activities" when they are gone but they all seem to have some weird intutive sense that we might be having fun and regularly arrive at inopportune moments.
and now, the weather is warm and the windows are open - so it isn't just the who might hear the random scream.
help.............
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presumed innocent...
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Posted:Apr 20, 2006 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2006 5:57 am
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recently in a chat room, a person was told that they were appalling and not worthy of collaring.
now, i wasn't there but i do know the woman and not only is she sincere, funny, smart and intuitive, i simply can't imagine her doing anything worthy of such indictment.
my concern is that there is no way to really tell who is real in a chat room. and unless you know a person, how can you presume to judge at all, let alone so harshly? it yet seems to happen more and more frequently.
so, people in glass houses............yanno?
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truth be told
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Posted:Apr 16, 2006 9:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2006 2:02 pm
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truth be told, i don't much care for vanilla sex and i include oral and anal in there altho many would say that's more like vanilla with whipped cream
now, after a long day and late at night, i suppose it's okay - sends me off to sleep but in general - i find it boring
there was a sex in the city episode where the writer lady was big time into this guy - they kissed, were incredibly passionate and then hopped into bed and the ennui was written all over her face - she might as well have just read a book while he ploughed silently away
so my question
what floats your boat?
what makes your teeth ache?
what makes you scream his/her name out?
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open your heart
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Posted:Apr 14, 2006 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2006 5:24 pm
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a haiku for my sir
I opened my heart
And finding nothing to fear
I gave it away
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rules to live by..........
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Posted:Apr 14, 2006 10:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2006 3:40 pm
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someone sent this to me in one of those "mail this to 6 people or you die" emails. since i didn't, i may not be alive much longer so i figured i'd share. i am a particular fan of rules #9, 11 and 14.
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone
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Spring am sprung, the grass am rizz.....
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Posted:Apr 12, 2006 9:19 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2006 9:22 am
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At this most miraculous time of year, I am offering thanks for many things
For family
Moms - who give each of us the skills we need to survive and then adds wings so we can live our dreams
Dads - who protect and defend and whose sheer presence makes a feel safe
Sisters - with whom we can cry until the pain eases and laugh until we cry
Brothers - who show us that men can be strong, courageous, gentle and lets face face it, a real pain in the butt
Lovers - who make us open, test us, strengthen us, support us, make us beg for more
for meaningful work
for health
for words - from the people we love, from books, from blogs, and their power to heal and build
for the daily joys of living - a sunrise, a good burger, the sounds of playing in the snow, taking a shower, that first cup of coffee, shared laughter, and just knowing the day is ahead of you waiting for you to fill it with life and loving and living
for my beautiful - and his abiding spirit and heart
for love in all of its configurations and manifestations and for finding a love of my own at this late (saggy) stage of my life - grins
and a wish
that all of you that I hold dear to me, that live in my heart every minute of every day will find joy and peace and ease this season and for all the days to come
oh...one more wish
that our next president will be a democrat - with an IQ over 70
For springtime is love time
and vive sweet love
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male versus female
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Posted:Apr 11, 2006 10:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2006 8:48 am
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A Spanish teacher was explaining to her class that in Spanish, unlike English, nouns are designated as either masculine or feminine.
"House" for instance, is feminine: "la casa."
"Pencil," however, is masculine: "el lapiz."
A student asked, "What gender is computer?"
Instead of giving the answer, the teacher split the class into two groups, male and female, and asked them to decide for themselves whether "computer" should be a masculine or a feminine noun. Each group was asked to give four reasons for its recommendation.
The men's group decided that computer should definitely be of the feminine gender -"la computadora", because:
1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic;
2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else;
3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long term memory for possible later retrieval;
4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessories for it.
The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be Masculine - "el computador", because:
1. In order to do anything with them, you have to turn them on;
2. They have a lot of data but still can't think for themselves;
3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem; and
4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you had waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model.
The women won.
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a wise woman
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Posted:Apr 10, 2006 6:47 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2006 2:06 pm
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An old woman was travelling in the mountains and saw a glint in the cold stream running past her feet. She knelt and plucked a precious stone from the water then placed it into her sack.
The following day, the woman met another traveller and he was hungry. She opened her sack to share her food. The hungry traveller saw the precious stone and asked her to give it to him.
She did so without hesitation and the traveller left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew that the stone was precious and would provide security for him throughout his lifetime.
A few days later, the traveller went in search of the old woman. He handed her back the stone and he said, "I give this back despite its value and ask for something of more value. Please, give me what you have within you, that you could so easily give me this stone."
this is for NightGuy because even if right now he doesn't know it - he is that old woman.
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men and their....equipment
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Posted:Apr 8, 2006 6:22 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2006 8:40 am
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now i do believe that if you put a group of women together in a room, within 15 minutes somehow the subject of boobies will come up
so with men and their...accoutrements... well, it may not be discussed but oh how they do love their cocks
face it ladies - they like your melons, are very fond of your pussy but they LOVE their cocks
so many pictures here on AdultFriendFinder xmatch Sex Finder Site xmatch Sex Finder Site of men holding, caressing, gently proferring their dingles. sure there are pics of boobs and slash here too but % wise - more dicks per square inch of photo space than anything else.
but it isn't just the pics - it's the way they are shown or get a man on cam holding his member and watch how lovingly he plays with it -
i asked D about this - he said and i quote:
it doesn't matter what it looks like, big, small, thick, whatever - a man's cock is his
energetic center and of course we love him
some have even gone so far as to give him a pet name - shakes her head in wonder
so, and this is just for the ladies - does your man have a nick for his nack?
let's share - i can imagine it will blow the subject of tatas right out of our heads
grins
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men and being ill
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Posted:Apr 7, 2006 11:52 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2006 8:46 am
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i love my
i really do
honest
but when he's sick, he's just like his dad
grouchy, miserable, demanding, snippysnappy
what is it with men and illness?
i've never known one who handled it well
like we women do - grins
with grace
aplomb
stoicism
anyone got a man that doesn't wimp out when he's sick?
tell me if you do
tho i doubt i'll believe you
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for those that cared
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Posted:Apr 6, 2006 2:15 pm
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2006 11:48 am
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a profound thank you for those that cared, about my , and me and for your support and prayers
interesting as well to find out who couldn't really be bothered - shrugs
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it has come to my attention........
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Posted:Apr 2, 2006 6:23 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2007 9:41 am
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people say i am very serious -
i wish they could see me as i am in real life, i laugh loud and long and as often as possible.
i am silly and goofy and will dance just about anytime, anywhere. i loathe chores, and will do most anything to avoid them. so just to let you know a bit more about me:
some of my favorite things
sounds of playing hoop in my yard
the smell of burning leaves
when my laughs, really laughs
the ocean
reading
picking up the phone and hearing my Mom's voice
the feel of the sun on my back
the smell of a baby's head
the sound of a flogger against my skin
the sweet ache of passion
film noir
the Times crossword puzzle
driving a long distance on a clear sunny day
jazz and blues
the smell of the earth in the spring and the smell of rain hitting hot asphalt in the summer
waking up when i don't have anyplace i need to go
blueberry pie
huge family gatherings where everyone is talking at the same time
hot bread
storms
some things i don't like
feeling ashamed
being told no
when bad things happen to good people
laundry
being too far away to just drop in on someone i love
cruelty, duplicity, lies, condescension
shoveling snow
getting out of a warm bed in winter
saying goodbye
anchovies
soggy pizza crust
what do you like? what floats your boat?
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